What is it that Black men really want?

[King Khufu]

Hahaha will you guys quit with the cupcake answers and tell her the real deal please?

What do men want from women? Sex ! Duh. Lmao
But what does that man want as a individual? Now you got to ask him that

Because my goals as a man will be different than the next dudes, so if I want the money and he want the honey shyt not going to mix to try to treat us both the same!!!
You should start asking yourself @Oshun What are you getting out of this by asking this?
Because this usually the part where someone goes see this why (set up question turned rant) does blah blah

 

[Big Daddy]

This is the kind of silly ignorant shyt I'm talking about. Smh.

Whoever moved the thread knew what they were doing.

Welcome to TLR

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

To have a career without cacs, a chick without double standards and passion for looking good and staying in shape even after marriage while having a high sex drive so I don't cheat.

 

[HoloGraphic]

To be happy
To have freedom
To have love

 

[Lifejennings]

What i want from black men is to not be compared to other races of women...other races of women don't have the history of slavery, discrimination, etc like we do.

I would like to feel protected and cherished by black men. I've been called a bytch by my father and other black men in the past. I didn't deserve to be called that.

I would like to not be classified as a gold digger just because i desire a black man who can and wants to provide for his family. Other races of women are allowed this luxury and are not called gold diggers.

From the rest of the world i need for them to see that black woman are just as feminine and valuable as any other race of women. I personally get tired of the whole "strong independent black woman" theme. I can be strong but usually it's cuz i have to be. I don't want to be strong all the time, sometimes i want to fall back and let the man be strong.

Thats it for now.

How can you not want to be compared to other women, but want what they have? That's just as silly as black men expecting black men to behave like other women when they haven't been able to do for their women what other men have done.

 

[InfinateOpulance]

How can you not want to be compared to other women, but want what they have? That's just as silly as black men expecting black men to behave like other women when they haven't been able to do for their women what other men have done.

since this thread was moved to the locker room, I'm not participating in it anymore. If anyone wants to have a serious discussion with me about this feel free to p.m. me.

You totally missed every point I was trying to make but I'm not surprised.

 

[FlexPavilion]

More trust and submissiveness

A lot of black women today position themselves to not need a man for anything other than dikk. If you show your man how much you trust him and need him, he (the right one) will knock a brick wall down for you.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Did anyone ask OP the true purpose of this thread yet?

I just began reading a book called The Spirit of a Man: A Vision of Transformation for Black Men and the Women Who Love Them. I wanted some input from black men as I read along. Dont worry there will be more threads.

 

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I just began reading a book called The Spirit of a Man: A Vision of Transformation for Black Men and the Women Who Love Them. I wanted some input from black men as I read along. Dont worry there will be more threads.

Is that "NOT ON MY WATCH!!" Iyanla? Lol

 

[Hoodoo Child]

I just want my Community back

 

[Aviso]

Money.

Power.

Respect.

If you have testosterone running thru your bloodstream and still got your balls attached, all you want is Money. Power. Respect.

Thats what all men want... This is how we are wired as men...

Sure its some paid, powerful, and respected brothers doing their thing.

But not many. And not enough.

Women will fall in line once we achieve our goals.

This

 

[Ziggiy]

it'd be nice to not be looked at as a monolith and blamed for everything wrong in society

 

[Dwolf]

I changed my mind
Lemme think of a better answer

 

[K.Dot]

I want you

 

[The M.I.C.]

@KaliOshun started this thread in Higher Learning. The conversation was great till someone with an agenda moved it to TLR.

I'm REALLY beginning to see that the coli has an agenda....

Higher learning is a cesspool.

It was probably moved for greater visibility anyway.