What does a submissive woman do for her alpha man in a romantic dynamic?

[Hazel Brown]

I didn't even see his post.

@Still Benefited

you still dropping gems i see. I'm going to borrow the parrot line. I love that

I’m not a parrot though

 

[O.T.I.S.]

yup. nikkas like @O.T.I.S. apparently
its shameful

I've never been that way. I've always been the type to appreciate the smallest things. shyt, my girl the other day took my laundry out the dryer and folded it for me. That tiny shyt alone is very meaningful to me because she didnt have to do it yet still took an extra 5 mins to do so instead of just throwing the clothing on the bed for me to fold it.

You sitting here judging and men-blaming acting like I did nothing to show appreciation for things like that

Ok, so my point is, I appreciate anything anyone does for me because they don’t have to. I was raised to be like that…

So aside from me telling her thank you, I also helped her with her business… writing her letters to clients, watched her patients, basically did whatever she asked in return.

I wasn’t perfect, but if you knew what I knew you wouldn’t be tagging me in this crazy shyt..

But if she’s keeping tabs on what she does, but not what I do, then what?

 

[TEH]

Women of the Coli hear me and hear me well.

This is the best and easiest way to control us.

If that’s what you want.

 

[Still Benefited]

wrong
went over the chicks head

the point of being submissive is literally, and simply to just give your man one less thing to think about so he can focus on a lot of harder, more important things

it's about being agreeable, so that a man doesnt always have to worry about what he is saying, doing as if he is under a microscope. the things the woman said about understanding her man, reading him and acting accordingly is the essence of it. it enables her to as I said, take not only one thing off the list of what he needs to think about, but many. The more things you take off that list, the easier you make your man's life, the more attention, energy and resources he will be able to direct towards treating the woman properly.

It goes much much deeper than that when you break it down. In this society your probably right. Sense a black man,or really any man isnt allowed to have his own agenda too different from the norm.

But the point of submissive nature of a woman is so that a woman can potentially become a similar copy of her man. Taking on his morals and belief systems. This is very important when you plan to reproduce with a woman. Not only because women are so valuable in teaching the children. But even if the mother switched up on you 10 years later. Do you realize epigenetics give the child potential to still carry the belief systems yall had at the time of birth


"Until about 25 years ago, scientists assumed that religious behaviour was simply the product of a person's socialisation – or “nurture”. But more recent studies, including those on adult twins who were raised apart, suggest genes contribute about 40% of the variability in a person's religiousness.Mar 16, 2005"


And never just believe a study,but you can know this from personal experience. Or if you have kids,certain traits they couldnt know you once had they now have.


But be careful,dating a reformed ho who still struggles with nympho urges. Or you yourself struggle with that. You can still pass that on ,no matter how well you are playing the spiritual/submissive role.

 

[Hazel Brown]

This is how my girlfriend was.

Rub the temples of my head during a migraine.

Gave me back massages because apparently I have an 80 yr old body.

Prep/cook food for me for the whole week for work.

Always told me how proud she was of me even when I felt like it was some regular shyt I did.

Just made me want to be the best version of me I could possibly be, and I was - for her. I did everything for her.

Wanted to marry that woman.

Where is she?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I’m not a parrot though

That remains to be seen

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Women of the Coli hear me and hear me well.

This is the best and easiest way to control us.

If that’s what you want.

Yep. Thats the crazy part of it. A woman catering to a man develops a level of control over us. This is how women are able to get their husband's to do what they want them to do. This is the power in being a woman. But they're so busy trying to compete with us in outright dominance (which they will never win) that they fail to see that their power lies in their sexiness and feminine qualities.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

you know what… delete. Too much personal shyt

But I’ll just say I appreciate women and all they do for me. But if you throw it in my face because you mad or trying to manipulate me then

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

What would be her detriment?

I’m not going to tell/let a woman do something that is gonna hurt her. My thing is, I’ve been in a relationship with a woman who lets say, iron my clothes before work. I appreciate it and would do things she would like or ask for too

I wasn’t perfect but like I said, if you keeping tabs and throwing it back in my face then don’t do it. Some WILL do that but act as if nothing is wrong with it

Bro I've seen some men dog women out. Bad. If a woman gives herself to the wrong man, he can have her out here bad.

You're a good brotha who wouldn't do that. But there are some dudes out here who would.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Bro I've seen some men dog women out. Bad. If a woman gives herself to the wrong man, he can have her out here bad.

You're a good brotha who wouldn't do that. But there are some dudes out here who would.

