What is wrong with women these days?

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

We live in superficial times.People only love each other when there's an audience watching.

Relationships= Mutual exploitation.


Just found me a cougar aged/kind hearted nympho.Go over for dinner, give her a few O's, bust a few nuts, and that's that

 

[Nomadum]

Most women are fukked up these days. I just stick to fukking hookers, it's fun, relatively cheap and you get what you pay for. You're in charge, positions, anal/vaginal, how long for, roleplay, different rooms, pornstar experience/girlfriend experience anything. Honestly it gets a bad rep but I've been doing it for over a decade and I'm happier than I was chasing after girlfriends and looking for relationships.

Got a small group of friends and a few hookers on the side... life is good breh

I was telling my real world breh's "That's it, I'm about to just buy escorts." I feel you on the pay for what you want thing, but it's all a learning and life experience. I could be getting NO play, atleast a nikka has to be grateful for getting some play even if it's shyt like this lol.

 

[Nomadum]

We live in superficial times.People only love each other when there's an audience watching.

Relationships= Mutual exploitation.


Just found me a cougar aged/kind hearted nympho.Go over for dinner, give her a few O's, bust a few nuts, and that's that

Sometimes I think that's true (The part about people being in relationships only due to audiences watching). but I ain't too bent out of shape about it, I'm going to run into a few bullshytters before I find one that's authentic.

 

[Stuntone]

You sound like the bytch of the relationship. You dictate, don't ask questions. The one who's asking all the questions, is the lost one. Men suppose to lead.

And A man should never be asking to be in a relationship.

She told you no once, why you keep bugging the bytch about a relationship?

If you don't like the arrangements, fall back. All that talking and trying to guilt trip the chick is lame. Let your actions do the talking.

 

[Reginald Noble]

OP's story sums up American Hoes in 2016. Period.

Stories like this are a dime o dozen. Don't give a fukk what some bytch says, it's the status quo.

 

[Reginald Noble]

She doesn't wanna be exclusive cause she fuccing other dudes and thinks she might get back with her ex.

Yeah and it's always these hoe-taming nikkas like her ex that let's Women like this continue existing in this dysfunctional bull, because they will take them back even after they fukk the whole town ("she took a break") so then a nikka like OP gets screwed in the process.

This is why I keep telling these nikkas to just stop fukking these amateur hoes and get a professional. For the love of God save your mental sanity. A lot of nikkas will spend $50 for a fat bytch and them to eat at Olive Garden but won't spend $80 for a quickie with a verified IG Model

 

[Nomadum]

You sound like the bytch of the relationship. You dictate, don't ask questions. The one who's asking all the questions, is the lost one. Men suppose to lead.

And A man should never be asking to be in a relationship.

She told you no once, why you keep bugging the bytch about a relationship?

If you don't like the arrangements, fall back. All that talking and trying to guilt trip the chick is lame. Let your actions do the talking.

I'm interesting in seeing how you figured I guilt tripped her?

I didn't hold anything over her head, all the parts of the story I intentionally omitted, trust me if I was a corn ball ass nikka I had done enough to guilt trip her. I'm no dog ass nikka nor have I ever had to guilt a dame into being with me. You are naive if you think you can 'make' a chick do anything, a female will do whatever she pleases just like you alluded to doing. I'm a realist, and just because I say "You my woman!" don't mean she my woman. fukk outta here with that Goldie shyt.

 

[Stuntone]

I'm interesting in seeing how you figured I guilt tripped her?

"You're treating my like I'm your ex"
"You think I'm dirty like your ex"

Sounds like guilt tripping to me.

Anyway, the bytch don't want to be locked down WITH YOU. Why keep nagging her about it.? Now if the right dude comes along, she'll be begging him to be exclusive with her. There's probably another guy in the picture that she really want to be with. When a female is in love with you, she puts pressure on your for a relationship.

In most relationship, one person like that other more. You like her more than she likes you. [/QUOTE]

 

[Nomadum]

"You're treating my like I'm your ex"
"You think I'm dirty like your ex"

Sounds like guilt tripping to me.

Anyway, the bytch don't want to be locked down WITH YOU. Why keep nagging her about it.? Now if the right dude comes along, she'll be begging him to be exclusive with her. There's probably another guy in the picture that she really want to be with. When a female is in love with you, she puts pressure on your for a relationship.

In most relationship, one person like that other more. You like her more than she likes you.

Nah it wasn't guilt trip. it was legitimate responses to her acts, like I said I've omitted shyt but if you assume I was guilt tripping her then that's your incorrect comprehension of what was typed. lol at nagging, anything I would've done outside of "telling her she mine" would've been the wrong move to you. Feel how you may slime

 

[SheWantTheD]

OP you kinda sound selfish. She clearly told you she needs time to heal but you don't really seem to care b/c you seem to only want what you want. The chick said old boy was controlling and here you come trying to pressure her into a relationship and you wonder why she ain't jumping at the chance to be with you?

Why can't you just enjoy her and let the relationship and trust build. fukking and hanging out doesn't make a relationship. Problem with modern day relationships is they really only seems to be about controlling what the other person does sexually.

You don't even know this person and she has told you she is not mentally stable enough for a relationship yet this is the person you want? Your thirsty and need to do some introspection on why you want a person who is not mentally stable and whom you don't know as a person to "build" with.

