What is it like being in your 20s

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it suck man esp in this day in age.....all i can say is plan and work hard now towards ur career

save money and dont even go into debt....fukk paying 30 k for a college degree.......i dont care if ppl get mad at me, its the truth, that shyt is a scam....learn a marketable skill, google that term
 
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Lots of partying, plus you're going to be getting your career started it's an exciting time. You're going to have a great time and it'll start to fly by after 24. People you know will start getting married which means

Vegas, strip clubs, wedding receptions... Do NOT sleep on wedding receptions. Some of the best nights I've had started as wedding receptions.

Good luck breh :myman:

Edit : @Crakface with the gospel :wow:...carefully read everything he's said and store it in your head for reference. He's %100 on everything he touched on.
 
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Just as an aside...

I saw a post online a week ago.
This girl threw her best friend a birthday party when she turned 20.

The birthday cake read "Congratulations! You beat teen pregnancy!"
Worth a chuckle.

:lolbron:
 

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All 100% true.

Coming up about to break the 30 mark and I can cosign everything said here.

My early 20's were shifty, some years were better than others, but from 20-24 most people will be dealing mostly with education and career kickoff. Lot of drugs and sex and vacations in these 4 years, all good things, but in moderation. If you make it through the fire, then great. Lots of people get "caught up" in this period.

25-27 most people(who weren't born with silver spoons) are now enjoying their new careers and being able to breathe a bit.


28-30 are the years where you begin to really make your life about what you want it to be about, outside of work and money, because (unless you're a money head) you see it's not all that there is to life. The level headed people usually start families or get involved teaching, charity classes, traveling extensively, etc around this point. Most people have enough knowledge to spot certain types of other people by this point, which is akin to what Face said "Most peoples friends drop off and you get new ones"

I was in school till I was 26 (Bachelors and MBA) and saw a lot happening, but most of the scripts were the same. The people who were always tired from 20-23 from working all the time, were beggining to find happiness, seeing that their efforts were worth it, while the world came down on the heads of the people who never really got it together. I almost didn't go back to school because I thought 25/26 should be nonstop partying(especially after seeing how my associates were living, they were going crazy out in the streets:pachaha:) but I stayed focused and 27 and 28 have been the best years of my 20's by far

My age now, is when people start to get genuinely satisfied about thier situations and thoroughly optimistic about thier futures, or they start getting bitter. Something interesting that Face said in his post was about "all the stuff people did in thier early 20's is lame in thier late 20's", which is true. But the thing nobody tells you(or at least told me and I had to see for myself) is that all that stuff that people did in thier 20's? It does not leave them. They have all those memories and experiences inside of them, so if they got into a bunch of nonsense or screwed over a bunch of people, etc, then it will take a toll on their relationships and mind.(unless they're a sociopath) I truly learned that that's why some people (and not be jaded, but mostly women) are legit crazy when they hit 30+. All that stuff they did in thier 20's screwed up thier minds. Men are the same, but just in a different way. That's why some no-good women keep a revolving door of users and abusers and working dead end jobs, and some men are basement dwellers who prey on hoodrats, while others wake up every day excited about life and looking forward to thier relationships. So try to make GOOD choices in your ealry 20's so that your mind can stay well, on into your late 20's and 30's.

Get a solid degree(or two) in a solid field, from a solid school, stay away from low brow women(try not to fall in love with them either high brow or otherwise), don't have kids, work out(you don't have to be swole, but be in shape) and save your money.

You do all of those things in your 20's and i'll say theres a 95% chance that when you hit 30 you will go:obama:.
Just turned 26...starting a new job in a week. New field but a more stable one with Mobility.

I have a girl but I feel she isn't as motivated or driven to succeed as me.

This has got me thinking about our future together :lupe:
 

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26-30 you will begin to realize who your real friends were all this time because the people that are still riding with you after all these years will still be there. Some of them will come in and out of your life but the good ones are the ones that always make you feel like you just saw each other yesterday. Many of them will begin having families and you may not talk as much which is why its good to set patterns for homie activities so the ones that are true friends, are still around when you're older.

Stories will begin to flood in about what happened to so and so and what happened to so and so. Many of them will be tragedies or straight up pathetic.
 

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some will not take their future serious and neglect basic education towards a trade or degree that will crush them by the time they're my age.

All 100% true.
Get a solid degree(or two) in a solid field, from a solid school

You do all of those things in your 20's and i'll say theres a 95% chance that when you hit 30 you will go:obama:.
http://www.theatlantic.com/business...rads-are-jobless-or-underemployed-how/256237/

its 58% now btw. Stop making it sound like getting a degree is a super important thing and some sort of vital life essential. Times have changed. I know far too many people that have diplomas and degrees and those people aren't doing shyt with their life and they're already in their 30's, and i know a lot of people who independently started their own business (which requires no degree or diploma) and they're doing really good

and breh you fukking lost :flabbynsick: staying in school til your 26 :mjlol:
 

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http://www.theatlantic.com/business...rads-are-jobless-or-underemployed-how/256237/

its 58% now btw. Stop making it sound like getting a degree is a super important thing and some sort of vital life essential. Times have changed. I know far too many people that have diplomas and degrees and those people aren't doing shyt with their life and they're already in their 30's, and i know a lot of people who independently started their own business (which requires no degree or diploma) and they're doing really good

and breh you fukking lost :flabbynsick: staying in school til your 26 :mjlol:
Was this for me or that other guy.

Nah, he didnt lose at all. Finishing school at 26 is better then finishing from 30 - 36
 

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Just turned 23 and should be set for my career by 25 and be set at 30 financially. I'm physically and mentally sharp...just hope I get no kids. :whoo:
 

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both because you both made it sound like getting a degree is a essential to living a good life and being financially comfortable
Then reading must not be your strong suit because i said a trade OR a degree. A trade means, a skill. A skill like a degree still requires an education. How do you learn how to be a mechanic? Watching youtube? :camby: Im not your Auntie or your mother telling you to go to college. Im saying, you need to learn a skill or get a degree. Please take your ritalin so you can step up your reading comprehension.
 
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