When a woman says...

[Ahadi]

Hell nah OP don’t do this shyt. It best to immediately after she say that agree and disappear. Guarantee it will turn the tables and have her doubting her feelings because guys don’t do that. They try and fight for it and women aren’t use to a dude saying “thanks I was thinking the same thing “ and immediately falling off the face of the earth.

Don’t argue, fight, plead, convince or any of tha bullshyt that make you look like a sucka

You won’t ever get a straight answer and she will spit a bunch of bullshyt at you to soothe your pride. The only thing that matters is ACTIONS and I’m sure by the time she’s telling you some bullshyt like this her actions have already started/been showing that you not the one.

If it ain’t a hell yes it’s a NO. In my 20+ years of dealings any time a woman said those phrases to me she was still emotionally stuck on another guy.

Any time a woman start acting funny and she’s not your LADY the answer is always do nothing.

And then what usually happens? She circles back once she realizes the other guy wasn’t all that and tries to use him as a safe landing spot.

Rinse & repeat. She gona explore what she thinks might be better, it doesn’t work out the way she imagined, and suddenly the “I don’t deserve you” dude becomes relevant again. Not because her feelings changed in some deep, meaningful way, it’s because nobody wants that bytch. Game is game.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

And then what usually happens? She circles back once she realizes the other guy wasn’t all that and tries to use him as a safe landing spot.

Rinse & repeat. She gona explore what she thinks might be better, it doesn’t work out the way she imagined, and suddenly the “I don’t deserve you” dude becomes relevant again. Not because her feelings changed in some deep, meaningful way, it’s because nobody wants that bytch. Game is game.

Where a lot of men fukk up is they don’t understand that it’s not about THEIR interest level in her but HER interest level in you. Women are the choosers. Anything other than easy is a big fat NO

Like I said in another comment, outside of you fukking up a woman’s feelings don’t really change about you in most cases. It’s always some external factors such as friends/family in her ear, unresolved mental issues, another guy she has history with or has been eyeing for some time, in her own head, etc,. Ultimately the reason doesn’t matter

What matters is she not fukking wit you so dudes need to move on and if she spins back make her work to lock you in, don’t give in easily.

 

[KillerPups]

"I don't deserve you"
"You're too good to me"
"Im no good for you"

What is she really saying?

she saying u tryna turn a ho into a house wife

beat it up and move on and tell her she was right

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

means @Yagirlcheatinonus

 

[Unbothered]

Brotha it means she's not interested but likes you enough not to hurt your feelings.

When a woman says something like that, it means, in other words, from her perspective, that you're cool and all in terms of character, personality, and maybe even looks, but that's about it; there's nothing more to it in terms of a potential romance.

She's telling YOU to go find another woman because she ain't the one.

 

[Peter Popoff]

"I don't deserve you"
"You're too good to me"
"Im no good for you"

What is she really saying?

You not piping her right. - layman's terms

Double entendre - you're welcome

Your name - Triple entendre

 

[FTBS]

It doesn't matter. Just leave her alone.

That said, she is usually telling the truth...whether she even knows it or not. A lot of women, especially attractive ones have low self esteem. Beyond that, she knows what she has done and hasnt done and what she do and don't do. Its a lot of attractive chicks that aint shyt. If you treating her like something more than what she sees in herself its gonna make her uncomfortable. Being uncomfortable aint a turn on and most chicks, despite what is said about us guys, are led by their p*ssy.

You can take solace in the fact that its highly unlikely that a good catch is gonna say anything like that. Thats insecure/immature little girl talk. A real one aint even gonna lead you on and allow you to think that there is something when its not. You not even gonna get to the place to have that convo if she has done her job in communicating and setting boundaries and limits. So at the very least, you aint missing out on anything.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Cut contact and move on. She not feelin' you.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

She just cheated or she is about to cheat.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

A bîtch once told me "I hope you can deal with me because I'm gonna do some things you won't like."

A week later, I popped up at her crib. She had given me a key, so I went inside. Went down to the basement and she was riding some dude's dîck. All she could say was "This is one of those things. Sorry, Jeffrey"


Fuçkin' tackhead bîtch

 

[Caca-faat]

@Caca-faat
@Gloxina
@HarlemHottie
I think she's cheating & knows she ain't sh!t

She may also have low self esteem and may be worried that you could have demands of her that she isn't ready for.

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

Theres a woman out there that will want to make you her man, just as much as you want to make her your woman.

You are looking for THAT woman... What you have found here is 50% of what you are looking for, and it can be enticing because its hard as hell to even find half of the equation let alone 100%. But 100% is the only equation that actually works long term.

So unfortunately despite how shytty it feels, you have to move on breh. When you find that one who you don't play about, and she ALSO doesn't play about you, that shyt hit so different. No hesi, no games, mutual pursuit and adoration feels amazing breh. Go get that shyt.

Damn I hope I find this bc I don't know if I ever have. It's always some obstacle I have to deal with from their side or I'm not totally into them. Never had it where there was mutual attraction and high chemistry without any games and it being straightforward. Sounds like heaven

 

[Flywin Lannister]

What does it say about her character

Worry about what it says about your character that you choose a woman who says that to you.
Level up everything in your life and especially focus on you, and you won't hear those words from a woman.

There's not a woman (key word, woman.. not young girl) on Planet Earth who wants to lose the best thing she ever had.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Self sabotage is a real thing.

It's unspoken by a lot of chicks but they engage in it. You need to lay down the law. She needs to know that you will keep it moving and not look back.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Shouldn’t care then. Enjoy the experience and move on.

Now that I’m thinking about, you were probably “too nice” / lack masculinity / edge / tension / less of a challenge.

But I wanted to make her my woman though

Did you read what @Ahadi said?

If you're dealing with a woman you have to convince, walk.

You're focus should be YOU, and if you do that women will way more likely want to make YOU their man...

Every dude that' dealt with women and dating's been here - figuring out that if you're too readily available and too openly courting her.. it's a wrap.

Not ALWAYS, there's a woman out there who want to know you're serious but this is a whole different caliber than 99% of young women my brother.