She needs time to heal taking that dikk, going on dates, hanging out, talking on the phone for hours on end?

Only thing putting a title on their relationship is gonna change is if she fukks other dudes, it's gonna look bad on her and she can't run behind "well we aren't exclusive".

Is them being exclusive gonna stop her from healing? If she really wanted/needed to heal, she wouldn't be messing with no one on a sexual, intimate, nor emotional level.

 

[Nomadum]

She needs time to heal taking that dikk, going on dates, hanging out, talking on the phone for hours on end?

Only thing putting a title on their relationship is gonna change is if she fukks other dudes, it's gonna look bad on her and she can't run behind "well we aren't exclusive".

Is them being exclusive gonna stop her from healing? If she really wanted/needed to heal, she wouldn't be messing with no one on a sexual, intimate, nor emotional level.

lol it's cool. thanks for the defense but I'm respect that people going to see the shyt from different lights.

I know my heart and my intentions so fukk em'. I'm "selfish" or a "bytch" then that's how they gone see it regardless

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

She needs time to heal taking that dikk, going on dates, hanging out, talking on the phone for hours on end?

Only thing putting a title on their relationship is gonna change is if she fukks other dudes, it's gonna look bad on her and she can't run behind "well we aren't exclusive".

Is them being exclusive gonna stop her from healing? If she really wanted/needed to heal, she wouldn't be messing with no one on a sexual, intimate, nor emotional level.

Right you made my point. It's only about sex and controlling whom she has sex with.

Again there is more to a relationship than just hanging out and fukking because right now that is all they are doing.

As someone who just got out of a relationship I can tell you exactly why I don't want to be in another any time soon and it's called "obligation." I will assume she feels the same way. In a relationship, you have an obligation to fulfill another person's needs physically, socially and emotionally. That shyt is draining and not always rewarding. Sometimes you just need to reset to baseline so that you have the will to give a damn about the needs of another. I mean look at dude. He is already emotionally needy. She's probably just not in the place to fully care about what he needs. She enjoys his company. That doesn't mean she wants/has the energy to give her all in the relationship. You don't have to be a hermit to self improve.

To try to force the issue is mad selfish and you will never have a successful relationship and when you are selfish period. Neither one of them are ready for a relationship. He just wants to press the issue b/c she wants to control who she is fukking. He doesn't give a damn about what she needs/wants any more than she cares about his. They both have the same issue on opposite sides of the coin. She's just the one being honest about the shyt.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Everyone wants the perks of everything with out the actual work.


OP liked the chick alot, but straight up once you asked 2 times and she said no you should have left it at that.


She wanted a boyfriend with out the responsibilities of a boyfriend.


Some people gonna say its you, I dont think you did anything wrong by wanting a relationship if you were going to do relationship stuff. But you can't force it.



I agree that alot of women say they want a good dude, most only like the ideal of one and the ones that do want good dudes are usually to guarded to let a good dude in for the fear of being hurt or disappointed by one.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Lot of simps in this thread

 

[mcdivit85]

Bro, she's still kicking it with her ex. So, you share a girl that doesn't even want to be your girl. I noticed several missteps on your part.

1. You "finally" got the number. How many times did you ask? How long did it take? You already lost here because you shouldn't have to beg for a chick's number. That makes you like a "default" type of dude in her mind. Denzel Test-if I were Denzel, would I have to wait to get her number?

2. Placing too much value on a chick whose not your girlfriend. You were doing some heavy cupcaking with a chick you had smashed a few times. She hadn't brought much to the table. She hadn't committed to you. She kept playing you to the left when it came to getting serious with you. And she told you that she was still caught up in what her ex did to her. Basically, this chick was using you for some attention and some "in the meantime" sex while her ex is ignoring her.

3. You begging this chick to be with you. First, you don't repeatedly ask someone to be with you. If someone wants to be with you, they'll jump at the chance to lock the situation down. And as a man, you made yourself look even more thirsty. Second, sounds like you're in college, which makes this even worse. You're a young male in a sea of young women and you consistently go out of your way to enter into a relationship with someone who doesn't want one with you. For shame.

4. She kept telling you that her ex still ruled her mind. Whenever a woman keeps bringing up what her ex did and how she's still so hurt over what he did to her and how that's stopping her from being with you, all she's doing is speak in Womenspeak. What's Womenspeak? It's a language that women use when their trying to tell mistruths, half truths or straight up lies. She was telling you that she still had feelings for her ex and that until she was 1000% sure that he was done with her, that she was not going to start with you.

5. You volunteered yourself for the "default n#gga" position. This is adding on Number 4. Here's what happened. Her dude was using and abusing her. She confronted him and he dipped on her because he had options. She's upset but wants him back. He comes around when he wants something i.e. sex, money, food, etc. This gives her some hope, so she keeps holding out for him but knows that he's still doing his thing. She meets you, default n#gga, who gives her all the attention the man she wants doesn't give her. You want to be with her, she wants to be with him but keeps you around all while hoping that he wants her back. And if and when he does want her back, SHE WILL DROP YOU WITH NO SECOND THOUGHT.

Learn from this and realize the game being played.

Peace