What's an ugly nikka to do?

[AndYouKnowTHIS]

I used to be called ugly since middle school. Use to get the "Hey, hey she likes you" jokes, nikkas would be straight roasting me and I was quiet so that made things worse. What's funny is a decent looking chick asked me out for prom my senior year...

Now I'm confused as hell because I used to work at Walmart and have had several good looking girls like me. I even got rare compliments from customers. Like wtf is going on?. Like is this sht even real. On top of that, I'm 20% body fat, so what gone happen when i get down to 8%? My confidence has gone up a little and I'm actually cocky sometimes

 

[Weaver31]

Im an average dude but used to have low self-esteem. I suggest dudes to just try to fix what you could fix...start with the quick fixes like getting fresh cuts, finding the haircut/style that works for u (depending on ur face shape, hairline, etc.), working out (this can kill a few birds with one stone) to tone up, bulk up and relieve stress, clear mind and achieve goals, and do what u can do to get ur money up. Now when I say getting money up, I don't mean getting money to sponsor or trick females...but being financially stable and having money stacked up makes for a less stressful life and better mentality. I think finances are very important because not having money stresses me out and it stresses some other people as well. Plus, females like when a man has his own means and able to take her out. Plus, who actually wants someone broke. I would say keep applying for better paying jobs, getting the education u need if u can get it, or trying to move up at ur current company would help....as well as getting 2nd job that isn't too taxing on u...and paying off debt, cards, etc..anything to improve ur personal financial status and credit. It will relieve stress.

As far as long term fixes...it may take time...but u cant let ur looks take over and make u depressed. I wish I could get thru life and just get by off my handsomeness and have a body type that gains no weight and is naturally muscular but I wasn't blessed with all that. But if u didn't win the genetic lottery, then u need to work to get over it. This usually takes time and some things in life takes experience to learn. Like some said on here....u gotta get ur mind right and perspectives in order.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

Uglies can't be choosers go

Lol go get you a lil mud duck and be happy

 

[Ronnie Lott]

I don't get a lot of girls. Never been a ladies man even though my brothers are. I stopped giving a fukk a long time ago. These bytches ain't shyt anyway.

 

[Drip Bayless]

Nah, it's far from that. What you said was nothing more than cynicism, and a lot of y'all nikkas on here think y'all are special for being atheistic cynics. I didn't mean you couldn't understand the words. I meant that you wouldn't grasp the concept that unhappiness wouldn't exist if people didn't go against God, and commit evil. You don't want to try to understand that because you'd rather be on some white boy shyt, telling yourself that it's just tough luck that people suffer

Ironically, Platinga came up with this argument 50 years ago.
So you repeating white man's talking points but calling me white for disagreeing with him
Smarten up breh

 

[Weaver31]

Uglies can't be choosers go

Lol go get you a lil mud duck and be happy

Ugly women can have very high standards too (and they have a right to) so it isn't always as simple like telling an ugly man to find an ugly woman...don't forget 80/20 rule.

 

[acbjr22]

Why do you think that is??

Idk B, shorties just don't be feeling me like that I guess. I'm quiet as hell and reserved. I get a few, but my bros be bagging hella bytches dawg. nikkas then smashed over 100+ chicks.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

Idk B, shorties just don't be feeling me like that I guess. I'm quiet as hell and reserved. I get a few, but my bros be bagging hella bytches dawg. nikkas then smashed over 100+ chicks.

You ever ask them for help

 

[joeychizzle]

Get in shape, pursue your interests, never stop learning. Don't let perceived physical obstacles stop you from achieving greatness breh. Ascend to your prime and things will fall into place. That or backpage

Fr though, don't worry about that and focus on your goals. Way easier said than done but it's a good way to set about fixin that problem.

 

[Worthless Loser]

I just realized one thing an ugly breh can do is post their picture in the men of coli pictures thread to get sympathy daps from females who think you're ugly, but are dapping you simply for posting a picture or to possibly boost your self esteem.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Be Mexican.

No matter what they look like, Mexican dudes eat like crazy out here.

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

I just realized one thing an ugly breh can do is post their picture in the men of coli pictures thread to get sympathy daps from females who think you're ugly, but are dapping you simply for posting a picture or to possibly boost your self esteem.

They don't give ugly nikkas no sympathy daps. They only dap they good looking brehs.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

They don't give ugly nikkas no sympathy daps. They only dap they good looking brehs.

Yea when I used to dabble in there, that men of coli thread about as honest as they get....

They legit won't dap nikkas they don't find attractive.

 

[inthebushes]

Pagan suicide and reincarnation as Chad

 

[inthebushes]

Be Mexican.

No matter what they look like, Mexican dudes eat like crazy out here.

I've noticed this. Latinas in general seem not to care about looks as other women, at least when it comes to their own men. Not saying you can get hot latinas as a kent looking black dude.