What is wrong with women these days?

[#StarkSet]

I know you mean good, but you lawst me right there. I ain't never going to pressure a chick to be with me,

That's what you've been doing the whole time

 

[Drew Wonder]

Yo, OP's story is like the black version of 500 Days of Summer lol.

But yeah, interesting hearing a dude say all this because that same scenario in reverse has played out so many times that it's almost a cliche at this point. the mixed signals, the indecisiveness, the "what are we?" question, the hypocritical "I don't wanna be exclusive but I'll still get jealous when you talk to other people" steez. Any dude who has done that whole thing to a chick knows that in our heads she's good enough to smash and kick it with but not good enough in our eyes to wife up. and the same applies to women who do that to men. if she really wanted a relationship with you she wouldn't be wishy washy.

You didn't get friendzoned, you got jumpoff zoned homie. Only a minor L though, at least you got some p*ssy out of it. As others have said move on. Plenty of women out here who actually wanna get wifed up and are dreaming of a dude who actually wants commitment. As long as you don't simp too hard you'll be a unicorn to them.

 

[A1aaa]

Well that is American way of dating, which is why there are a lot of failure in relationships here. Too many stupid rules. Don't do this and do that until__________. smh

not saying it's right or wrong; the game is the game doe. to succeed, a breh needs to know the rules.

at least in the initial stages, a chick should not be getting full devotion or the open book on you. brehs gotta protect themselves. these chicks got 5 different options at the same time, and while you're pouring it all out to her, she looking at you like you're a tolerable fool

 

[jwonder]

not saying it's right or wrong; the game is the game doe. to succeed, a breh needs to know the rules.

at least in the initial stages, a chick should not be getting full devotion or the open book on you. brehs gotta protect themselves. these chicks got 5 different options at the same time, and while you're pouring it all out to her, she looking at you like you're a tolerable fool

I feel you on that. But they were heavy into to it fast. Those days are like months when you are talking and hanging out with somebody every day. I'm just saying it's the American way. When I date foreign there are no dumb ass rules like don't talk to women when at certain times, etc. I know you know what I'm talking about though.

 

[Sensitive Blake Griffin]

Women who get into relationships with cheaters and abusers because they're re-enacting childhood trauma. They're afraid of intimacy and getting hurt like their father did to them. Yet they recreate the same thing in their romantic relationships. Subconsciously they know a relationship with an abuser has no future which means no chance for real intimacy and thus they won't get hurt as bad. You come in, the nice guy who provides real intimacy and emotional connection and she can't handle it. She has to pull away and sabotage the relationship. Throw her in the bushes unless she commits to you and the relationship.

 

[Deutsche Bank]

I just left the gas station......like 20 minutes ago.
And there was this Sista.......maybe in her late 30s.....with this long sun dress that came off of both her shoulders.....no bra......erect nipples......ass was like pure gold.
She paid for her shyt but stood there at the counter gathering her stuff.
So she was in the way of me using my debit card.

Chick: "Oh excuse me, honey. I'm sorry."
Me: "No problem."


So she walked out of the gas station towards the direction that I presumed her car was.
And I'm thinking that I will never see this fine ass lady again. Oh well.

I finally walked out of the store and got in my car.

I backed out and looked in the rear view and seen the chick walking in a circle talking to herself.

Man.......that was one fine retard.

You shoulda went back and got that bytch.

 

[Arithmetic]

dude it's simple

if you want a relationship with her and she doesn't want one with you

move on

same thing if it was the other way around

 

[Arithmetic]

Women who get into relationships with cheaters and abusers because they're re-enacting childhood trauma. They're afraid of intimacy and getting hurt like their father did to them. Yet they recreate the same thing in their romantic relationships. Subconsciously they know a relationship with an abuser has no future which means no chance for real intimacy and thus they won't get hurt as bad. You come in, the nice guy who provides real intimacy and emotional connection and she can't handle it. She has to pull away and sabotage the relationship. Throw her in the bushes unless she commits to you and the relationship.

 

[Fani Willis fan]

or she wanted to weigh her options while having a good thing going with OP.

according to his writeup, they was spending a lot of time together.
Most girls who just want a hook up dont got time for the phone sex and facetiming all day...thats some lovey dovey relationship type ish

Then how she gon come out a toxic relationship and have the heart to juggle all these nikkas shes supposedly fukking behind OP's back.

shyt was simple, he was in a relationship but she was emotionally scarred and couldnt acknowledge shes was back in another one so soon.
He didnt even give ol' girl time to digest the shyt, nikka was only 2 weeks in or some shyt.

 

[Ness]

And before that it wasn't normal at all.

facts tho

 

[Perfectson]

Lol@trying to force a cchic into a relationship....worrying about titles and ish. You a female

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Welcome to girls don't know what they want. I had a long distance chick from Japan begging me to be her Boyfriend even though I never even met her yet in person lol. I eventually did go to Japan on a trip a few months later and we met and it was fun. I smashed, I went to her house, played games with her and her sister, Moms made me food and brought me out around town so it was cool. Now, the problem was she was unsure if she wanted to try a long distance relationship(which imo is dumb but at the time I was just involved in the fukkery so it kind of happened temporarily.) Things didn't work out for various reasons and eventually me trying to pressure her(unrelated shyt) with questions and badgering pushed her away emotionally. Eventually we agreed to just be friends and then a few months later she started talking to another guy. I then got mad and told her to just leave me alone and threw her in the bushes.

Thinking back on this, had I just went there, had fun and kept her in contact and not really pressure her into anything, i would've still had her as a contact and I would've had somewhere to go and p*ssy in line if I ever go back there. Doesn't matter as there's millions of other girls but idk.

You live on west coast?How you just fly to Japan like that...no diss chick must look good to fly halfway across world.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

according to his writeup, they was spending a lot of time together.
Most girls who just want a hook up dont got time for the phone sex and facetiming all day...thats some lovey dovey relationship type ish

Then how she gon come out a toxic relationship and have the heart to juggle all these nikkas shes supposedly fukking behind OP's back.

shyt was simple, he was in a relationship but she was emotionally scarred and couldnt acknowledge shes was back in another one so soon.
He didnt even give ol' girl time to digest the shyt, nikka was only 2 weeks in or some shyt.

#gmb you might be right though

 

[Deutsche Bank]

Women who get into relationships with cheaters and abusers because they're re-enacting childhood trauma. They're afraid of intimacy and getting hurt like their father did to them. Yet they recreate the same thing in their romantic relationships. Subconsciously they know a relationship with an abuser has no future which means no chance for real intimacy and thus they won't get hurt as bad. You come in, the nice guy who provides real intimacy and emotional connection and she can't handle it. She has to pull away and sabotage the relationship. Throw her in the bushes unless she commits to you and the relationship.

He should knock her up and get put on child support. Then blow up her phone when he has the kid and she's out on a date, begging her to marry him on her voicemail.

 

[Brandon M.]

boy is u gay?