Yeah man I know.. giving themselves to the wrong dude happens daily..

You saw my post of how I showed my appreciation to women I considered good women and “submissive”.

I don’t even like calling it that. If it’s love you do for me and I’ll do for you.

My point to the other person is, there are some women who do things like that and as soon as an argument pops off, or something they don’t like, or they want to manipulate you into doing something, they’ll list things they’ve done and completely ignore yours. That was my only warning to men with a woman they consider submissive.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Women of the Coli hear me and hear me well.

This is the best and easiest way to control us.

If that’s what you want.

just think about what you are saying though. does controlling someone even sound like a loving fun time?

i'm more so impressed and content if you can control yourself. you either gonna be into me enough to treat me how you want to be treated or it may not be meant to be, AND THAT'S FINE!

"control" is giving parental, and i don't have kids for a reason lol

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Yeah man I know.. giving themselves to the wrong dude happens daily..

You saw my post of how I showed my appreciation to women I considered good women and “submissive”.

I don’t even like calling it that. If it’s love you do for me and I’ll do for you.

My point to the other person is, there are some women who do things like that and as soon as an argument pops off, or something they don’t like, or they want to manipulate you into doing something, they’ll list things they’ve done and completely ignore yours. That was my only warning to men with a woman they consider submissive.

Yeah I mean, I don't think none of us are out here calling it being "submissive to us" (contrary to what the brehette @Booksnrain thinks).

It's one of those things that none of us label and it just happens. I would never get in a conversation with a woman and tell her "you should be submissive to me."

Its like, who even says something like that?

That's not even how ppl talk. And maybe that's what Books was trying to say. That she's running into foolish dudes that are out here approaching her saying stuff like that. And if that is indeed what is happening, then I would agree with her that that is crazy.

I've never told a woman to submit to me. It just naturally happens cause of the way I carry myself. I carry myself in a way where a woman knows that if she's with me, I'm in charge. I don't do 50/50 co partnerships.

Does that mean I don't appreciate my woman? Does that mean I don't value her thoughts?

Quite the contrary. I value her so much that I will do everything to protect her and keep her safe. But I can't do that if she doesn't let me help her.

This has been a conversation that me and my lady have from time to time. She's an alpha woman. Which I don't mind. But you can't be alpha with me. Be alpha with everybody else. But not with me. You've gotta tone that down. If you had bounced that situation off of me and let me give you some advice, it could have turned out much better than it did. Let me help you.

That's what I'm here for. Lean on me. Depend on me. Let me be there for you and you be there for me.

 

[Spectre]

If a woman gives herself to the wrong man, he can have her out here bad.

there are some women who do things like that and as soon as an argument pops off, or something they don’t like, or they want to manipulate you into doing something, they’ll list things they’ve done and completely ignore yours. That was my only warning to men with a woman they consider submissive.

Both of you guys are right.

It's a bitter cycle.

Some women do all these things and still get taken advantage of and become bitter and more defensive.

It sucks because for some reason those guys always get to these girls first before good guys get a chance. Then good guys see dude taking advantage of most of these women and think oh so I gotta be a jerk to get these girls huh, aight say less.

The cycle continues

Also there was a girl who was always trying to get at me by doing the most but I would always keep the distance and indirectly let her know she's not really my type. I would tell her nah I'm good but I appreciate the gesture etc.

One day we all went out and got pizza. She paid randomly before we even noticed. Couple weeks later her and I have a back and forth about some thing silly. She said "I've been a great friend to you. I even fed you!"
I said fed me? when was this?
"remember when we all went out for lunch?"
hmm....."Pizza?!!! lmao lemme pay u back right now for those 2 slices"

girl was a trip. She was funny tho but terrible at relationships

 

[Hazel Brown]

just think about what you are saying though. does controlling someone even sound like a loving fun time?

i'm more so impressed and content if you can control yourself. you either gonna be into me enough to treat me how you want to be treated or it may not be meant to be, AND THAT'S FINE!

"control" is giving parental, and i don't have kids for a reason lol

I don’t think he means control in that literal sense. He means more like using your femininity and charm to get stuff from your man.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I don’t think he means control in that literal sense. He means more like using your femininity and charm to get stuff from your man.

does manipluation sound like a loving good time to you? lol, and what stuff. other than dikk and respect and loyalty, i am not sure what i need a man to give me. if i can't just get that on gp, then i don't think i would even want it. but i get most women need "stuff". i'm on some other shyt