Black men dont know what we want yet as a collective
We've been told we should be this and that. And being a black man means being this or that so much so that we have no idea.
You grab a group of 100 black dudes and pull them aside and ask them what they really want. Most will say, Money, cash hoes....
The rest will just say money and still the rest will be like "I don't know"

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Hence why the locker room so split, have these dudes dont know what they really want and by the time they start figuring it out they 40 with kids, and all kind of baggage
It's not our fault really, its the hand we were dealt and all things considered we are doing pretty well.
Honestly most black men I feel like just want to fit in, and thats because as youth fitting it and being black was essential to not being clowned or roasted.
We then turn around and take that into everything we do, from work to relationships. Constantly trying to be cool, funny, standout or extra fly.