What Exactly Is A BedWench?

[Y2Dre]

Bedwench- A Black woman that dates or marries a white male in order to shield herself from white supremacy racism.

Not just ANY Black woman dating a white man.

Example: Serena Williams is a bedwench.

George Lucas’ wife is not, cuz she be finessing him and manipulating him into putting Black characters into his franchises and spending all his money.

 

[Collateral]

To me a woman is a bedwench if she’s doing shyt to the detriment of Black people. I.e Gary Owens c00ning ass wife. Same thing with the male c00ns. Another point is if they have a perference for another race and not their own.

 

[MaxPain]

You probably got negged by another Cancer

I dont beleive in that shyt lol

And I wouldnt neg someone for asking a honest question

Thats bytchmade thinking

 

[Vandelay]

The latterest statement...

Personally, I don't even care if you prefer white features...it's when you have self-hate and turn on your own for some ill-conceived benefit.

 

[MaxPain]

Bedwench- A Black woman that dates or marries a white male in order to shield herself from white supremacy racism.

Not just ANY Black woman dating a white man.

Example: Serena Williams is a bedwench.

George Lucas’ wife is not, cuz she be finessing him and manipulating him into putting Black characters into his franchises and spending all his money.

So its not the who shes dating u got a problem with, its her actions.

Im asking this cuz I never heard of the word or thought process till coli. Its an honest question cuz Ive seen it overused on here for any little thing. So I just want to see the true meaning from someone reasonable.

 

[Exlurkernegro]

I'm all for black people marrying and procreation, but carring about who others date is silly. I can't get mad at a black woman for having a white guy cause no matter the color she still ain't my girl. It's an L either way white or black guy.

I think Eve is fine as he'll, but I still ain't mad or butthurt about her relationship.

 

[Y2Dre]

So its not the who shes dating u got a problem with, its her actions.

Precisely, it’s about how she is moving.

 

[Nikki_04]

I'm probably not the best to answer, but based on what I have scene....it's any black woman that dates a non-black man (he does not need to be white).

And based on the post here, I find it weird how some people just automatically assume the black woman treats the non-black boyfriend better than the black boyfriend she had prior. How do you come to that conclusion about someone you don't even know? There's major projection of insecurity going on when the term bedwench (even bedbuck) is used.

 

[WakandanPride]

It's term used on black women to describe one who persues a interracial relationship that isn't based on genuine attraction. It's typically one where fetishism is involved, or other ulterior motives like financial security for instance.

 

[Karb]

I agree. I hate to say it but atleast half of IR dating Ive seen got some ulterior motives to it. It aint pure love

But I do think two people can just fall in love

Yeah in a race based society, there's almost always going to be a racial undertone to IR dating. It's the world we live in.

I wouldn't feel comfortable in a IR type scenario.

 

[The BasedFather]

I don’t give a damn who black women date, none of my business


If you wanna date a white dude

 

[ahdsend]

Urban Dictionary: Bed Wench

A bed wench or bed warmer was a slave woman whose job was to sleep in their slave master's bed, keeping it 'warm' so that when the slave-master was ready to have sex with them, they would be readily available.

typically, a term applied to females of African descent (but technically can be applied to all non-white women of all colors; i.e. yellow, black, brown , tan) who gives herself to white men of high status sexually in exchange for privileges, promotions, etc. at the expense of turning her back on the people in her community. The term originated from female 'house slaves' back during American slavery.

 

[get these nets]

the term itself was made very popular recently by a man with a white mother in law, so take it with a grain of salt(for the Saltine mother in law) and its a wack term....

...................however

Spoiler: not a coincidence

Zoe S., her sisters & their husbands

 

[KamikazePilot]

I don't use the term because I think it's offensive to the black woman that were raped by white men during slavery

I call them swirl c00ns because most of the times they're c00ns

I've never been told by a black woman I don't date black guys

But this one guy I was talking to he said that "I don't like black girls I need me a white Joint"

I looked at that nikka like

So all swirl c00ns can

 

[Gothboi J]

I only use the word for a female c00n. As long as u pay respect to our race ,u can fukk and cuff who u want