Not my fight BUT to augment this post, the video is provided: this shouldn't even be a thread. It's assumed and ya'll blow it upstupid azz bytch
let’s keep it real : y’all don’t wanna get married
the fact that there is 2 million more BW then BM …. with the fact that 500K more BM are married
"When are black men going to start building black families?"-K Michelle pleads
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So, if I tell her to marry a 5'5" guy with a stable career in finance and to cook & clean, don't nag, educate herself, and take up good hobbies, not watch endless hours of television, not go on podcasts, etc., would she listen? Or would she tell me to stfu and stay out her business because she gon' do her and fukk on a cat with 3 BMs?
Women like the one in the OP are single for a reason. Women who get married, do so because they are in environments with men that also want to get married. They aren't asking dumbass questions on a podcast.
See thats the problem,yall wanna do a whoooole lotta telling,when we as men arent in position to tell them shyt. And half the time its yall telling women about their standards and bad choices, Not because you genuinely care, want black women to do better,want your chance to love them. Its us speaking from our lower self,wanting them to lower their obscene standards/preferences and leave room open for a 5'5 man to fukk.
You dont have to tell them shyt. If we built a community where black women could see a majority of us were serious about being loyal,building familes. Black women would see more women who were finding love and loyalty with black men of all shapes and sizes. They would see happy black women and adjust their preferences/types to be open to men of all shapes and sizes/looks. How the hell do yall think the divestor movement gained traction
?Black women are being programmed and bombarded with stories/messaging and images of white men loving black women who couldnt find it with black men.
Maybe serious black men just need better publicist. But shes right,even guys like Cam who are in serious relationships still gotta portray that image. You know what im talking about. These married men out here still wanna portray the fact they playas and got motion outside they marriage. So even alot of dudes who took that step to get married dont seem serious,even if they are in reality.
If black men in general arent serious and arent thinking about marriage. Why shouldnt women just be smashing men who make the p*ssy jump? If generally speaking,the perk of marriage and loyalty isnt coming statistically speaking
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Shes with white men to spite black men. Nobody has this much passion about black men if they arent still yearning deep down. This is the typical divestor. At this juncture i cant say its a path for her safe return. Once women start preaching the divestor gospel of "Go where you are loved" and start preaching about going to white men. That puts you in a different space then a woman who just dates out. Although a black woman who dates out because she genuinely loves white men and finds them more attractive? A camel has a better chance getting through the eye of a needle,than she has returning safely to the black man
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shut up and dribble
Where did I say Black women's vagina stink
You didnt ,but since most black womens vaginas dont stink, What does that have to do with black mens unserious mindset when it comes to building families with black women?
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A self proclaimed rapist posting this shyt is wild and he still gets engagements from goofies
I even see so called “coli women” dapping this dikkhead knowing his history
shyt is quite fascinating
I even see so called “coli women” dapping this dikkhead knowing his history
shyt is quite fascinating
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So, if I tell her to marry a 5'5" guy with a stable career in finance and to cook & clean, don't nag, educate herself, and take up good hobbies, not watch endless hours of television, not go on podcasts, etc., would she listen? Or would she tell me to stfu and stay out her business because she gon' do her and fukk on a cat with 3 BMs?
Women like the one in the OP are single for a reason. Women who get married, do so because they are in environments with men that also want to get married. They aren't asking dumbass questions on a podcast.
I've come to the realization, and i dont think a lot of people realize it, but the Universe always has its way of putting people where they belong. If you ignorant and out of touch, your dues will come. If you’re good and strong willed you will prevail. Of course this isn't always the case, but its almost a universal rule.
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See thats the problem,yall wanna do a whoooole lotta telling,when we as men arent in position to tell them shyt. And half the time its yall telling women about their standards and bad choices, Not because you genuinely care, want black women to do better,want your chance to love them. Its us speaking from our lower self,wanting them to lower their obscene standards/preferences and leave room open for a 5'5 man to fukk.
You dont have to tell them shyt. If we built a community where black women could see a majority of us were serious about being loyal,building familes. Black women would see more women who were finding love and loyalty with black men of all shapes and sizes. They would see happy black women and adjust their preferences/types to be open to men of all shapes and sizes/looks. How the hell do yall think the divestor movement gained traction
Black women are being programmed and bombarded with stories/messaging and images of white men loving black women who couldnt find it with black men.
Maybe serious black men just need better publicist. But shes right,even guys like Cam who are in serious relationships still gotta portray that image. You know what im talking about. These married men out here still wanna portray the fact they playas and got motion outside they marriage. So even alot of dudes who took that step to get married dont seem serious,even if they are in reality.
If black men in general arent serious and arent thinking about marriage. Why shouldnt women just be smashing men who make the p*ssy jump? If generally speaking,the perk of marriage and loyalty isnt coming statistically speaking
Let's stop this.
First you say women want to marry the men they want to marry. [Women choose]
Then you say we as men need to create a system. [Men choose]
Now, women got to do their own thing because we aren't in the right position. [Women choose]
I ain't with aimless discussions.
Like @Ezekiel 25:17 said, those who want something out of life will make a way to achieve that something, all others will complain and whine and talk endlessly on the sidelines.
As I get older, I realize, barring any negative unforseen events, most people like to think about what they want but are too lazy, inconsistent, or selfish to get what they want out of life - from money/resources to relationships.
I don't need a publicist. I would never waste my time entertaining a broad telling me "Black men this, Black men that". What the hell is she doing to avoid bad partners/relationships? Likely nothing, but she got everything to say about what Black men ain't doing for her, and nothing to say what she's doing for herself.
Such people are wastes of time.
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These bytches really had us all fooled until the numbers came out, they simply do not wanna be wives and need to stop fukkin lying
let’s keep it real : y’all don’t wanna get married
the fact that there is 2 million more BW then BM …. with the fact that 500K more BM are married
CreepyMcCreeperson
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So, if I tell her to marry a 5'5" guy with a stable career in finance and to cook & clean, don't nag, educate herself, and take up good hobbies, not watch endless hours of television, not go on podcasts, etc., would she listen? Or would she tell me to stfu and stay out her business because she gon' do her and fukk on a cat with 3 BMs?
Women like the one in the OP are single for a reason. Women who get married, do so because they are in environments with men that also want to get married. They aren't asking dumbass questions on a podcast.
You seem to think a man with a stable career is all it takes to be a good husband. You need mutual attraction, and both parties have to put the effort in. I’m married. But I still have to buy flowers, and have date nights. Women care about those things.
And if the woman is working full time, and contributing to half the bills, does she still have to do all the housework on her own, in addition to taking care of the kids? How would she have time for hobbies?
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She just needs to get in the church and find a 70 year man whose divorced or doesn't want to die alone
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When she properly learns how to cleanse her vagina
Spend the best years of your life (teens-mid 30s) slurping every rapper/dopeboy/scammer with "game" and "swag", then when your in your 40s start talking about building families
