Drake has a more embarrassing way of talking about it that dudes basically won't ever admit they feel.
Marvin's Room was damn near a classic song because of this feeling.
Your average rapper is going to sit around and tell you how hurt he is, but will still maintain that edge.
Drake will sit here and basically make you feel as depressed as you once felt and won't feel ashamed about doing it.
Its WAY more raw and sincere that way...effectively making you have more of an emotional connection to it.
Cole talking about women: "I missed her and I can't lie. I liked these things we used to do. I wish you were still here"
Drake talking about women: "I'm sitting here wondering when you will call and I can't keep this front up any longer because its tearing me up on the inside and I put this front on just to keep from losing myself"
Now...most dudes won't admit to feeling like Drake did...and will opt to make themselves sound like Cole...but on the real, I guarantee you most dudes hate that Drake exposed how they REALLY felt on the inside.