When did black men and women start beefing?

[Will Ross]

So what did you mean? I don't remember black women ever coming out and collectively saying "we dont need men"

And that same group made these songs

Destiny's Child - Cater 2 U - YouTube

Destiny's Child - Bills, Bills, Bills - YouTube

So what are you talking about

I know because you was too busy running after :ANYWORD: that you would not hear it.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

ikr. They always post those same ancient songs. Bills Bills Bills came out in the 90s. They're still crying about songs that are over a decade old.

@Token was 5 when that song came out

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

I know because you was too busy running after :ANYWORD: that you would not hear it.

So can you post a link or something to this moment? I mean if it happened surely someone would have marked the date or caught it on film

 

[SouthernBelle]

Kenya you're too smart to be playing games like this.

I'm not playing games. When did we black women release that statement? I would like to read it.

 

[Lessergawd]

i don't think that's accurate, the strong and independent wave was a result of black women succeeding in spite of their mens absence. my belief has always been black men originally "abandoned" their families because they either had nothing to offer, or they succumbed to drug abuse.

False. This division started in the early 70s and there was no drug epidemic at that time nor was there an issue with black men having jobs or being responsible(no more then usual).
What happened was that the White Feminist Movement recruited black women right in the midst of the Black Power Movement which was uniting the entire black community. The white feminist movement was primarily concerned with the issues of upper and middle class white women and the black women were just used as fodder for marches and rallies to increase numbers, they had no intention of addressing the issues of the black community and they didn't.
When it was all said and done black women were left with very little more then a bad attitude and the false idea that black men were the enemy. Even today the western feminist movement ignores women of color.
That's where this all started.
The crack epidemic and Reaganomics sent it all into overdrive and now here we are with black women pretty much stuck with the anti-man mentality feminism gave them and black men either killing each other in the streets are making something of themselves and getting the fukk away from black women and the self-destructive black community.

Suck I know...but oh well

 

[Chris.B]

So what did you mean? I don't remember black women ever coming out and collectively saying "we dont need men"

And that same group made these songs

Destiny's Child - Cater 2 U - YouTube

Destiny's Child - Bills, Bills, Bills - YouTube

So what are you talking about

You wife is white right?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

You wife is white right?

Since we are asking irrelevant questions, post a pic of the last broad you fukked.

 

[Chris.B]

Since we are asking irrelevant questions, post a pic of the last broad you fukked.

Not taking the bait. Good try though.

feel free to call me a virgin who gets no puzzy if that makes you feel better.:obama3:

 

[Kid McNamara]

I know because you was too busy running after :ANYWORD: that you would not hear it.

To be fair, I was getting with for the quick hit. But yea, had to settle down with a non-. Nobody got time to be miserable all day long.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Not taking the bait. Good try though.

feel free to call me a virgin who gets no puzzy if that makes you feel better.:obama3:

What are you so afraid of? You are a six figure nikka who only fukks with PAWGs... you are living the dream I just want to see 1 of the PAWGs you blessed with the cork

And currently neither of us deal with black women romantically... so why do you get to be the authority on who does and doesn't get to talk about them

 

[Chris.B]

What are you so afraid of? You are a six figure nikka who only fukks with PAWGs... you are living the dream I just want to see 1 of the PAWGs you blessed with the cork

And currently neither of us deal with black women romantically... so why do you get to be the authority on who does and doesn't get to talk about them

Damn right I'm an IT guru. I can write code in my sleep.

I have the authority to criticize because
1. I have dealt with black chicks from other parts of the world and come to the conclusion, the American black woman is NOT a marriage material.
2. I'm black
3.I have a duty and obligation to call out bad behavior

 

[Groanman]

Legit brothas have to fight every time we step outside of the house. There's always some bullshyt that we have to put up with. The police. Bullshyt ass bosses. Mofos following us up and down the aisles and shyt.

What brotha who's worth something wants to go home and put up his dukes? Who wants to go home and see a chick who has more tattoos than him? What sensible man wants to get home just to argue with a chick whose voice is just as deep as his? Who wants to go home knowing that if shyt don't go the chick's way, she's calling the damn cops?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Damn right I'm an IT guru. I can write code in my sleep.

I have the authority to criticize because
1. I have dealt with black chicks from other parts of the world and come to the conclusion, the American black woman is NOT a marriage material.
2. I'm black
3.I have a duty and obligation to call out bad behavior

Do you say any of these things to American black womens' faces

 

[Just like bruddas]

This.

But why/when did black men even stop taking care of their families in the first place?

False. This division started in the early 70s and there was no drug epidemic at that time nor was there an issue with black men having jobs or being responsible(no more then usual).
What happened was that the White Feminist Movement recruited black women right in the midst of the Black Power Movement which was uniting the entire black community. The white feminist movement was primarily concerned with the issues of upper and middle class white women and the black women were just used as fodder for marches and rallies to increase numbers, they had no intention of addressing the issues of the black community and they didn't.
When it was all said and done black women were left with very little more then a bad attitude and the false idea that black men were the enemy. Even today the western feminist movement ignores women of color.
That's where this all started.
The crack epidemic and Reaganomics sent it all into overdrive and now here we are with black women pretty much stuck with the anti-man mentality feminism gave them and black men either killing each other in the streets are making something of themselves and getting the fukk away from black women and the self-destructive black community.

Suck I know...but oh well

Well actually long story short, welfare was too blame. You couldnt have a male in the house in order to receive benefits. Sad to say but them benefits were more then what most fathers were bring home.

 

[Sharp]

If you're a submissive dude, then you have nothing to worry about.

If you're a traditionalist, then expect the conflict.

Not all sisters are drama starters, but many are.

The beefing started once more and more women became head of the household. They wanted man privileges without man responsibilities. These type of women have difficulties respecting or acknowledging the gender roles in relationships. BUt this isn't all women.

And this ain't a race thing, this is a gender thing