What is like to be in love with somebody?

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

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I'm just saying if love doesn't exist do other emotions cease to exist too?

 

[Ahsha]

It's Beautiful!!

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

It's Beautiful!!

these cats wanna make love one thing. love is a lot of things. You have people in love who fukk other people, you got people in love who wouldn't dare cheat. you have people in love for the wrong reasons. you have people who love people who don't love them back. Yet they are quick to say "love" only occurs in disney films. love is just as broad as any other emotion.

 

[010101]

I'm just saying if love doesn't exist do other emotions cease to exist too?

individuals and their actions fall on the scale between attraction/repulsion
i keep it simple i love those that care for me i care for those that love me
pleasure4pleasure it's fairtrade

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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[010101]

love is not emotional dependency or attachment
said it before say it again listennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn jahahahahaa
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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[BelowTheMasonDixon]

individuals and their actions fall on the scale between attraction/repulsion
i keep it simple i love those that care for me i care for those that love me
pleasure4pleasure it's fairtrade

zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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If that's the way you choose to look at it that's fine as well. But don't act like love exist only inside of a vacuum. love can be subject to other things as well.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

People say love isn't real. but would never ever fix there lips to say hate isn't. if hate is real love is too. it just follows.

 

[Rawtid]

Not sure really. I want to believe that once you're really in love with someone it's permanent. Sort of the same way you feel about your parents or children (for those that have them). If you can "fall out of love" with someone then it probably wasn't all that real to begin with.

Thinking you're in love with someone is a legit feeling though. When you realize you weren't is when it sucks ass.

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

Not sure really. I want to believe that once you're really in love with someone it's permanent. Sort of the same way you feel about your parents or children (for those that have them). If you can "fall out of love" with someone then it probably wasn't all that real to begin with.

Thinking you're in love with someone is a legit feeling though. When you realize you weren't is when it sucks ass.

Nah, you can fall out of love. People change. that's the challenge with marriage. You can love someone but what happens when that person becomes someone else? are you obligated to love that new person? I don't think so. And I'm not saying someone gaining weight(which i'm sure some has as there metric) but someone becoming stagnant. or not wanting to be around you etc...If I loved you because you were social. and years down the line you wanted to be more reclusive and shut in, then you aren't the same person.

 

[Rawtid]

Nah, you can fall out of love. People change. that's the challenge with marriage. You can love someone but what happens when that person becomes someone else? are you obligated to love that new person? I don't think so. And I'm not saying someone gaining weight(which i'm sure some has as there metric) but someone becoming stagnant. or not wanting to be around you etc...If I loved you because you were social. and years down the line you wanted to be more reclusive and shut in, then you aren't the same person.

People change. Why would you expect them to be the same person anyway? That's an unreasonable expectation to have for someone. In your example what happened throughout the course of life that caused them to be shut in vs social? Life is nothing but change.

Children change over the course of years and parents for the most part never lose love for us. I think if you're in love with someone you will rock with them regardless or I could be unfairly comparing the love between parents/children to spousal love. But I've never been in love so I'm not sure what I'm feeling.

 

[Regine Hunter]

Idk.
I usually just admire from a far

 

[BelowTheMasonDixon]

People change. Why would you expect them to be the same person anyway? That's an unreasonable expectation to have for someone. In your example what happened throughout the course of life that caused them to be shut in vs social? Life is nothing but change.

Children change over the course of years and parents for the most part never lose love for us. I think if you're in love with someone you will rock with them regardless or I could be unfairly comparing the love between parents/children to spousal love. But I've never been in love so I'm not sure what I'm feeling.

I'm not shytting on change. You are correct people change all the time. but as long as the core of that person remains. I feel like the marriage would remain in tact. that's what I was getting at moreso than talking about your partner. totally going left field.

 

[Rawtid]

I'm not shytting on change. You are correct people change all the time. but as long as the core of that person remains. I feel like the marriage would remain in tact. that's what I was getting at moreso than talking about your partner. totally going left field.

I don't think marriages fail because people change, they fail because people don't expect change, imo.

 

[International Playa]

Last month my ex-girl, said she loved me, wanted to get married to me and hve my babies, last week caught her talking to other nikkaz, soooo I swiftly deaded that relationship

 

[010101]

If that's the way you choose to look at it that's fine as well. But don't act like love exist only inside of a vacuum. love can be subject to other things as well.

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