It's so weird because I feel like there's this segment of men and Black men specifically, that are invisible to many ppl. Like there's a huge middle ground btwn your 20k a year retail worker and someone who makes 6 figures(which is not common).
I see these BM everyday working for waste management or the county or getting their CDLs, etc. Maybe it's my area but the women I know who aren't attached are just looking for men with their stuff together. There's never a discussion of a specific dollar amount so these discussions to me always seem so...tunnel focused.