Well this is the difference between Middle and Upper-Middle no?
I'm in DFW and me and my BM will pull close to 90k combined. We're defo not rich and yeah if one of us became unable to work it'd probably cost us one of the cars but I wouldn't say we'd be in the hood. With just my income in a $800/mo hood spot we'd be hoodrich
IMO we have to ignore all the gloom and doom shyt just like we should have ignored the "GO TO COLLEGE!!....for what? Anything! Just go!" that was floated all throughout my childhood.
Our problem is that we spend all this time trying to avoid the Black apocalypse (which keeps changing. First it was Racism, then Heroin, then Hip Hop, then Gangs, then Crack, then the War on Drugs, then the Recession, and now Trump, and soon to be Student loans) without realizing that shyt continues forever....so go get a job and get paid and stop trying to fight the boogeyman that the media invented