SheWantTheD
Veteran
Simping won't win a woman over, it almost never does.
If a chick isn't cooperating, charge her to the game.
If a chick isn't cooperating, charge her to the game.
Terrance Curtis Beasley
These ni*gas claim Top 5 but we OVOK
It's a sad reality.
Some people like being in relationships.why were you so thirsty for a relationship?
should've kept smashing with no strings like a real one would.
sounds like the roles got reversed and you were the chick and she was the dude.
It used to be considered normal human behavior
SheWantTheD
Veteran
fukk with a chick who's ex is a jailbird
More coli brehette advice ..
You not wrong. The wrongest thing you did was posting the story on here for all the crazies to chime in.
You liked her, wanted the relationship to advance, you communicated that and tried to work with her/ be mindful of her previous situation.
She's an a$$hole, that doesn't mean you were wrong.
2 golden rules to live by (relationship wise)
When people tell you who they are, believe them.
When Ole girl was on all that "I'm just not ready for a relationship, we can fukk and do all this relationship shyt though.."
You knew you wanted a relationship with her so you should have said hey cool I respect that. We want two different things so imma let you go. Goid luck.Bye.
2.reciprocity is key
There will be some give and take in every good relationship. Everything ofcpurse will not be 100% equal but there should be balance. (Read up on love languages).
If your partners effort isn't equal to yours let them go. This girl never put forth an equal amount of effort to yours.
Cut her off. Let her go. She's gonna have regrets and most likely try to get you back (so yall can go through the same unbalanced cycle again, because she doesn't appreciate you)
Don't be pissed
Don't let this make your hate all women.
Use this as a learning tool for your next relationship.
You're young, you got plenty of time to get it right.
Good luck
You not wrong. The wrongest thing you did was posting the story on here for all the crazies to chime in.
You liked her, wanted the relationship to advance, you communicated that and tried to work with her/ be mindful of her previous situation.
She's an a$$hole, that doesn't mean you were wrong.
2 golden rules to live by (relationship wise)
When people tell you who they are, believe them.
When Ole girl was on all that "I'm just not ready for a relationship, we can fukk and do all this relationship shyt though.."
You knew you wanted a relationship with her so you should have said hey cool I respect that. We want two different things so imma let you go. Goid luck.Bye.
2.reciprocity is key
There will be some give and take in every good relationship. Everything ofcpurse will not be 100% equal but there should be balance. (Read up on love languages).
If your partners effort isn't equal to yours let them go. This girl never put forth an equal amount of effort to yours.
Cut her off. Let her go. She's gonna have regrets and most likely try to get you back (so yall can go through the same unbalanced cycle again, because she doesn't appreciate you)
Don't be pissed
Don't let this make your hate all women.
Use this as a learning tool for your next relationship.
You're young, you got plenty of time to get it right.
Good luck
And before that it wasn't normal at all.Some people like being in relationships.
SheWantTheD
Veteran
You gotta understand that if a chick wants you, if she wants an exclusive relationship with you she's gonna bring it up and force the issue. All that "I'm scared" bullsh is just that.. bullsh. Real talk, stop messing with chicks who fucc with ain't shyt dudes. A genuine guy like you ain't gon be their first option, and they ain't gon be feeling you like they would some nikka that treats them like shyt. These chicks got low self esteem. Only people with low self esteem like to be treated like sh.Slime, I ain't got shyt to hide from a female nor do I care for playing games. I believe in the shyt I put out comes back 360, so If I want her to be real with me then I have to be real with her. is it a L on my behalf?most definitely, because as mentioned in here by other users, I should've been picked up on the bullshyt. but is it a L on my ego or manhood? fukk no, I didn't do anything wrong except give her the benefit of the doubt.
I meanI can't read palms, minds or tell the future. if I knew this shyt would've ended cause of her bullshytting and gaming, I wouldn't have even acknowledged her. but because I don't have those special powers at this moment, I realize that in order to win the right one, I have to be willing to lose time and get my emotions banged up a bit. I ain't in this bytch crying and cutting myself lmao so I'm good.
You DON'T have to jump through hoops or simp to get a chick to like you. Should have asked this chick what she wanted from the get go, and shouldn't have given her all that attention. Don't act like her boyfriend if you ain't her boyfriend.
yea I dig that side of the argument but the way I look at it, it isn't a meaningless "title" because without the acknowledgement of exclusivity in a relationship, she or I can fukk off on another person and claim "
trust me, I've even told my real life breh's before that-that title shyt is meaningless but as I get older I realize that it isn't.
You can get cheated on with or without a title...
Unfortunately, like the poster said earlier.... She used you as a "in the mean time and between time" ....
She was giving you just enough attention to keep you enamored but not enough to make you feel secure in a relationship...
You should move on... People like that are users... And she will use you as long as you allow
A1aaa
Respectful Fade Runner & Card Puller
never reveal everything about yourself early to a woman.
you made yourself look like a huge cornball giving her free access to everything in your life. its a real turnoff and reeks of your desperation to lock her down. giving her the password to your phone... no bueno. there has to be an element of mystery.
i also think being a guy and insisting on asking where the relationship is at is feminine as hell. its usually the woman's place to ask this cuz she wanna make sure she has you to herself. she perceives you as a catch just as much as you should her. let it grow organically and soon enough she'll pose you the [dreaded] question: "so... what are we?"
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? 
Why you giving her girlfriend benefits when you not even in a relationship?
On the real tho, when people show you who they are believe them. You can not force someone to want to be with you. I learned the hard way. Just take that L. If you would've moved on the first time she said she wasn't ready and you were ready, then she'd be following you like a puppy and even then. You shouldn't accept her.
Obviously, there's a reason she stayed with an a$$hole, that doesn't change overnight. At least she knows she's not ready but you giving her all the perks for free, so she's taking it. You are the rebound.
Stop saving hoes
take off th e cape. and find someone who wants you. Same thing I tell my brothers.
Why you giving her girlfriend benefits when you not even in a relationship?
On the real tho, when people show you who they are believe them. You can not force someone to want to be with you. I learned the hard way. Just take that L. If you would've moved on the first time she said she wasn't ready and you were ready, then she'd be following you like a puppy and even then. You shouldn't accept her.
Obviously, there's a reason she stayed with an a$$hole, that doesn't change overnight. At least she knows she's not ready but you giving her all the perks for free, so she's taking it. You are the rebound.
Stop saving hoes
take off th e cape. and find someone who wants you. Same thing I tell my brothers.What do you mean?
Hunter gather societies. Which existed before our modern ones.
Tried to rep you and couldnt.
Great advice.
Now you got whodini 5 minutes of funk goin through my head
Gonna have to YouTube it when I get back home