What if she doesn't initiate text first?

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Don't tell me you out here triple texting guhs, big dawg:wow:

I'm telling y'all brehs, mayne; if she ain't Myra, then you need to bush her before you get your feelings hurt. A girl who likes you on a real tip won't be playing games bc she ain't trying to potentially lose you to another guh.

Also specifically to you @BIG MCHZE SOSA COLI GOD ... actions > words. Meaning when you hanging out around her she can be telling you all kinds of shyt making you feel good, but if she ain't responding to texts and is consistently ignoring you, then cut your losses before Delilah changes your locs to a fade.

People make time for things that are important to them. Remember that, big dawg. Stop giving these females excuses.
I'd suggest almost the exact opposite.

I don't know who Myra is, but don't chase her either.

A girl that likes you might still play games. That's even more reason why you can't be playin'. Some folks just don't know how to engage people they like.

What happens in real life holds more weight than text. Everything holds more weight than text. Get up with these broads. Call to chat a bit and plan the next get up. Save the text for, "Be there in 15 minutes" type shyt and receivin' flicks. All that text convo for what? Text takes no time. Broads can send a text while other dude in the bathroom wipin' his dikk off.
 

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I'd suggest almost the exact opposite.

I don't know who Myra is, but don't chase her either.

A girl that likes you might still play games. That's even more reason why you can't be playin'. Some folks just don't know how to engage people they like.

What happens in real life holds more weight than text. Everything holds more weight than text. Get up with these broads. Call to chat a bit and plan the next get up. Save the text for, "Be there in 15 minutes" type shyt and receivin' flicks. All that text convo for what? Text takes no time. Broads can send a text while other dude in the bathroom wipin' his dikk off.
Again to get up with her requires communication
 

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Again to get up with her requires communication
Of course, but you're talkin' about her not respondin' to texts.

Personally, there's a good chance I will miss a text I'm not expectin'. I don't keep my phone on my person. At home, it's on the bookshelf. At work, it's at the end of my desk. That little 1-beep notification is easily missed, especially if I go to the bathroom or somethin'. I check my phone on occasion for the time, to check if I missed somethin', etc.

Some folks stay glued to their phone, so I get it. But not everyone is like that.

I'm not superman and I'll tell you what worked for me every time. Holla, set up call & meet up, call and confirm meet up, meet up. This has worked since the phone was invented. Similar has worked prior to.

Never once have I relied on text as a primary mode of communication. In fact, if I call a chick for the 1st time and she text me back with anything other then, "I'm busy, I'll hit you back in a few", next.

It takes no time or effort. It can be done in the midst of doin' almost anything else. I put no stock in it what so ever.
 
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don't waste time playing the female game. if you wanna text then text, but text with a purpose. send a text like, hey i'm going to X, you wanna join? she says yes...perfect...she says no...then say cool, let me know when you're free...

that's it. don't waste any more time than that. if she hits you up in a few days, you'll know she is at least semi-interest...if not then :camby: .. you didn't waste time, money or anything on her.

this is the game men gotta play.

of course it's harder when you only got 1 or two females..then you know what to do...get more females on your phone....leave the texting shyt for after fukking.

also one other thing, girls always got time to text...ALWAYS..and when a girl is taking her sweet ass time replying to your text, then she got no respect for you and don't give a fukk about you.
 

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don't waste time playing the female game. if you wanna text then text, but text with a purpose. send a text like, hey i'm going to X, you wanna join? she says yes...perfect...she says no...then say cool, let me know when you're free...

that's it. don't waste any more time than that. if she hits you up in a few days, you'll know she is at least semi-interest...if not then :camby: .. you didn't waste time, money or anything on her.

this is the game men gotta play.

of course it's harder when you only got 1 or two females..then you know what to do...get more females on your phone....leave the texting shyt for after fukking.

This. People overthinking this shyt to much.
 

