What's the problem with being "quiet"?

[acri1]

It is what it is...I can relate.

Just an introvert/extrovert thing...people that are extroverted have a tendency to think something is wrong if you're not talking enough, when in reality you just might not have anything to say. Just something you'll tend to struggle with if you're more on the introverted side.

My advice is that if you're an introverted dude, date women who are also introverts.

Introverted man/Extroverted women relationships usually don't seem to work out from what I've observed.

 

[semtex]

You gotta make these hoes laugh fam.

 

[boyboy]

I wouldn't really about. I will say if you are on a date you should be talking no if, and, but about that. Having said that most people that talk a lot aren't saying much and just talking about some BS and non sense. You can't let ignorant people pull you down to their level. You have to make them raise up to your level.

You will make a some enemies doing that. But for me that's ok. Because I'm quick to let a dumb nikka know he is exactly that....a dumb nikka. At the very least everyone will respect you and won't fukk with even if they don't like you. lol

 

[Based Lord Zedd]

I'm a pretty quiet person, but I must speak on something that kind of annoys me:

Honestly, I've grown tired of this "Oh, I'm an introvert therefore I'm special" circlejerk that has become pretty common on the internet. There really are some introverts who have a superiority complex about themselves and let their asses speak before they do, but stay wondering why they can't get any friends/relationships. An individual can speak and talk with people without having to tell their whole life story, yap about nothing, or give the cold shoulder. It does not kill one to speak in return when someone speaks to them. I guess because since I hail from the South where it is common for random folks to wave at and speak with you, I have had no choice but to learn the art of conversation while still maintaining being an introvert.

On top of that, a date isn't an one way street. :|

It's because introverts dominate the internet, at least compared to how many you'd see in real life.

I'm an introvert, but even I'm not foolish enough to go on a date and just sit there being quiet. LOL WTF.

 

[philmonroe]

It's because introverts dominate the internet, at least compared to how many you'd see in real life.

I'm an introvert, but even I'm not foolish enough to go on a date and just sit there being quiet. LOL WTF.

Basically and the first part super true because the shyt some of these dudes saying on here would have them ready to commit that IRL. Dudes talking about dudes worried about if they talk or not. I don't believe that shyt at all and if its girls doing it these dudes flamingo status that don't know the girl trying to talk to them. So anyway you slice most of these dudes weirdos but I bet they already know that that's why they run on here with their fellow weirdo brethren to complain about stupid shyt like this.

 

[Sauce Dab]

Everything has to be "lit" nowadays so people don't know when to shut up sometimes and stop doing stuff for the gram and snapchat

 

[CrimsonTider]

Yall aren't quiet. Yall are socially awkward

It's not hard to hold a conversation

 

[Rack4K]

Quiet is fine, shy is not.

 

[Yehuda]

you in the matrix my nikka?


this nikka turnin digital

I'm saying though lol

I'm reading his comment like

i am quiet unless im trying to get laid. then i fake like a mofo.

 

[WhodatWhoadi]

I'm a pretty quiet person, but I must speak on something that kind of annoys me:

Honestly, I've grown tired of this "Oh, I'm an introvert therefore I'm special" circlejerk that has become pretty common on the internet. There really are some introverts who have a superiority complex about themselves and let their asses speak before they do, but stay wondering why they can't get any friends/relationships. An individual can speak and talk with people without having to tell their whole life story, yap about nothing, or give the cold shoulder. It does not kill one to speak in return when someone speaks to them. I guess because since I hail from the South where it is common for random folks to wave at and speak with you, I have had no choice but to learn the art of conversation while still maintaining being an introvert.

On top of that, a date isn't an one way street. :|

 

[semtex]

I'm introverted and I'm a muscular dude with a face that looks like ---> most of the time

I have certain coworkers that when they want to ask or tell me something, they just about always get someone else to do it

 

[Archimedes]

Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over working in teams. It is to introverts—Rosa Parks, Chopin, Dr. Seuss, Steve Wozniak—that we owe many of the great contributions to society.

In Quiet, Susan Cain argues that we dramatically undervalue introverts and shows how much we lose in doing so. She charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal throughout the twentieth century and explores how deeply it has come to permeate our culture. She also introduces us to successful introverts—from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Passionately argued, superbly researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how they see themselves.



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[Archimedes]

I'm introverted and I'm a muscular dude with a face that looks like ---> most of the time

I have certain coworkers that when they want to ask or tell me something, they just about always get someone else to do it

You're probably intimidating to most poeple. Thats not good if you work in an office or probably any company with an HR department. You should try and make the first move with those people; It feels amazing to break peoples superficial judgments

 

[360dagod]

I'm introverted and I'm a muscular dude with a face that looks like ---> most of the time

I have certain coworkers that when they want to ask or tell me something, they just about always get someone else to do it

..

This broad cleared her throat before asking me a question at work..

when a nikka is in a zone, im just focused as hell

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Quiet/shy people are perceived as psychopaths. Its uncomfortable as fukk being around quiet people. They're usually the ones that have hella shyt running through their minds. Also quiet people are usually the ones that turn into tazmanian devils soon as they have a couple cocktails