What's the problem with being "quiet"?

[CinnaSlim]

She probably felt intimidated by you and your silence in between talking. Scorpios can come off like that because they tend to make strong eye contact and you don't know what they're thinking when they're just observing.

They come off as either intimidating or interesting and attractive.

 

[twan83]

It's crazy how much of a big deal people make it. I remember my 1st date on went on a couple of years ago. All through the date she kept asking me why I'm so quiet but I was the one asking her questions and shyt. She cut contact a week after for whatever reason. Went on an Tinder date and the same shyt happened. She said she couldn't trust me because I was a Scorpio but didn't talk a lot This breh at work tried to hook me up with a coworker and she sent him a text "No, he's too quiet"

I'm a type of person who speaks when spoken too but if I don't have anything to say to you then I don't. I'm not gonna start talking to you because you're standing by me. shyt is weird af

im a scropio never had that problem before

i talk when talked to but i like to listen to what u have to say i pay attention to what u have to say so i can give u a proper response that comes off as a person who paid close attention too u
i like to stimulate the mind and have good convos cuz if i cant u shall go dont want a boring person

 

[Citi Trends]

A lot of y'all dudes are probably just socially awkward. Asking females out on dates just to be quiet and weird, #WhereTheyDoThatAt?

The problem is that message boards are predominantly populated by introverts so y'all get to keep having your circle jerks about how cool introverts are and how extroverts are really the ones with the problems. In reality, extroverts have better social skills, wider social circles, and end up having a lot more sexual partners/experiences than introverts do. So unless all of y'all look like Denzel/Idris Elba, (which undoubtedly you all do), you're probably not getting laid all that much if you don't have a mouthpiece

Hopefully most people's lives aren't defined by how many sexual partners they have. Not to mention i dont think fukking a bunch of people or a wide social circle(who honestly cares about this) are really important to a...you know...introvert
I mean aren't "mouthpiece" dudes always talking about not putting p*ssy on a pedestal and getting women doesn't define you? Yet here you are saying how many sexual partners somehow makes your life better i guess?

And actually i dont think theres any correlation of introvert/extrovert status to how many people you can fukk. Being outspoken doesn't make you anymore smart/funny/tolerable/suave than someone who only speaks when necessary.

 

[Nymbus]

Do people really take astrology seriously though?
I'm genuinely curious I thought it was just some small talk females do to pass the time like "oh I heard the weathers supposed to be nice this weekend"

 

[SemiEnlightenedBum]

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[Rich Spirit]

I've gotten that before...I'm not shy or anything...I just dont like running off at the mouth..I'm a thinker

This. I'm a man of few words. I keep it cordial w/people

 

[street heat]

i am quiet unless im trying to get laid. then i fake like a mofo. it sucks but you gotta do what you gotta do

 

[KravenMorehead™]

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[SemiEnlightenedBum]

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[YoungSimpson]

This why you gotta lie & make up shyt

Truest shyt said in this thread. Just lie your ass off. You will begin to enjoy it and the bytch will think you're enjoying her. fukk her then show her the real quiet you.

 

[ReggieFlare]

You gotta learn the art of conversation breh. It's okay to not be a very talkative person. From what was stated I get the vibe that you're one of those dudes who never really divulge any actual information about themselves; this can give off bad vibes since the other person can't read you.

Learn to listen, respond, and share your thoughts/feelings/etc. The last is especially important since it will remind people that you're human.

 

[Quiet Magician]

She probably felt intimidated by you and your silence in between talking. Scorpios can come off like that because they tend to make strong eye contact and you don't know what they're thinking when they're just observing.

They come off as either intimidating or interesting and attractive.

I disagree. If you are making strong eye contact and not saying much you make it awkward for the other party. A date has to have both parties involved and so if one of them is just staring at the other only answering questions, it looks like they are disinterested.

Spit game or don't even bother going on a date because no one has time for that type of shyt.

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

Breh...me and you are on the same page...I get that same tired as saying "he's quiet you gotta watch him" the fukk? I sit and chill and comment what I feel I need to...usually people who run their mouths all the time don't know what they're talking about or just want attention and I don't fall into neither of those. Fukk em

 

[CinnaSlim]

I disagree. If you are making strong eye contact and not saying much you make it awkward for the other party. A date has to have both parties involved and so if one of them is just staring at the other only answering questions, it looks like they are disinterested.

Spit game or don't even bother going on a date because no one has time for that type of shyt.

disagree with which part?

 

[Somewhere For Me]

I'm a pretty quiet person, but I must speak on something that kind of annoys me:

Honestly, I've grown tired of this "Oh, I'm an introvert therefore I'm special" circlejerk that has become pretty common on the internet. There really are some introverts who have a superiority complex about themselves and let their asses speak before they do, but stay wondering why they can't get any friends/relationships. An individual can speak and talk with people without having to tell their whole life story, yap about nothing, or give the cold shoulder. It does not kill one to speak in return when someone speaks to them. I guess because since I hail from the South where it is common for random folks to wave at and speak with you, I have had no choice but to learn the art of conversation while still maintaining being an introvert.

On top of that, a date isn't an one way street. :|