What's so wrong about dating a coli breh?

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I meet about 5-8 people from AHH and thecoli in real life. Every single one was similar or exactly the same as their posting style. Most of the time are more chilled and cool. Hell, they act like they act on tinychat.
i probably visit ahh once every 5years and spend 5 min

do u know if this redbone brickhouse named deja still post got damn she bad
 

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i probably visit ahh once every 5years and spend 5 min

do u know if this redbone brickhouse named deja still post got damn she bad
I haven't posted their in 5 years breh. Even so, I haven't talk to a female from that site in ages even when I was single.
 

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Should have sent 30 messages. 30 is the charm for sure.
30 it is lemme get to it then

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It's funny, dudes always said, 100 girls only care about 10 guys but we do the same. Most would fukk 100 girls but most only care about 10 of them.

The point I was trying to make is that: when almost everyone is trying to talk to the same chick, it's a tad difficult and the chick is going to start feeling herself. There has to be equilibrium, with the demand matching the supply, to get the right quality of chick you want on a message board. And you'd be in a better position, if the supply is greater than the demand.

Perhaps, it's cuz I've never been the type to run after the same chick everyone is after IRL. I probably tried it only once and that's cuz I spoke to the chick and I could feel the connection that she's into me and, she's mine to lose.

Let me digress a bit to your post about message board dating: do you think you're going to be comfortable dating a chick you met on this board who's privy to everything you post, without holding a lot back? I say this cuz this is a male dominated board where most people come to vent and do all kinds of male fukkery they wouldn't do around chicks. I'm not saying it's about leading a double life - but, it's just normal for most guys to act a certain way around women and flip to something else around guys. We all mostly thrive based on the energy around us and the energy around women is different from the energy around men. Coupled with the fact that anonymity does create a cover for everyone to be whatever character they want to create - albeit, a bit of our personality trait would still permeate through that cover.
 

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The point I was trying to make is that: when almost everyone is trying to talk to the same chick, it's a tad difficult and the chick is going to start feeling herself. There has to be equilibrium, with the demand matching the supply, to get the right quality of chick you want on a message board. And you'd be in a better position, if the supply is greater than the demand.

Perhaps, it's cuz I've never been the type to run after the same chick everyone is after IRL. I probably tried it only once and that's cuz I spoke to the chick and I could feel the connection that she's into me and, she's mine to lose.

Let me digress a bit to your post about message board dating: do you think you're going to be comfortable dating a chick you met on this board who's privy to everything you post, without holding a lot back? I say this cuz this is a male dominated board where most people come to vent and do all kinds of male fukkery they wouldn't do around chicks. I'm not saying it's about leading a double life - but, it's just normal for most guys to act a certain way around women and flip to something else around guys. We all mostly thrive based on the energy around us and the energy around women is different from the energy around men. Coupled with the fact that anonymity does create a cover for everyone to be whatever character they want to create - albeit, a bit of our personality trait would still permeate through that cover.
If you got a lot to say that's off the wall, maybe you just ain't looking for a woman in general. Same for women, if you on LSA talking crazy and shyt, you ain't really shyt anyway and that's why your life is crazy.

People live how they live. Everyone ain't for everyone and a lot ain't for no one.

I don't hold back shyt, if I get negged and put on probation, so be it. I would say it here, I will say it at home. That's what owning your shyt is all about but don't be disrespectful. No one wants that.
 

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If you got a lot to say that's off the wall, maybe you just ain't looking for a woman in general. Same for women, if you on LSA talking crazy and shyt, you ain't really shyt anyway and that's why your life is crazy.

People live how they live. Everyone ain't for everyone and a lot ain't for no one.

I don't hold back shyt, if I get negged and put on probation, so be it. I would say it here, I will say it at home. That's what owning your shyt is all about but don't be disrespectful. No one wants that.

Let me cite an example to buttress my point:

I met a chick I was seeing briefly on a message board. I'm naturally flirty but not promiscuous. One time, I was flirting (casual flirt) with another chick on the same board and next thing, I got a text from this chick asking me if I'm trying to fukk the chick and how she can see through me. Then another time, I was having a back and forth with a next chick and I must've alluded to how I've got an alluring presence (just talking in general) when it comes to chicks - and that's something twhich gives me a leeway to smash most chicks the first time I spend time with them. It wasn't even up to 5mins after that, I got a text from the chick I met on the message board about how I'm trying to indirectly call her a hoe cuz she let me smash the first time we met. It turned into all kinds of disrespectful one-sided fukkery (I never even responded cuz I'm not the type to argue with women). That's why I don't really like all shenanigans that come with internet dating. And also why I don't have any presence on social media cuz chicks are always looking for things to be mad about.

As for the last paragraph, I agree with you. Personally, in IRL I seldom get disrespected by random people. But you'll get that a lot on the internet. And if you're the type that doesn't back down from no one, you'd look a tad confrontational. However, that doesn't represent who you're albeit it's easy to get caught up in the mix.
 
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And then disrespectful shyt like this. You know for a fact she's dealing with a guy that posts here yet you would still say/do something like this? Ya'll have zero respect for each other.


Same guys who simp her go into threads dapping posts on that 'nah I dont date single mothers' (no disrespect to her your situation is what it is :manny: ) . Shes one of the few female posters I actually like and thats not because she contributes to discussions (most of you dont no offense :manny: ) but because she calls the bluff of a lot of posters here who talk that 'no simping single moms' '#HOH' 'stop simping' .. soon as she makes a thread its guaranteed to go platinum. Same dudes were mad at the guy shes dating here.

Is it disrespectful to flirt knowing shes got a man? Yeah but you know how this game is.. plus we're all strangers here.

At the same time, OP knows what shes doing. She made this thread knowing that guys around here didn't react well to hearing that she was dating a Coli member and in general she knows that any thread she makes here will go plat. She likes the attention she gets but doesn't like the consequences of it. It isn't a good look at all - ok you're dating a member of this forum cool, is there really a need for a follow up thread? People always wonder why relationships are hard, this social 'me me me' generation is one of the reasons. Relationships are between two people (and God for those who are religious)... keep it private. Lets keep it 100 was there any need in telling the Coli in the first place? If your man aint makin threads why are you?

Idk how some people here are older than me at times, you guys are making mistakes that young teens make. Deal with who you wanna deal with but keep it private, all this attention just brings unnecessary problems .
 

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I dap and quote everyone even the shady nikkas and bitter bytches :yeshrug:

I know it's hard to read when trolling, being facetious, or just high off my ass and saying whatever...perhaps that's why folks are feeling some type of way? :yeshrug:

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Back in my younger days girls could just smile at me or show simple respect and I'd be like :jawalrus: that bytch like a nikka
 
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