What is wrong with women these days?

[Nomadum]

The nice part of me: "She's been hurt. She don't want to trust anyone right now. Take it slow with her if you want but, honestly she doesn't need to be in a relationship right now. She needs a couple months to herself to get over her last relationship."

The HOH part of me: "fukk her nikka That aint your problem. Drop her."

 

[MalikX]

You simped hard bruh. She's not over her ex and is probably fuccing and sucking him right now.

You jumped through so many hoops for this broad that ain't worth shyt. Should have either charged her to the game, or kept fuccing, but we know you wouldn't be able to separate your feelings while still having sex with her.

She doesn't wanna be exclusive cause she fuccing other dudes and thinks she might get back with her ex.

How do you give a chick you just met this much of your time breh?

Find another one homie. Drop her

 

[Cat piss martini]

becoming a Grandmama at 35 is the damn problem..
nobody to teach them how to hug that stove
or carry themselves like women.
they are learning what a woman is
from video/social media hoes.

Got my nephew on the wave....
fukk with the smart/brainy girls and leave them
cute bums in the hood where they wanna
be babymamas.....

 

[Fatboi1]

I dig it, I feel I'm man enough to be able to be told that though. if she was like "Look, I just like to fukk you and chill." then I'd have more respect cause she upfront, but if she knew I was tryna bag her and kept bullshytting then she fukked up. but I dig where you coming from.

Welcome to girls don't know what they want. I had a long distance chick from Japan begging me to be her Boyfriend even though I never even met her yet in person lol. I eventually did go to Japan on a trip a few months later and we met and it was fun. I smashed, I went to her house, played games with her and her sister, Moms made me food and brought me out around town so it was cool. Now, the problem was she was unsure if she wanted to try a long distance relationship(which imo is dumb but at the time I was just involved in the fukkery so it kind of happened temporarily.) Things didn't work out for various reasons and eventually me trying to pressure her(unrelated shyt) with questions and badgering pushed her away emotionally. Eventually we agreed to just be friends and then a few months later she started talking to another guy. I then got mad and told her to just leave me alone and threw her in the bushes.

Thinking back on this, had I just went there, had fun and kept her in contact and not really pressure her into anything, i would've still had her as a contact and I would've had somewhere to go and p*ssy in line if I ever go back there. Doesn't matter as there's millions of other girls but idk.

 

[Nomadum]

becoming a Grandmama at 35 is the damn problem..
nobody to teach them how to hug that stove
or carry themselves like women.
they are learning what a woman is
from video/social media hoes.

Got my nephew on the wave....
fukk with the smart brainy girls and leave them
cute bums in the hood where they wanna
be babymamas.....

slime you funny as fukk, but this one of the realest post's I've read from you in a minute.

real shyt.

 

[Nomadum]

Welcome to girls don't know what they want. I had a long distance chick from Japan begging me to be her Boyfriend even though I never even met her yet in person lol. I eventually did go to Japan on a trip a few months later and we met and it was fun. I smashed, I went to her house, played games with her and her sister, Moms made me food and brought me out around town so it was cool. Now, the problem was she was unsure if she wanted to try a long distance relationship(which imo is dumb but at the time I was just involved in the fukkery so it kind of happened temporarily.) Things didn't work out for various reasons and eventually me trying to pressure her(unrelated shyt) with questions and badgering pushed her away emotionally. Eventually we agreed to just be friends and then a few months later she started talking to another guy. I then got mad and told her to just leave me alone and threw her in the bushes.

Thinking back on this, had I just went there, had fun and kept her in contact and not really pressure her into anything, i would've still had her as a contact and I would've had somewhere to go and p*ssy in line if I ever go back there. Doesn't matter as there's millions of other girls but idk.

I can dig it, not going to front though, I'd had cut her off like umbilical cords if she pressured me into a relationship then talked about not wanting a long distance one. Give her ass the Tamagachi chop

 

[SheWantTheD]

becoming a Grandmama at 35 is the damn problem..
nobody to teach them how to hug that stove
or carry themselves like women.
they are learning what a woman is
from video/social media hoes.

Got my nephew on the wave....
fukk with the smart/brainy girls and leave them
cute bums in the hood where they wanna
be babymamas.....

Nerdy chicks out here eating too

 

[Nomadum]

Nerdy chicks out here eating too

 

[Cat piss martini]

Nerdy chicks out here eating too

Hoes are hoes......no escaping that.
but an educated hoe is gonna have degrees
and make sure she got a place to live for her
and her child (that can read)
the exit strategy for the average cute bum from
the hood is having a baby by a hustler
and possible child support.

