i see

so your approach is like a #s game, where u dont mind opening yourself up to the hurt or disappointment or being heart broken....
"half the fun is letting someone invade your privacy and wanting to invade theirs"
interesting quote...

im very guarded, maybe I should let females in more....when ever they ask questions I immediately go into defense mode and become hostile ...I'm afraid of being venerable, giving a person 100% of me and being used up and left for the wolves
Exactly. I shouldn't even be posting this but you my nikka, so eat. Here's the real game fam. I don't hit on every girl I want to fukk or wants to fukk me.
That's small time. I flirt with every girl I like. And I embrace the pain. Lol that's why I'm so fukking emo. I'm not a fukk boy. I'm a sad boy. Lol but we get girls. So it's all good.
They know I genuinely like them and give me a shot. I always get a date in. Always, without fail. They just want to know more about me. If I'm cool they'll open up more and I will too. I take the lead and open up first. A man should always take the lead with a woman. Always take the first risk.
Any nikka can talk that shyt, but when you take a risk they notice. Girls tell me I'm crazy and I'm 26 this year. I'll sing them a song in public. I'll make them lunch. I brag different, lol, to quote you.
I rode my bike into traffic to holler at a j walker. I almost hit her with my bike. And she almost hit me with her bag, hahaha. We cool now though. I talk to so many women on the regular it's wild.
There are girls who IGNORED me for six months that I have lunch with now. I know so many little tricks man. I wish I knew this in HS. I'd have my name tatted on some titties by now. Frfr.
Tbh I think they find it fascinating I'm not trying to fukk. I've rewired my brain to not try to fukk. The more I want to fukk a girl the more I avoid her. That's not relevant to this, but fukk it. When I'm being overtly sexual with girl I got it bad. She won. Lol she got me all the way in my feelings and I am at her disposal for better or worse.
That's only happened three times though. The first two girls I was madly in love with.
You only lose if you choose to fail player.