What's the biggest thing you learned from your last relationship?

[Gold]

Are you me?

Gang?
Gang Gang

 

[Sterling Archer]

Gang?
Gang Gang

Gang

 

[skeetsinternal]

Man, I say this all the time. Theres a reason why actors get paid so much money. Because its damn hard work to stay in character. If theyre playing a role, the real them will come out at some point. You just need the awareness to spot it when it shows itself.

Yea breh, thats why I try to stay consistent.

 

[NSSVO]

Given the right situation, I can trust a female.

 

[LebronsHairline]

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Same, same same.
I think my biggest issue is that I've never had any issue getting women.

And as much as I hate to say this (because it will sound narcissistic)... I take pleasure in courting because I fee like she should be happy to be around me for those couple of months.

Even in a city like Dallas... I sometimes feel like a shark in a fishbowl.
I'm young (kinda), with a nice car and a nice income. shyt gets to your head easily.

I think I need to get over myself before I can truly appreciate a good girl.

so used to gettin women nikkas are becoming numb to it

im so passed that courting shyt that ill purposely say crazy (not to crazy ) shyt to women just to see their responses. Taught me no matter what your talkin about as long as its interesting and/or they like you they'll argue about it forever, especially if its sexual.

only turned me into more of a savage, preciate the response tho breh

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Overlap?
And why so specific to Miami bytches?

You really not supposed to move to NO bytch crib. She was extra, put her "best friend" on Backpage...had hella shyt cracking. Ex boyfriend right around the corner, other weirdo shyt that made me uncomfortable, plus it was a very Latino neighborhood.

 

[Steel]

Good woman are rare out here brehs. When you find one you gotta lock em down early

 

[Mr. Negative]

I think about it often. Its something I clearly have to address before I get married. I dont know what the answer is.
I think I have a hard time transitioning from "this is a girl I want to impress and wow" to "this is a life partner".

When my goal is to impress and wow... once I've accomplished that i'm like... aight what next?

you think it's cause the chase is good, then all that happy idealistic shyt goes out the window?

like the best part of a relationship is its all great and fun and sparkles and lights, then she expects you to do basic car maintenance, pay for salon visits and help with her bills even though you don't live together?

in your mind you're like " yeah lets replace her before it goes there"

 

[El Bajo Negro]

Bush a female after the first flake

 

[BabyGrl1990]

Never get too comfortable.

 

[ImGucci]

You cant date a woman over 30, the same way you would a 21 year old. They are going to expect commitment a lot quicker.

By commitment, I don't mean just saying you're official. They are going to want you two living together, making plans for the future after 6 months dating.

 

[Piffiztheanswer]

Just let go

 

[Karb]

Red Flag issues that you seen earlier will eventually been the issues that will cause you to be unhappy. I learned if I ever saw any red flags, it will be best to keep it moving...

Ive dodged soo many bullets since then

Same here. Never ignore red flags. Learned the hard way

 

[PCHMalibu]

You can be great on paper as a couple, but have no chemistry!!

Meaning, y'all finances A1, common interests, overall good ppl. But it's just boring. No excitement. Sex is good but you know that you just going through the motions.

If you feel more like friends than lovers...

 

[PCHMalibu]

Need to communicate more and be able last in bed longer than 8minutes

Those are my takeaways

Fred