What's the problem with being "quiet"?

[Bless't]

There are situations in which require being an extrovert, of course. But if I dont know you or care to get to know you... why do I need to be out there like that?

A date? shyt, I'll make her crack up, smile and enjoy the conversation.
Standing in line paying for groceries? Let me pay for my salsa and bounce.
Work? Naaaaah. No one needs to know anything about my personal life.
Bar situation? That can go either way.

Hate people who talk just to talk. Cant be in their own heads for 5 seconds because of the deafening silence.

 

[IShotTheSheriff]

I like scorpions because they are usually quiet. They observe people and tend to have intelligent and deep conversations when they do open up. I'm the same way. Im quiet because I don't care to talk just to talk. I talk when I have a reason to.

 

[CinnaSlim]

Auto correct lol, I meant scorpios.
scorpions are cool too. I heard they're delicious too.

 

[IShotTheSheriff]

Auto correct lol, I meant scorpios.
scorpions are cool too. I heard they're delicious too.

calamari is as far as I go

 

[philmonroe]

A lot of y'all dudes are probably just socially awkward. Asking females out on dates just to be quiet and weird, #WhereTheyDoThatAt?

The problem is that message boards are predominantly populated by introverts so y'all get to keep having your circle jerks about how cool introverts are and how extroverts are really the ones with the problems. In reality, extroverts have better social skills, wider social circles, and end up having a lot more sexual partners/experiences than introverts do. So unless all of y'all look like Denzel/Idris Elba, (which undoubtedly you all do), you're probably not getting laid all that much if you don't have a mouthpiece

Yeah I agree with this regarding dudes being socially awkward. I'm going to go out on a date then start acting like a mime. fukk you went on a date for so y'all can bump heads like some fukking android phone so she can know your thoughts. Smh. Yeah the other problem is the faux superiority complex these cats be on with their generalizing.

this thread is made every week

This its like dudes can't function without these I need to feel better threads. They know this stuff is wack that's why they come here to get reassurance but its kinda false reassurance because IRL dudes like FOH with this I'm quiet non sense.

Sounds like you have a attitude problem you refuse to work on

The women on these dates thought you were quiet and didn't like them,your family thinks you dont like them....You might not just be introverted but rude as shyt

Your doing something to make people uncomfortable,if that doesn't bother you that's cool,but we gon pretend everybody else has the problem

Theres no reason you shouldn't have shyt to talk about with your family,tell them about what you read on thecoli today if you need to,maybe they'll learn something...No reason you shouldn't have questions to ask a girl you just met who you want to have a relationship or at least sex with,or you should want to tell her about yourself....You gon keep wasting money going on dates learning a little bit at a time

This

That's purely subjective.

Because every quite person that holds this snobby view in regards to social interaction, is just as vapid, self-satisfactory tool you'd ever come across.

Your observations and witticisms aren't as interesting and groundbreaking as you think they, you're a translucent recluse that has a high opinion of himself based on his limited exposure of society, so they project instead of actually experience.

Glad some people see the real dude out here making themselves all cool but who besides themselves even can co sign this since they don't speak to people since they are sooooooooo deep.

I'm a pretty quiet person, but I must speak on something that kind of annoys me:

Honestly, I've grown tired of this "Oh, I'm an introvert therefore I'm special" circlejerk that has become pretty common on the internet. There really are some introverts who have a superiority complex about themselves and let their asses speak before they do, but stay wondering why they can't get any friends/relationships. An individual can speak and talk with people without having to tell their whole life story, yap about nothing, or give the cold shoulder. It does not kill one to speak in return when someone speaks to them. I guess because since I hail from the South where it is common for random folks to wave at and speak with you, I have had no choice but to learn the art of conversation while still maintaining being an introvert.

