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Hell nah OP don’t do this shyt. It best to immediately after she say that agree and disappear. Guarantee it will turn the tables and have her doubting her feelings because guys don’t do that. They try and fight for it and women aren’t use to a dude saying “thanks I was thinking the same thing :blessed:“ and immediately falling off the face of the earth.

Don’t argue, fight, plead, convince or any of tha bullshyt that make you look like a sucka

You won’t ever get a straight answer and she will spit a bunch of bullshyt at you to soothe your pride. The only thing that matters is ACTIONS and I’m sure by the time she’s telling you some bullshyt like this her actions have already started/been showing that you not the one.

If it ain’t a hell yes it’s a NO. In my 20+ years of dealings any time a woman said those phrases to me she was still emotionally stuck on another guy.

Any time a woman start acting funny and she’s not your LADY the answer is always do nothing.

And then what usually happens? She circles back once she realizes the other guy wasn’t all that and tries to use him as a safe landing spot.

Rinse & repeat. She gona explore what she thinks might be better, it doesn’t work out the way she imagined, and suddenly the “I don’t deserve you” dude becomes relevant again. Not because her feelings changed in some deep, meaningful way, it’s because nobody wants that bytch. Game is game.
 
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And then what usually happens? She circles back once she realizes the other guy wasn’t all that and tries to use him as a safe landing spot.

Rinse & repeat. She gona explore what she thinks might be better, it doesn’t work out the way she imagined, and suddenly the “I don’t deserve you” dude becomes relevant again. Not because her feelings changed in some deep, meaningful way, it’s because nobody wants that bytch. Game is game.

Where a lot of men fukk up is they don’t understand that it’s not about THEIR interest level in her but HER interest level in you. Women are the choosers. Anything other than easy is a big fat NO

Like I said in another comment, outside of you fukking up a woman’s feelings don’t really change about you in most cases. It’s always some external factors such as friends/family in her ear, unresolved mental issues, another guy she has history with or has been eyeing for some time, in her own head, etc,. Ultimately the reason doesn’t matter

What matters is she not fukking wit you so dudes need to move on and if she spins back make her work to lock you in, don’t give in easily.
 

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Brotha it means she's not interested but likes you enough not to hurt your feelings.

When a woman says something like that, it means, in other words, from her perspective, that you're cool and all in terms of character, personality, and maybe even looks, but that's about it; there's nothing more to it in terms of a potential romance.

She's telling YOU to go find another woman because she ain't the one.
 
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