 

[SunZoo]

Yea, the fukk is wrong with me being a nikka who is needy for a trustworthy, solid, dependable and supportive lady in my life?

Homie...

If that's who you are than that's who you are fam. I wouldn't say it's anything "wrong" with you. I would say that due to your nature you might be attracting people that reflect who you are more so than what you WANT. Want ain't shyt...it's a lot of muthafukkas that want a million dollars that would never allow themselves to attract such a thing, you dig?

I just think you have a lot of expectations, which again isn't wrong..but I wouldn't say that woman, or woman in general have anything "wrong" with them either for not living up to these ideals you have ready made for them as individuals. Especially if they include committing to a serious relationship in such a short time with someone who is looking for the kinds of things that are cultivated, not found.

I'm of the belief that everybody you meet or interact with are in your life to teach you something, to reflect something back to you at that point in time. If this is true, what do you think she might might have reflecting back at you? What was the lesson here?

What are you not getting from yourself (besides p*ssy) that you think she had for you? What exactly do you need to DEPEND on her for? Are you not a whole person? Is your foundation not solid?

I saw you mention trustworthy...do you trust yourself? I don't mean not to lie, but trust as in faith in how your life unfolds? All of this relationship shyt you're talking about sounds like an intellectual exercise when matters of love are anything but.

never reveal everything about yourself early to a woman.

you made yourself look like a huge cornball giving her free access to everything in your life. its a real turnoff and reeks of your desperation to lock her down. giving her the password to your phone... no bueno. there has to be an element of mystery.

i also think being a guy and insisting on asking where the relationship is at is feminine as hell. its usually the woman's place to ask this cuz she wanna make sure she has you to herself. she perceives you as a catch just as much as you should her. let it grow organically and soon enough she'll pose you the [dreaded] question: "so... what are we?"

I didn't even catch that part.

But I'm not gonna call family names or tell him to rearrange his personality. It's ok to be how he is (and to change, evolve, ebb, flow ect.) but until he actually understands the difference between what he WANTS and who he IS he'll forever run into people and situations that ultimately lead him back to finding the things he's searching for in other people within himself.

 

[3rdWorld]

nah I wasn't in a relationship, she said she wasn't ready for no relationship.

did you read my OP? lol

I read your thesis..you were in a relationship.

 

[jwonder]

@Nomadum Basically you are a rebound. We've all been there before, so no biggie. But if you are dealing with American or Americanized women, being aloof is the best deal. Smash when you can and try to find one that is not dumb and is down for what you are looking for. Most women in America like to be treated bad. Why? I really don't know. When I was young, I treated women bad. Now older, I just don't like doing that shyt. But women love it.

There is a chick at work, who is cordial but never really spoke to me other than work related or hello. shyt just at work the other day, this chick was writing me emails the other day (work related) and I responded rude (playing around). When I saw her later. She was like I wanted to throw something at you when you said that. But had the look. Now every time she sees me she always has the look. I seriously think American women are slightly retarded.

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

ill tell you straight up, you had a wifey and you ruined the shyt yourself ..because you wanted a meaningless "title" to your relationship

or she wanted to weigh her options while having a good thing going with OP.

 

[wickedsm]

I read your thesis..you were in a relationship.

they absolutely were in a relationship

thats why its a problem that old girl wanted to play and beat around the bush and not agree that they were in a relationship
hell it was early, but this chick didnt even want to say were working towards a relationship

then try to hit him with all kinds of mixed signals
fukk the shyt out of him
spend all kinds of time with him
get mad at him saying hey to another woman?

naw bytch. you dont get to have it both ways.

 

[jwonder]

never reveal everything about yourself early to a woman.

you made yourself look like a huge cornball giving her free access to everything in your life. its a real turnoff and reeks of your desperation to lock her down. giving her the password to your phone... no bueno. there has to be an element of mystery.

i also think being a guy and insisting on asking where the relationship is at is feminine as hell. its usually the woman's place to ask this cuz she wanna make sure she has you to herself. she perceives you as a catch just as much as you should her. let it grow organically and soon enough she'll pose you the [dreaded] question: "so... what are we?"

Well that is American way of dating, which is why there are a lot of failure in relationships here. Too many stupid rules. Don't do this and do that until__________. smh