What does a submissive woman do for her alpha man in a romantic dynamic?

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Here's what I was taught about relationships. Put the other person first. I as a man should put her first. She as a woman should put me first. If we're putting each other first, then we're both taking care of one another's needs.

Watch, you will probably have a problem with that too, right? That's bribery to you, right?

i mean if you read my other posts (and i know you have because of course, you quoted me lol) i said "treat someone the way you want to be treated off gp". general principle meaning a basic way of life, not "i'm doing this because i want something from you". so i'm glad you've realized you agree with me lol, but for some reason you just like to argue with me (even though you never have a good rebuttal to my reasoning lol). have a good one

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

I don't want a slave or maid. I know how to cook and clean for myself.

To me a submissive woman is one who trusts me and lets me take the lead.

 

[cauliflower]

hey some people just live for the moment. if she is doing all that and getting the photo ops she wants, then maybe its an equal exchange for her

Living in the moment will lead to her disappointment and humiliation especially knowing this man's past, but it's her life. . Playing the role of a man's mother or a maid will only work for so long.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Living in the moment will lead to her disappointment and humiliation especially knowing this man's past, but it's her life. . Playing the role of a man's mother or a maid will only work for so long.

i mean, i seriously doubt she is going into it thinking it's going to be a fairytale ending. doesn't dude already have multiple bms?

but for some women, it's like my mans freddie and benny say "u gonna cry in a toyota, or a maybach?"

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Yeah I mean, I don't think none of us are out here calling it being "submissive to us" (contrary to what the brehette @Booksnrain thinks).

It's one of those things that none of us label and it just happens. I would never get in a conversation with a woman and tell her "you should be submissive to me."

Its like, who even says something like that?

That's not even how ppl talk. And maybe that's what Books was trying to say. That she's running into foolish dudes that are out here approaching her saying stuff like that. And if that is indeed what is happening, then I would agree with her that that is crazy.

I've never told a woman to submit to me. It just naturally happens cause of the way I carry myself. I carry myself in a way where a woman knows that if she's with me, I'm in charge. I don't do 50/50 co partnerships.

Does that mean I don't appreciate my woman? Does that mean I don't value her thoughts?

Quite the contrary. I value her so much that I will do everything to protect her and keep her safe. But I can't do that if she doesn't let me help her.

This has been a conversation that me and my lady have from time to time. She's an alpha woman. Which I don't mind. But you can't be alpha with me. Be alpha with everybody else. But not with me. You've gotta tone that down. If you had bounced that situation off of me and let me give you some advice, it could have turned out much better than it did. Let me help you.

That's what I'm here for. Lean on me. Depend on me. Let me be there for you and you be there for me.

Thats real

The men I chill with don’t talk like that or even discuss it.

As you saw in my deleted post, I was trying to protect my ex’s BUSINESS… now that I look back, I should’ve just said/did nothing and let it burn. Obviously, it affected me none. But according to some on The Coli, I didn’t appreciate her because she would throw ironing my clothes in my face

And when old girl called me because she needed to get away from her abusive ex (again.. he wasn’t black), I left work and got her because I appreciated her and what she did for me.

 

[Jay Kast]

Where is she?

She passed away. Last month. Still can't process it.

 

[Hazel Brown]

She passed away. Last month. Still can't process it.

Oh no, I’m so sorry. Seeing you my condolences. May she RIP.

 

[Ron Mexico]

Before Cam



After Cam



money talks

 

[Leasy]

That jawn a bird she said a bunch of nothing in that video

 

[Koba St]

They’re “submissive” as long as the money flows.

 

[Uchiha God]

The way this submissive conversation has my people in a chokehold. Lord please set my people free

 

[George's Dilemma]

A side of me finds it creepy that she said she studies him, takes note of his needs in the morning, in evening, knows when to pack his bag. Being self aware in a relationship is one thing, but having a parter acting like an algorithm is something else entirely. I'd feel a little uncomfortable with that level of "submission", I'd feel a little guilty even. Some of these women overthink it.

 

[Ron Mexico]

A side of me finds it creepy that she said she studies him, takes note of his needs in the morning, in evening, knows when to pack his bag. Being self aware in a relationship is one thing, but having a parter acting like an algorithm is something else entirely. I'd feel a little uncomfortable with that level of "submission", I'd feel a little guilty even. Some of these women overthink it.

Yeah that shyt started to sound weird.

Cam might have some problems on his hands when he inevitably dumps her. It's like two totally different people in those videos.

 

[Matt504]

her mentality didn't change at all. She's still the person from the first video.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

The way this submissive conversation has my people in a chokehold. Lord please set my people free

It is a disease. Every day there is a new podcast talking about gender roles and submission and all the other battle of the sexes hot talking points.
We love all these rules and points and yet in real life we are the least married. Smh It's very annoying