Well,righteous black men are unicorns. Women dont even believe we truly exist. Due to the fact we keep a low profile and are far too busy building . Plus we genuinely are a rare breed in the communtiy. If we were more common,and women saw more of their friends dating good wholesome men in their 20s. Other women would follow suit,wanting that same happiness.
Plus as i said earlier,i think those types of men just become more abundant when women get into their 30s.
For many Black women in impoverished areas that may be true. But I’ve personally seen attractive Brehettes in major cities and at HBCUs pass on those types of men when they’re young and available.