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don't waste time playing the female game. if you wanna text then text, but text with a purpose. send a text like, hey i'm going to X, you wanna join? she says yes...perfect...she says no...then say cool, let me know when you're free...

that's it. don't waste any more time than that. if she hits you up in a few days, you'll know she is at least semi-interest...if not then :camby: .. you didn't waste time, money or anything on her.

this is the game men gotta play.

of course it's harder when you only got 1 or two females..then you know what to do...get more females on your phone....leave the texting shyt for after fukking.

also one other thing, girls always got time to text...ALWAYS..and when a girl is taking her sweet ass time replying to your text, then she got no respect for you and don't give a fukk about you.
I'll give it a few days then text with an invite to do something when free if I get ignored then its the deep bushes for her.
 

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don't waste time playing the female game. if you wanna text then text, but text with a purpose. send a text like, hey i'm going to X, you wanna join? she says yes...perfect...she says no...then say cool, let me know when you're free...

that's it. don't waste any more time than that. if she hits you up in a few days, you'll know she is at least semi-interest...if not then :camby: .. you didn't waste time, money or anything on her.
If I was a texter, this is about as far as I'd go with it. The meet up is most important. The call, in the beginnin' stages, is maybe to get some feedback on when/where to meet up.

also one other thing, girls always got time to text...ALWAYS..and when a girl is taking her sweet ass time replying to your text, then she got no respect for you and don't give a fukk about you.
That's my thing. It takes no time to text. By that I mean, she could be doin' anything esle and text you back.

And, unless she's the type to stay glued to her phone, a delayed text could mean anything.
 
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If I was a texter, this is about as far as I'd go with it. The meet up is most important. The call, in the beginnin' stages, is maybe to get some feedback on when/where to meet up.

That's my thing. It takes no time to text. By that I mean, she could be doin' anything esle and text you back.

And, unless she's the type to stay glued to her phone, a delayed text could mean anything.

Breh females everywhere are glued to their phone. Even the old ladies at the receptionist check this phone once in a while.

Females always getting attention. You said it in your post "it takes no time or effort to text" .. so if you texting and she don't reply within a reasonable time, then there's no reason to spend more time texting or dwelling on it.
 

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don't waste time playing the female game. if you wanna text then text, but text with a purpose. send a text like, hey i'm going to X, you wanna join? she says yes...perfect...she says no...then say cool, let me know when you're free...

that's it. don't waste any more time than that. if she hits you up in a few days, you'll know she is at least semi-interest...if not then :camby: .. you didn't waste time, money or anything on her.

this is the game men gotta play.

of course it's harder when you only got 1 or two females..then you know what to do...get more females on your phone....leave the texting shyt for after fukking.

also one other thing, girls always got time to text...ALWAYS..and when a girl is taking her sweet ass time replying to your text, then she got no respect for you and don't give a fukk about you.


ALWAYS.

In this day and age 95% of girls have social media and are constantly on their phone doing something. Everybody has time to text back a sentence. If she don't, f her.
 

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ALWAYS.

In this day and age 95% of girls have social media and are constantly on their phone doing something. Everybody has time to text back a sentence. If she don't, f her.
I mean we enjoyed our time when we chilled and I kept the interest in the days following we will see each other soon its inevitable so if shes actin strange when we do then ima
Just ignore her the fukked up
Part is she said she had the interest and then I pursued... Something underlining going on has to be...

Im thinking that either someone told her something about me

Or she is actually that busy
 

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I mean we enjoyed our time when we chilled and I kept the interest in the days following we will see each other soon its inevitable so if shes actin strange when we do then ima
Just ignore her the fukked up
Part is she said she had the interest and then I pursued... Something underlining going on has to be...

Im thinking that either someone told her something about me

Or she is actually that busy

People make time for what they want B...
 

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People make time for what they want B...
Well next time I text, i'm just going to be very direct. Text her with what im
Doing if she wants to join if no reply then im going to call and if she cops an attitude ima say listen you really fake bytch. Go fukk yourself.
 

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Well next time I text, i'm just going to be very direct. Text her with what im
Doing if she wants to join if no reply then im going to call and if she cops an attitude ima say listen you really fake bytch. Go fukk yourself.

Not that serious...just keep it moving and never call or text the bytch...don't show these hoes any emotion...u cursing her out is showing her your feelings and she'll look at you as weak and more reason to not text u back...
 
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