What Exactly Is A BedWench?

[7th Letter Specialist]

Spoiler: not a coincidence

Zoe S., her sisters & their husbands

I wonder if these spoilers will have the same effect after this thread

 

[Karb]

So its not the who shes dating u got a problem with, its her actions.

Im asking this cuz I never heard of the word or thought process till coli. Its an honest question cuz Ive seen it overused on here for any little thing. So I just want to see the true meaning from someone reasonable.

Alotta brehs aren't being logical when they post here. It's mostly emotion. They just come here to vent out their frustrations about being single and they use TLR as some type of support group. It's why there are a million and one bedwench threads here when IRL most people don't pay that stuff no mind. The fact that they feel like they have very few options when it comes to women makes them obsess about female sexuality including this whole wenching phenomenon.

IRL your average breh couldn't care less about a wench which is partially why wenches are so agitated and aggressive online.

You never see a wench just ride off into the sunset with her "white King" and wench in peace. They want to be noticed and acknowledged. They don't get much attention out in the real world, so they post on Twitter, YouTube etc to garner attention from the very males whom they've left. It's what makes the psychology of the wench so intriguing tbh.. Even when they no longer date black men they still seek their validation somehow. It's weird.

 

[voltronblack]

Is it any black woman that dates a white man? A black woman that dates a white man just based off his race and features? Or one that gets with a white man and treats him differently than black men solely based on race?

Would a black woman who just so happen to fall in love with a white man be an issue? Even if she doesnt bash BM?

Im asking PAWGset too cuz I gotta be real the arguements I seen made up for yall dont get the same energy the other way around

Why do so many coli dudes I see go in on a BW the second shes with a white dude yet all the brehs irl I know dont really gaf?

I can honestly say most brehs see a black woman with a white guy and feel no way about it from experience. They dont really give a fukk

I have no fukks to give if a BW dates white men honestly. I dont feel intimidated by white men AT ALL. Aslong as is she isnt bashing her own. If she doesnt bash her own & just found a white man that loves her for who she is whats the issue

And another thing if a black woman smashed a white dude before me, idc either. Id care if that was her usual type, but if it was one anomaly who cares. Alotta dudes in that Brittany Renner thread were about to drink her bathwater until that pic of her with her white ex showed up. Im like wtf id still fukk that bytch to sleep lmao.

What the Coli or Tariq Nasheed call a bedwench is really a mix of the Jezebel "The Jezebel stereotype was used during slavery as a rationalization for sexual relations between white men and black women, especially sexual unions involving slavers and slaves. The Jezebel was depicted as a black woman with an insatiable appetite for sex. She was not satisfied with black men. The slavery-era Jezebel, it was claimed, desired sexual relations with white men; therefore, white men did not have to rape black women." And the sapphire stereotype "She is a shrill nagger with irrational states of anger and indignation and is often mean-spirited and abusive. Although African American men are her primary targets , she has venom for anyone who insults or disrespects her."

The Jezebel Stereotype - Anti-black Imagery - Jim Crow Museum - Ferris State University
The Sapphire Caricature - Anti-black Imagery - Jim Crow Museum - Ferris State University

 

[Karb]

the term itself was made very popular recently by a man with a white mother in law, so take it with a grain of salt(for the Saltine mother in law) and its a wack term....

...................however

Spoiler: not a coincidence

Zoe S., her sisters & their husbands

Nah, their parents lost. There's clearly a theme here lol.

 

[Ya?]

Alotta brehs aren't being logical when they post here. It's mostly emotion. They just come here to vent out their frustrations about being single and they use TLR as some type of support group. It's why there are a million and one bedwench threads here when IRL most people don't pay that stuff no mind. The fact that they feel like they have very few options when it comes to women makes them obsess about female sexuality including this whole wenching phenomenon.

IRL your average breh couldn't care less about a wench which is partially why wenches are so agitated and aggressive online.

You never see a wench just ride off into the sunset with her "white King" and wench in peace. They want to be noticed and acknowledged. They don't get much attention out in the real world, so they post on Twitter, YouTube etc to garner attention from the very males whom they've left. It's what makes the psychology of the wench so intriguing tbh.. Even when they no longer date black men they still seek their validation somehow. It's weird.

I partially disagree. Bw and non bm relationship are not numerous enough to illicit much response from BM. Let the numbers be equal then we can reassess the situation them.

Most bw who date ir are not taking bm off their dating prospects.

 

[get these nets]

I wonder if these spoilers will have the same effect after this thread

nothing changes after this thread or any thread here...........I figured that out already.

 

[get these nets]

Nah, their parents lost. There's clearly a theme here lol.

Their parents lost? Where do you think those leanings came from? Parents probably jumped for joy.

 

[MaxPain]

I partially disagree. Bw and non bm relationship are not numerous enough to illicit much response from BM. Let the numbers be equal then we can reassess the situation them.

Most bw who date ir are not taking bm off their dating prospects.

Thats not true.

 

[Karb]

Their parents lost? Where do you think those leanings came from? Parents probably jumped for joy.

You're right tbh

 

[Grand Eeezus Maxwell]

It's a tool used to assemble and disassemble bed frames

Well played.

 

[Ya?]

Thats not true.

You've had a bw say that she exclusively date non bm? And turn a bm down?

 

[Lord_Chief_Rocka]

I wouldn't say casually dating automatically= bedwench

But marry/kids=bedwench

There are just different degrees of it like anything else.

I don't see how anyone black person with an understanding of racism could fall in love with a white person

 

[MaxPain]

You've had a bw say that she exclusively date non bm? And turn a bm down?

Yes I have. But I see ur on a mission to make BW seem perfect and all black men are sellouts.

Arent u an African from the UK? Isnt IR high there esp for the women? Why cant u just answer the question without dragging BM down.

At ease.

 

[get these nets]

Alotta brehs aren't being logical when they post here. It's mostly emotion. They just come here to vent out their frustrations about being single and they use TLR as some type of support group. It's why there are a million and one bedwench threads here when IRL most people don't pay that stuff no mind. The fact that they feel like they have very few options when it comes to women makes them obsess about female sexuality including this whole wenching phenomenon.

IRL your average breh couldn't care less about a wench which is partially why wenches are so agitated and aggressive online.

You never see a wench just ride off into the sunset with her "white King" and wench in peace. They want to be noticed and acknowledged. They don't get much attention out in the real world, so they post on Twitter, YouTube etc to garner attention from the very males whom they've left. It's what makes the psychology of the wench so intriguing tbh.. Even when they no longer date black men they still seek their validation somehow. It's weird.

I agree with both parts. They wear their hurt feelings on their sleeves.....unwittingly. Past rejections and those feelings don't go away, so they find targets/scapegoats to direct that anger.

A lot of the weird stuff that goes on over the net is about unresolved feelings of rejection. I imagine that a good % of the hetero bashing that comes from the gay community is, again, feelings of hurt from being rejected by their fathers. Unresolved, so aimed at straight men in general.

I never bought the "get over it..let it go" mantra about issues.Until you resolve it somehow, you've haven't gotten over it.

*oh..and half my family in Montreal is on the inter racial express train, to the extent where if I get a wedding invitation, I have to make phone calls and ask...not traveling that far for that.....

 

[Doobie Doo]

Whose a BED WENCH

Whats a Bed WENCH

Don't know who I am, or when I'm coming so you sleep ....

Now you can Wench with this

Or you can Wench with that