What exactly is wrong with women having high standards again?

[Houston911]

Do women really have high standards though?

How often do you see women (the ones with the crazy list of expectations) with men who meet the criteria that they said they were looking for?

 

[KBtheKey]

Aint nothing wrong with it...if she a dime, and got something to bring to the table other than p*ssy. If all you got is some p*ssy then fukk yo standards hoe

Pretty much this. The worst type of people are those who really ain't hitting on shyt but have the nerve to require top tier dating partners or acquaintances. Like the bytches that go viral on Twitter because they went to eat not expecting to pay for anything.

It's alright to have some type of standards. What some women have too much of is the audacity

 

[GilSho]

Do women really have high standards though?

How often do you see women (the ones with the crazy list of expectations) with men who meet the criteria that they said they were looking for?

Yeah, the women have high standards thing is a myth. Attractive and/or accomplished women are dating and marrying below their level all the time.

I see broke and ugly dudes shooting above their pay grade in real life all the time yet the internet treats it like it seldom happens.

 

[Finesse]

The problem with a lot of square ass motherfukkers is that you think you’re owed a pretty girlfriend or a rich and handsome husband just because you exist. shyt doesn’t work like that. Not only are you not old these things you’re not guaranteed them either.

All my girlfriends have been pretty tho

Just cause you got trash standards and expectations out of life dont mean you gotta go pushing that bullshyt on others


Nothing wrong with wanting the finer things in life as long as your are doing your part and actively working for it.

Edit: People are missing the main point tho. If a man wants a pretty woman. A woman has the right to want a handsome man. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a chick being choosy. Its her fukking body, its her life, we got the power of choice and so should they. What they do with it or if they make the right choice is on them. Same way it is like that for us.

 

[PL368Z]

Why would these fathers choose rapists and wife beaters as husbands for their daughters ?

And what would these fathers do when they realized their daughters were raped and beaten
?

Yeah, Marital Rape and domestic violence were very common back in the day.

Speak for your own family.

Don't speak for mine.

Historical facts my guy.

Women were treated as commodities for the fast span of civilization, married off for varying reasons from monetary to political to social, the whole idea that fathers were marrying their daughters off to pious men is a fantasy.

 

[Phitz]

Nothing.

Women and men can want what they want.

Will they actually get what they want is something only the gods can answer.

Time will tell. The constant complaining and weirdo blame game online because they're tired of waiting is getting old. Its pathetic to see men and women in their 30s, 40s, and 50s piss and moan about each other.

Basically, like one foot in the grave with teenage problems

It's like arrested development + long term puberty. You see people(mostly women) in their 50s and 60s complaining about "dating" problems(save for divorcees/widows who were married a long time, they kind of get a pass).

Not to mention the over 35 crowd bragging about not having any kids. They'll be 60+ bragging about not having grand kids, then be in the grave bragging about how they didn't have to worry about who to give their 6 figure investments to.

It's entertaining like popping bubble wrap to discuss it here on the coli, but to deal with this in real life would seem depressing.

 

[horizon]

TLR posters recording more deflections in here than Prime Deion on a Sunday afternoon

 

[BlackDiBiase]

depends on what you call "high standards" some its the financial security of the man others its his character.

i dont know though but you are right nothings worse than seeing a pretty woman with some bum ass dude.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Yeah, Marital Rape and domestic violence were very common back in the day.

Historical facts my guy.

Women were treated as commodities for the fast span of civilization, married off for varying reasons from monetary to political to social, the whole idea that fathers were marrying their daughters off to pious men is a fantasy.

Since you didn't answer any of my questions I'll ask again:

Why would these fathers choose rapists and wife beaters as husbands for their daughters ?

And what would these fathers do when they realized their daughters were raped and beaten ?

 

[The Gentleman]

All my girlfriends have been pretty tho

Just cause you got trash standards and expectations out of life dont mean you gotta go pushing that bullshyt on others


Nothing wrong with wanting the finer things in life as long as your are doing your part and actively working for it.

Edit: People are missing the main point tho. If a man wants a pretty woman. A woman has the right to want a handsome man. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a chick being choosy. Its her fukking body, its her life, we got the power of choice and so should they. What they do with it or if they make the right choice is on them. Same way it is like that for us.

I guarantee you my standards are 10 times higher than yours. Your prettiest girlfriend probably could fukk with if wanted to. And she damn sure couldn’t afford me.

A motherfukker Getting it doesn’t need to sweat this type of bullshyt.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Do women really have high standards though?

How often do you see women (the ones with the crazy list of expectations) with men who meet the criteria that they said they were looking for?

Yeah, the women have high standards thing is a myth. Attractive and/or accomplished women are dating and marrying below their level all the time.

I see broke and ugly dudes shooting above their pay grade in real life all the time yet the internet treats it like it seldom happens.

It's not about what these dudes see. A lot of folks on here have an ax to grind. It's why a thread about women's standards will bring folks running. This same topic can get posted nonstop 3 hrs at a time for a month and trust the same folks will flock to it to give a variation of the same advice each time.

A PAWG thread will attract a bunch of dudes who are just dying to tell you they can't stand PAWGS. They are biggest joke on here by far. It's like they're trying to convince themselves.


A Lizzo thread brings folks running. I....well shyt I have no clue why she boils so much blood on here. About Damn Time is the summer jam of 2022.

And yet all this makes for an entertaining(if a little repetitive) tlr. I'm here for it and never change.

 

[Finesse]

I guarantee you my standards are 10 times higher than yours. Your prettiest girlfriend probably could fukk with if wanted to. And she damn sure couldn’t afford me.

A motherfukker Getting it doesn’t need to sweat this type of bullshyt.

Sure thing casanova I dont give a fukk

Also you having "10x standards" just proves my fukking point

If you can have these type of standards then so can women. They not delusional for having em same way you wouldnt want to be called delusional for having yours.

 

[horizon]

Do women really have high standards though?

How often do you see women (the ones with the crazy list of expectations) with men who meet the criteria that they said they were looking for?

This didn’t even begin to answer the OP’s question but what else is new

 

[The Gentleman]

Sure thing casanova I dont give a fukk

Also you having "10x standards" just proves my fukking point

If you can have these type of standards then so can women. They not delusional for having em same way you wouldnt want to be called delusional for having yours.

The problem is we were having two different conversations here. You’re talking some real square ‘kicking cans of holding hands’ type shyt. I was not.

Most of the shyt you’re talking about is just based level of attraction which overrated especially when you’re young and dumb.

Y’all complicate this shyt. Just fukk who are fukking with you within a reasonable extent of attractiveness.

 

[Finesse]

The problem is we were having two different conversations here. You’re talking some real square ‘kicking cans of holding hands’ type shyt. I was not.

Most of the shyt you’re talking about is just based level of attraction which overrated especially when you’re young and dumb.

Y’all complicate this shyt. Just fukk who are fukking with you within a reasonable extent of attractiveness.

The point of this thread is men have standards of what they want and so do women. Whatever they may be.

You the one who took it to the moon and back