What the fukk is it with women wanting to go out?

[Ohene]

At the end of the day it all comes down to ego

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Yall really make the most pathetic virgin ass threads

And dudes really be replying answering shyt too

 

[humminbird]

just don't date women if it bothers you

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Attention

Grand opening and grand closing.

For many women, attention is more important to them than anything else.

 

[Max.]

U know hes gona try n slide in them cheeks one day right?

Hell yeah. I be feeling all special

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

U know hes gona try n slide in them cheeks one day right?

nah, i be helping him get girls. im not for him

 

[ThrobbingHood]

But, at the same time, men aren’t women. So, a lot of women make the mistake of expecting their man to be a version of their girlfriends with a dikk. And a lot of men end up bending over backward to change themselves to keep a woman happy. And they suppress certain things they like to do.

And this is why so many women (my woman included) have homo friends.

 

[Bossino]

I agree here. And it's where a lot of the frustration begins to build in a relationship.

Men don't account for the little things that women prioritize and vice versa.

Women need to be seen and validated, which means they want to be out and about. Otherwise, they will get depressed. That's just how they are wired. Why do you think COVID was driving these women crazy? They need to be seen, otherwise they lose their minds.

Men want to feel that a woman is excited about the things he's excited about, even if they have no clue about the shyt.

I see it with cac and asian women all the time. They'll be at a beer or whiskey spot with their men. You can tell they don't know anything about beer or whiskey. But, because their men are passionate about it, they tag along and at least pretend to be enjoying themselves. That stuff goes a long way with men.

Same with men having to get dressed up and throwing on the brunch boots to pay for some overpriced breakfast items called brunch. Most men don't care about that stuff, but it makes women happy. So, we do it. Most men would rather be somewhere watching college football or NFL football on a weekend.

This is why I tell people most people aren't cut out for marriage and I have a strong inkling that I'll die alone. I don't feel like sacrificing what joy/happiness I can get out of life for anyone or a long period of time. My family annoys me if they excessively ask me for help. Like for a woman to be worth it she'd have to be indispensable as a whole and I haven't come across anything close to that. I always lead with the fact that I don't like people and I'm boring when chicks first talk to me. I like to let people know what it is and what it's gon be early and often

 

[Bossino]

just don't date women if it bothers you

If you say you on this wave people assume your gay or mentally ill. I'm on this wave but I'm neither just get sex when necessary from jawns, and mind my mufukkin bidness outside of it

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I agree here. And it's where a lot of the frustration begins to build in a relationship.

Men don't account for the little things that women prioritize and vice versa.

Women need to be seen and validated, which means they want to be out and about. Otherwise, they will get depressed. That's just how they are wired. Why do you think COVID was driving these women crazy? They need to be seen, otherwise they lose their minds.

Men want to feel that a woman is excited about the things he's excited about, even if they have no clue about the shyt.

I see it with cac and asian women all the time. They'll be at a beer or whiskey spot with their men. You can tell they don't know anything about beer or whiskey. But, because their men are passionate about it, they tag along and at least pretend to be enjoying themselves. That stuff goes a long way with men.

Same with men having to get dressed up and throwing on the brunch boots to pay for some overpriced breakfast items called brunch. Most men don't care about that stuff, but it makes women happy. So, we do it. Most men would rather be somewhere watching college football or NFL football on a weekend.

Spitting nothing but gospel here.

This is why I tell people most people aren't cut out for marriage and I have a strong inkling that I'll die alone. I don't feel like sacrificing what joy/happiness I can get out of life for anyone or a long period of time. My family annoys me if they excessively ask me for help. Like for a woman to be worth it she'd have to be indispensable as a whole and I haven't come across anything close to that. I always lead with the fact that I don't like people and I'm boring when chicks first talk to me. I like to let people know what it is and what it's gon be early and often

It’s all about finding a compromise and not making sacrifices.

In my case, I’ve been seeing my girl for a while but I REFUSE to let her move in with me. Nothing to do with her but I like my own personal space too much and I don’t want anyone infringing on it.

So for that reason, I make more of an effort to go out with her when I can. Even if I know it’s bullshyt, it’s to compensate for her not living with me.

Now if I do end up marrying her, certain concessions will have to be made, that of course being her living with me but as you said, it’s not a sacrifice if I see her as indispensable.

 

[Sukairain]

It isn't a thing for me if it's a desire to go to places I would like to go to as well. I like being in nature, so going to places like mountains, beaches, waterfalls, parks, shyt like that where you can spend hours just walking around and looking at nature. In the man-made world, I like going to museums and art galleries and historical sites. In both cases I like to go places where there is a feast of visual beauty to take in, and where the atmosphere is calm and peaceful. They are places that facilitate thought and conversation.

I'm not one who enjoys going to the shops, the club, the restaurant or the bar. Because the activities that you do at those places aren't really what I like to do.

The issue is that the majority of women want to go out for reasons other than why I want to go out. For some reason they are drawn to busy and noisy places, whereas I like to go places that are calm and not too crowded.

 

[Bossino]

It isn't a thing for me if it's a desire to go to places I would like to go to as well. I like being in nature, so going to places like mountains, beaches, waterfalls, parks, shyt like that where you can spend hours just walking around and looking at nature. In the man-made world, I like going to museums and art galleries and historical sites. In both cases I like to go places where there is a feast of visual beauty to take in, and where the atmosphere is calm and peaceful. They are places that facilitate thought and conversation.

I'm not one who enjoys going to the shops, the club, the restaurant or the bar. Because the activities that you do at those places aren't really what I like to do.

The issue is that the majority of women want to go out for reasons other than why I want to go out. For some reason they are drawn to busy and noisy places, whereas I like to go places that are calm and not too crowded.

Because they can be seen breh whoo's looking at their outfit on a hike. The social media/attention whoring amplification is severely understated when speaking on modern culture.

 

[Sukairain]

Because they can be seen breh whoo's looking at their outfit on a hike. The social media/attention whoring amplification is severely understated when speaking on modern culture.

I don't fukk with social media at all. I use whatsapp for messaging my friends and that's it I guess I'm pretty old fashioned in that I prefer to connect with people in person, face to face

 

[Contrefaire]

I have never met a man who did this. Who are these dudes?

It's probably because you haven't been on the other end of it. Insecure men shame women for having sex with them all the time, but will brag about the sex they had to their friends and frame it as a positive thing because lowkey they know they'd be clowned for being insecure by their peers otherwise.

 

[Contrefaire]

All of that is true. And men should strike a good balance.

But, at the same time, men aren’t women. So, a lot of women make the mistake of expecting their man to be a version of their girlfriends with a dikk. And a lot of men end up bending over backward to change themselves to keep a woman happy. And they suppress certain things they like to do.

Most straight men aren’t trying to get dressed up every weekend, hitting the same brunch spots over and over, again, listening to a bunch of gossip and pop culture bs.

Yeah but most women already understand that though. And while I'm sure they exist, I can't think of one woman I know personally who actually wants or expects her man to get dressed up to go to brunch or whatever. All that energy is typically reserved for "the girls" and they generally don't even WANT men present because that's their time to talk shyt about men chat about whatever frivolous 'girly' gossipy type shyt they're interested in.