What's the biggest thing you learned from your last relationship?

[Gold]

what you mean?

A few months in after the courting phase is over and i've "wow"ed her etc etc... i get bored.

 

[LebronsHairline]

now obviously you dont feel that in the beginning, ever wonder why u get bored wit em?

 

[Shadow King]

Always go with the gut instinct, never overlap, and never move to a Miami bytch crib...if she already fukking with somebody, somebody ELSE is in the background, guaranteed.

Overlap?
And why so specific to Miami bytches?

 

[LebronsHairline]

A few months in after the courting phase is over and i've "wow"ed her etc etc... i get bored.

now obviously you dont feel that in the beginning, ever wonder why u get bored wit em?

 

[Gold]

now obviously you dont feel that in the beginning, ever wonder why u get bored wit em?

I think about it often. Its something I clearly have to address before I get married. I dont know what the answer is.
I think I have a hard time transitioning from "this is a girl I want to impress and wow" to "this is a life partner".

When my goal is to impress and wow... once I've accomplished that i'm like... aight what next?

 

[Daio]

Make all the decision and don't ask her opinion on anything.

 

[Uitomy]

That i'm bad at relationships, but good at courting

Ugh the courting is the best part to me cause of the lack of rules and structure
Then once shyt is settled and you guys normalize your behavior shyt shifts hard

 

[Mac Brown]

Nothing

 

[ozzy]

Never spend money on a man they will take you for granted

Oh no more being good and caring

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

to stop overlooking red flags

 

[skeetsinternal]

people will show you who they are

 

[LebronsHairline]

I think about it often. Its something I clearly have to address before I get married. I dont know what the answer is.
I think I have a hard time transitioning from "this is a girl I want to impress and wow" to "this is a life partner".

When my goal is to impress and wow... once I've accomplished that i'm like... aight what next?

i only ask cuz i go thru the same shyt, even after gettin to that partner stage with a good girl the second she starts nagging or whatever in my head im like " i can go get a girl who does everything u do who wont nag me for at least the next 2 weeks.

i think having an overabundance of women in the city im in is prolly the biggest problem

 

[Gold]

i only ask cuz i go thru the same shyt, even after gettin to that partner stage with a good girl the second she starts nagging or whatever in my head im like " i can go get a girl who does everything u do who wont nag me for at least the next 2 weeks.

i think having an overabundance of women in the city im in is prolly the biggest problem

Same, same same.
I think my biggest issue is that I've never had any issue getting women.

And as much as I hate to say this (because it will sound narcissistic)... I take pleasure in courting because I fee like she should be happy to be around me for those couple of months.

Even in a city like Dallas... I sometimes feel like a shark in a fishbowl.
I'm young (kinda), with a nice car and a nice income. shyt gets to your head easily.

I think I need to get over myself before I can truly appreciate a good girl.

 

[Sterling Archer]

That i'm bad at relationships, but good at courting

A few months in after the courting phase is over and i've "wow"ed her etc etc... i get bored.

I think about it often. Its something I clearly have to address before I get married. I dont know what the answer is.
I think I have a hard time transitioning from "this is a girl I want to impress and wow" to "this is a life partner".

When my goal is to impress and wow... once I've accomplished that i'm like... aight what next?

Are you me?

 

[Sterling Archer]

people will show you who they are

Man, I say this all the time. Theres a reason why actors get paid so much money. Because its damn hard work to stay in character. If theyre playing a role, the real them will come out at some point. You just need the awareness to spot it when it shows itself.