Grew up with stepfather, father was in L.A.
Didn't learn much from either.
Divorced from my mother now, wasn't exactly an "upstanding husband"...
Stepfather was okay, but he was more of a good "provider" than anything. Constantly co-signing my mother's bullshyt, but cool for the most part. A day with just him in the house would be considered an "aight" day...
Father is okay, he's a cop in California now. From what I was told, he was extremely abusive and strict with my mother, as well as my step-siblings. Never was like that towards me, but then again I didn't exactly grow up around him
Funny thing about him. After me, he had 2 boys and a girl (1 of the boys is a stepchild). They've all grown up....now he done turned around and had 2 MORE boys and a girl (oldest about 11 or so)....
He seems aight, he's just...well, "him." He has his ways I suppose....
Not really "angry" at either of them. Never was really the emotional daddy issues type. I just never really looked up to either of them...