I agree with both parts. They wear their hurt feelings on their sleeves.....unwittingly. Past rejections and those feelings don't go away, so they find targets/scapegoats to direct that anger.
A lot of the weird stuff that goes on over the net is about unresolved feelings of rejection. I imagine that a good % of the hetero bashing that comes from the gay community is, again, feelings of hurt from being rejected by their fathers. Unresolved, so aimed at straight men in general.
I never bought the "get over it..let it go" mantra about issues.Until you resolve it somehow, you've haven't gotten over it.
*oh..and half my family in Montreal is on the inter racial express train, to the extent where if I get a wedding invitation, I have to make phone calls and ask...not traveling that far for that.....

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