What exactly is wrong with women having high standards again?

[The Gentleman]

The point of this thread is men have standards of what they want and so do women. Whatever they may be.

You the one who took it to the moon and back

Well then now I’m back with a simple answer. fukk with who is you fukking with you within reach and reason.

 

[Roid Jones]

Nothing is wrong with high standards but do they themselves meet those standards

 

[Roid Jones]

Aint nothing wrong with it...if she a dime, and got something to bring to the table other than p*ssy. If all you got is some p*ssy then fukk yo standards hoe

Exactly and that's part of the issue men just accepting pvssy and not demanding better

 

[Koli_Kat]

High and Unrealistic are two different things, OP

Women have Unrealistic standards- not high

 

[jay83]

Women can have all the standards they want but when they don’t get the results many go online and say there’s no good men. Just say you failed at getting the man you felt you deserved. But that would put direct accountability on said person.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

 

[UpNext]

Nothing. It's the inconsistency of application of said standards leading to bad outcomes and complaining that's the problem.

 

[Bumblebreh]

Nothing. It's the inconsistency of application of said standards leading to bad outcomes that's the problem.

That is their problem. You see, a complete stranger's standards and expectations has nothing to do with me, and it is not my job to humble them. I do think that the internet has skewed peoples standards since we are all exposed to attractive people, but I would not say it is gender specific.

 

[Elim Garak]

Nothing wrong with high standards but only the elite women can have unrealistic standards and actually have a meaningful relationship same with men.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

Nothing wrong with high standards but only the elite women can have unrealistic standards and actually have a meaningful relationship same with men.

elite like good looking or great person, career, family background?

 

[Elim Garak]

elite like good looking or great person, career, family background?

Good question I wouldn't say all of those necessarily you probably have to be a combination of at least good looking one of a kind personality great career or large amount of money etc.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

Good question I wouldn't say all of those necessarily you probably have to be a combination of at least good looking one of a kind personality great career or large amount of money etc.

for sure thats why i hope for more bougie blacks or more middle class to upper class black folks.

because they all come from great families that wont tolerate anything less than a college education, you cant shame the name by being a degenerate and etc.

that makes it easier to find from them a good wife, partner and mother.

 

[Houston911]

This didn’t even begin to answer the OP’s question but what else is new

Read it with your finger this time

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

It's not about how high your standards are........it's about which standards you value most.

MOST people will compromise their educational/career/economic compatibility etc., standards if the person is more physically attractive. That's usually the biggest problem for men AND women.

If someone makes our love parts happy, we ignore a lot of red flags because we enjoy seeing them naked. Arranged marriage would never work in the United States but the idea behind it is something we should incorporate....

marry who you want...but ask yourself this important question: if I couldn't smash this person and our relationship functioned like a friendship for several years..no sex....would I enjoy being around this person? If you have to think really hard about it, y'all probably aren't compatible.

Can't just love someone. It really helps to like them too.

 

[Taadow]

Do women really have high standards though?

How often do you see women (the ones with the crazy list of expectations) with men who meet the criteria that they said they were looking for?

…and there we have it.

”Standards” are great, but they are based on values that one has themselves.
”Expectations“ are based on nothing.

What seems to be happening is people having “expectations” and “preferences“ but calling them standards,
and which criteria people use to be their standards.

examples:

- 5’4” broads calling 5’7 dudes too short
- I was a prolific hoe, but you gotta wait ‘til we married for sex
- I got two kids, but I can’t date no man with a kid
- I make $40K a year, so if he make $39K he ain’t on my level
- I’m a PhD, so he gotta be one too or we won’t be equally yoked


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