What Are Your Unpopular RELATIONSHIP Opinions?

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

Just seeing the OP I already know he jacked this thread from LSA


-dikk size is important, don't listen to what women tell you
-A woman that is heavy into social media is not a woman you will have a healthy relationship with

 

[SadimirPutin]

Many people who complain about drama in relationships secretly love the toxic nature of constant drama.....

Never ever sleep with a woman you would absolutely never want to have a child with no matter how fine she is.....go beat your shyt til common sense takes hold of you

I believe in equality for women...but I think most women enjoy gender roles far more than they front on....

In affairs of the heart...learn to take small L's instead of big ones or CONTINUOUS ones

Sometimes it will feel like women who "get" you arent really out there....women feel the exact way....

Be polite and be a gentleman...This does not depend on the woman....If she is an ungrateful classless human being thank the world for doing you a favor and letting you see them for what they are early...you are being a gentleman for YOURSELF

It would be helpful for people who start lusting after someone to tell their partner about it before it devolves into actual infidelity....much healthier and saner outcomes would happen

 

[Theraflu]

A theoretical "soulmate" exists, you're just unlikely to ever meet them.

There is no reason to be persistent when pursuing any one particular person. If they're interested, you'll know.

Furthermore, anything other than "yes" is a "no," and if you have to guess whether someone is interested, they're probably not.

 

[EndDomination]

No such thing as "meant to be." You can probably find another 1000 people you'd be just as compatible with if you keep looking.
No such thing as "soul mates."
Being broke and in a relationship is almost always a bad idea, it just causes unnecessary friction.
People with kids should only be in relationships with people with kids.

 

[philmonroe]

No such thing as "meant to be." You can probably find another 1000 people you'd be just as compatible with if you keep looking.
No such thing as "soul mates."
Being broke and in a relationship is almost always a bad idea, it just causes unnecessary friction.
People with kids should only be in relationships with people with kids.

I agree with all of this esp the last two.

 

[philmonroe]

Dp

 

[Yesterday]

White women willingly bring more to the table than bw

BW seem to think doing things for a bf is weak, and we tend to take pride in doing things. It's weird because even without all that white privilege, bw think they're God's gift to earth. I'm still only marrying black tho.

 

[BocaRear]

I'd say that 80% of people are only together because they fear being alone

 

[Yesterday]

^^ maybe even more than that.

I think men as a whole need to step up and start demanding more from women. Times have changed and it's gotten to the point where we have to be fluid with expectations with a woman but we are seen as weak when we step outside of our gender norms. I have no desire to step outside of my male expectations, but I'll be damned if I am expected to cater to a woman but am looked at as sexist for having requirements of my own.

p*ssy has always caused men to settle and over look stuff, but we need to take back the power dynamics because it's not going well in the hands of the modern woman.

 

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

Staying in a shytty situation for the kids or just to keep up appearances is the dumbest thing you could ever do. Ya kids can pick up on that negative energy and you'll only be hurting them in the long run.

Tough lesson to learn but :yehsrug: I saw all the warning signs YEARS ago but chose to stick around because I made the mistake of getting comfortable.

Edit: and downright being lazy because I didn't want to "start over".

Nah. At some point you're gonna need to get over yourself and do what's best for everybody.

 

[FTBS]

• We have broken families not because women choose bad men but because men don't like monogamy and women are no longer going to stick it out in hurtful situations like previous generations did.
• A woman is dumb as hell to get pregnant now a days without being married first. Also, pregnancy "accidents" are actually pretty rare. If u get pregnant it's more than likely on purpose.
• A lot of relationships are fukked now a days because men and women want to live in a state of perpetual adolescence.
• It's strangely ironic that men want women to have a low body count, but will pressure every one they meet to fukk ASAP or they leave. It's like ur directly creating the very problem you claim to dislike.
• Some people like being treated like shyt because they like earning affection. They will shyt on good people and worship a$$holes.
• Average blk men and women think they are too good for each other.

Good post. I must take issue with the bolded however.

We have broken families because men are allowed to be weak and far too many women not only tolerate but reward said weakness. There are plenty of men that are capable and willing to be monogamous. These guys tend to garner less female interest.

There is nothing ironic about it. It's blatant hypocrisy. And it's okay. There are certain things that men do that they don't want their women doing just like there are certain things that women do that they don't want their man doing. Just because a man wants you to fukk HIM ASAP doesn't mean he wants you to fukk everybody ASAP. Beyond that the guys doing all this pressuring aren't usually the ones concerned about body counts.

My opinions:

Women hold "nice guys" accountable for what the "bad boys" to do them. They take their frustrations with the a$$hole out on the pushover.

People are fukking too much and too freely and that is negatively impacting relationships and in turn the families that are spawned by these relationships. You are less likely to jump into a toxic relationship with a person you haven't had sex with. You obviously can't have a kid by a person you haven't fukked. Both genders are too preoccupied with sex.

 

[666 ReVeNGe 666]

Just seeing the OP I already know he jacked this thread from LSA


-dikk size is important, don't listen to what women tell you
-A woman that is heavy into social media is not a woman you will have a healthy relationship with

Elaborate about social media ...

Like IG thots?

 

[feelosofer]

If both parent's don't have steady employment they shouldn't have chidren.

Male or female, if you have more than 3 children before 30 and you're not married, you have poor decision making.

Body counts matter for men too.

'True Love' does not trump reality.

 

[Athenna]

• We have broken families not because women choose bad men but because men don't like monogamy and women are no longer going to stick it out in hurtful situations like previous generations did.
• A woman is dumb as hell to get pregnant now a days without being married first. Also, pregnancy "accidents" are actually pretty rare. If u get pregnant it's more than likely on purpose.
• A lot of relationships are fukked now a days because men and women want to live in a state of perpetual adolescence.
• It's strangely ironic that men want women to have a low body count, but will pressure every one they meet to fukk ASAP or they leave. It's like ur directly creating the very problem you claim to dislike.
• Some people like being treated like shyt because they like earning affection. They will shyt on good people and worship a$$holes.
• Average blk men and women think they are too good for each other.

It seems like the vast majority of us men lead a Do as I say not as I do sort of lifestyle and in most cases are just as much likely to not take accountability for our actions just like the women we shame for doing the same thing.

I completely agree with the bolded.

 

[Mugenight]

Keep them

No No you keep it I insist.