What if she doesn't initiate text first?

[Dixon Cider]

Why is making an effort frowned apon?
Why We gotta play games and let days pass then text etc for fear of bothering a bytch or being too needy. Seems like having a fluid motion of a convo that spans days is an issue.

 

[Dixon Cider]

@Kavin The 1 the games we play in 2016 #july

 

[BezO]

Textin' is the least involved form of communication. First or respondin', it' takes little effort and can be sent while in the middle of doin' anything else. She could be on a date and text your 1st. I'd put no stock in it either way.

But I guess this is a big deal for younger folks. Like a few others have suggested, call. You'll stand out. Most of your competition lack communication skills beyond a few text characters.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Textin' is the least involved form of communication. First or respondin', it' takes little effort and can be sent while in the middle of doin' anything else. She could be on a date and text your 1st. I'd put no stock in it either way.

But I guess this is a big deal for younger folks. Like a few others have suggested, call. You'll stand out. Most of your competition lack communication skills beyond a few text characters.

Im reluctant to call when I can't get a return text. Feels shytty if I get the vmail

 

[BezO]

Im reluctant to call when I can't get a return text. Feels shytty if I get the vmail

Then skip the text. And let a chick know you're gonna call when you meet her. Ask when is a good time to call. And call with purpose... a few get to know questions and plan to meet up.

The game is the people that play it. Indirect communication allows for more games. Don't contribute.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Then skip the text. And let a chick know you're gonna call when you meet her. Ask when is a good time to call. And call with purpose... a few get to know questions and plan to meet up.

The game is the people that play it. Indirect communication allows for more games. Don't contribute.

Tbh my schedule and her schedule are not synced while i'm able to be more flexible she should be the one to relay shes available. Then again shes focused on herself right now which is fine because noone said I was trying to cuff but damn if I'm only having eyes for you and put fourth effort to let you know and be around you that in itself is a feat.

 

[BezO]

Tbh my schedule and her schedule are not synced while i'm able to be more flexible she should be the one to relay shes available. Then again shes focused on herself right now which is fine because noone said I was trying to cuff but damn if I'm only having eyes for you and put fourth effort to let you know and be around you that in itself is a feat.

If she's not available for you, maybe she's not worth the time. Leave her to be into whatever she's into.

And she doesn't owe you anything because of your effort or commitment. She either wants you or doesn't.

Put that effort into women that are available and interested. Works every time.

 

[Ronnie Macho]

@Kavin The 1 the games we play in 2016 #july

The games don't stop because you get older either...only make time for people who make time for you...in the words of 2Pac..."I have no patience for anybody who doubts me, none at all"...

 

[manning2nicks]

Dont take yourself out of the game with this over thinking stuff. Just know this, if you dont text you definitely aren't getting back an answer. Send a text message and see what happens. Its always better to know she's not into you then to wonder what if. stop over complicating stuff, send that text out and see whats popping. Funny banter text will usually do the trick - combine this with an aggresive wolf mentality and you'll be chilling with her in no time.

 

[Gold]

She fukking with men who text her first


Learn to pursue nikka. That's what a good woman wants.

If i'm with someone who never texts me or calls me, I'll just gradually forget about that person.


Too many options outchea to playing HS games

 

[Dixon Cider]

If she's not available for you, maybe she's not worth the time. Leave her to be into whatever she's into.

And she doesn't owe you anything because of your effort or commitment. She either wants you or doesn't.

Put that effort into women that are available and interested. Works every time.

I wont text or engage in anything unless she does and if she doesn't mighty confusing signals tho

 

[General Mills]

Even tho you are on good terms and good vibes

Thoughts?

For me... i toss her in the bushes.

This is why. When i was younger i frequently would aggressively pursue and get bushes.
Or if not outright bushes would get in some friendzone limbo. Quite frankly it was a waste of time.

Now for the most part i wait until she shows some interest. Is it fukked up? Possibly. But the older i get i dont have the patience for fickle females. My life has got so much simpler.


If she likes you she will reach out. If not then there are plenty of other fish in the sea. The numbers are in my favor. Plenty more single women out there.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Games be played brehz

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

Games be played brehz

Don't tell me you out here triple texting guhs, big dawg

I'm telling y'all brehs, mayne; if she ain't Myra, then you need to bush her before you get your feelings hurt. A girl who likes you on a real tip won't be playing games bc she ain't trying to potentially lose you to another guh.

Also specifically to you @BIG MCHZE SOSA COLI GOD ... actions > words. Meaning when you hanging out around her she can be telling you all kinds of shyt making you feel good, but if she ain't responding to texts and is consistently ignoring you, then cut your losses before Delilah changes your locs to a fade.

People make time for things that are important to them. Remember that, big dawg. Stop giving these females excuses.

 

[Dixon Cider]

Don't tell me you out here triple texting guhs, big dawg

I'm telling y'all brehs, mayne; if she ain't Myra, then you need to bush her before you get your feelings hurt. A girl who likes you on a real tip won't be playing games bc she ain't trying to potentially lose you to another guh.

Also specifically to you @BIG MCHZE SOSA COLI GOD ... actions > words. Meaning when you hanging out around her she can be telling you all kinds of shyt making you feel good, but if she ain't responding to texts and is consistently ignoring you, then cut your losses before Delilah changes your locs to a fade.

People make time for things that are important to them. Remember that, big dawg. Stop giving these females excuses.

Nah no triple texting, texted got a single reply , I replied and got nothing, left it alone for day or so and hit back got nothing so it is bushes until otherwise