On top of that, a date isn't an one way street. :|

I agree this stuff annoys me cause its just as attention seeking as the people they claim are soo bad. Truthfully I think a lot of the quiet shy cats want to really be accepted.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I think "quiet" is the wrong word. I know i describe myself as "guarded", "reserved" or "introverted"(never shy) because if I don't know you or feel comfortable around you then i'm not opening up. Everybody in this world is so damn judgmental. So quick to label someone a "creep" , "lame", or "too quiet" because you don't run your mouth like a damn female(one of the reasons i'm very guarded around new people) Maybe some dudes don't speak because they ain't got shyt to say. Ever heard of "strong and silent" types. Clint Eastwood, Harrison Ford, dudes like that don't yap they mouth and they swim in p*ssy and get shyt done. HOWEVER dude if you're on a date, you should be TALKING, so i'm not going give you a pass on that.

 

[ISO]

Do people really take astrology seriously though?
I'm genuinely curious I thought it was just some small talk females do to pass the time like "oh I heard the weathers supposed to be nice this weekend"

I thought it was bullshyt I sat down with a girl I was talking to and she was into it I read my sign (Virgo) and that shyt damn near described me to a tee.

 

[philmonroe]

I think "quiet" is the wrong word. I know i describe myself as "guarded", "reserved" or "introverted"(never shy) because if I don't know you or feel comfortable around you then i'm not opening up. Everybody in this world is so damn judgmental. So quick to label someone a "creep" , "lame", or "too quiet" because you don't run your mouth like a damn female(one of the reasons i'm very guarded around new people) Maybe some dudes don't speak because they ain't got shyt to say. Ever heard of "strong and silent" types. Clint Eastwood, Harrison Ford, dudes like that don't yap they mouth and they swim in p*ssy and get shyt done. HOWEVER dude if you're on a date, you should be TALKING, so i'm not going give you a pass on that.

Bold is why some cats be like fukk these nikkas on when this shyt come up online. Y'all must be running in sucker nikka circles because I swear on everything never heard dudes worrying about another dude not talking they more like Unless its some dude around and you doing dirt or something like that. If you a dude that don't talk and I'm around you most Ill say is ole boy don't say much but the extras I don't know you(in general) to give a fukk about you one way or another and that's how the people I'm around even friends of friends roll. Never saw it now a girl dudes might try to get her to open up but a dude fukk no.

 

[TheArchitect]

Auto correct lol, I meant scorpios.
scorpions are cool too. I heard they're delicious too.

Yeah we're cool. Don't know about delicious though....

 

[Zero]

How many times are you :kent2: ass nikkas gonna make this thread?

Speak up...and say it with your chest

 

[the artist known az]

It's crazy how much of a big deal people make it. I remember my 1st date on went on a couple of years ago. All through the date she kept asking me why I'm so quiet but I was the one asking her questions and shyt. She cut contact a week after for whatever reason. Went on an Tinder date and the same shyt happened. She said she couldn't trust me because I was a Scorpio but didn't talk a lot This breh at work tried to hook me up with a coworker and she sent him a text "No, he's too quiet"

I'm a type of person who speaks when spoken too but if I don't have anything to say to you then I don't. I'm not gonna start talking to you because you're standing by me. shyt is weird af

Brother?

 

[DarkHorse23]

:kent2:

That is so wrong. Who created that? Yall going make that boy commit suicide....

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Loud nikkas arrogant, quiet nikkas arrogant Don't see why quiet nikkas being arrogant has to be anymore of an underlying issue than the opposite...

 

[DatBoiHawk]

Muhfukkas say I'm quiet too, but I think that I talk just enough.....I don't get it either, I guess people want you to be a walking minstrel show everyday dancing and laughing at every joke like Sambo

 

[DonRe]

OP I feel you. People lack so much self awareness it's hilarious.

If people really heard the shyt they talk about and complain about they might shut the fuk up for once.

But US introverted muthafukkas have to speak, and let these socially retarded muthafukkas with big mouths that what they speak is useless, empty bullshyt.

Speak Up Against Loud People.