When did you Realize that Contrary to Popular Belief most Males ain't getting Females like that?

[Blackrogue]

I've come to the realization that white guys have it even harder. So many of my white friends are single. Being a member of the elite race has its drawbacks. Black women have a lot less choices of suitable mate white chicks don't have that problem. Any 1/2 decent black man can get get a girl no problem.

 

[Prince Mongo]

nikkas be projecting they personal issues like shyt in these threads
I never had an issue getting p*ssy when I was single and there ain't shyt special about me. And I have friends who even did way more numbers than me, I'm talking smashing at least 1 new chick a week type numbers (during the summer mostly)
Either your standards way too high, (stop basing your life off IG idiot), or you got some kind of social disorder and come across as a weirdo
Otherwise I can't wrap my head around a "normal" guy not being able to smash 3-4 new chicks per year at minimal. All these apps full of single desperate ass black women wtf are y'all nikkas doing

So if you have a social disorder, should you just kill yourself?

 

[3rdWorld]

When I came of age

 

[ViShawn]

Social media fukking the game up for men! Just focus on stacking your bread, maximizing yourself as best as possible, be interesting.

I'm 6'1'' 195lbs athletic, make six figures. Right now I'm somewhere where I can't find the women I want. It's really frustrating. I'm not socially inept either or anything. I've done the one night stand thing and frankly it's a bit easier to get that in your 30s, but I'd rather have one bad girl.

The serious relationships I've been in the sex has NOT been lacking at all. Almost all of my fantasies and desires have been fulfilled. Best to focus on someone you are physically, emotionally, and spiritually compatible with than just getting shytty one night stand sex. Just my $.02.

FYI though women may get more sex but it doesn't mean they have a better quality of life than most men. Men NEED sex, women are sexually active but it's a tool to get the right men and they are much more emotionally invested in a man. Hell my ex has gotten easy sex from a man just to try and get over me. She has told me. Sex for men isn't he same as women yet we compare it as such.

 

[:-)]

Men who can't get laid are considered less of a man

How many ladies are willing to fukk virgins ?
What's the first insult women used to men (gay or gets no p*ssy)

Honestly I've never heard of women making fun of virgin men. I think that's great! And if I met a good looking man that was one I'd talk to him. <3 I don't know why that surprises men. I prefer a man that has a very low body count honestly.

 

[SleezyBigSlim]

You ain't shyt

 

[EndDomination]

i actually realize this pretty late in the game. No homo but i always assumed that dudes i knew were getting mad p*ssy left and right. always assumed my "OGs" or wtv (people i looked up to) were getting it in. then i grew older and realized things aren't always what they seem.

and then i realized, even women aren't getting approached like we think. or if they get approached, it's usually the guy they deem undesirable. so when a dude they actually like approaches them, they don't know how to act cause they have very little experience in that (in getting approached by guys they like). you grow up and realize a lot of these girls we thought were out of our league or too good for us have very low self-esteem (just like a lot of us), a lot of them suffer from self-doubt, think they're ugly, think they're undesirable, wish they were more XYZ like such and such. just like a lot of guys.

the reason most guys aren't getting laid is because they see the girl with designer clothes, shades on, make up on, cold expression on the girl's face, they see dudes who they perceive as being better than them talk about how fine the girl is and blablabla. so they figure the girl already has it all figured out and what value could they provide to the girl? or they think they gotta trick a girl into fukking them cause how could she ever see the real him and still be attracted? little do they know, a lot of these girls are hurting and lost and might see you like you see a dime.

you grow up and you realize that the TV trope of the guy trying to get p*ssy and the girl trying not to give it up is just that, a trope. a lot of women are trying to get laid but in a respectful way and don't know how. but people watch so much TV that they're dead-set on re-enacting the TV tropes and end up not getting laid just like the TV character.

This. Now I'm around a lot of pretty, younger women, and even they aren't getting hit up day in and day out, maybe a total of 15 or 20 guys a year shoot their shot, and we're talking about pretty, slim but thick girls.
Its kind of a relief, I thought I was just doing incredibly below average
Especially the guys who brag about getting a constant stream of p*ssy, are exaggerating something serious.

 

[EndDomination]

When I was sleeping around, I would say "shyt I'm tired of sex". When dudes couldn't relate, I started to see the facade. I've never had an involuntary dry spell.

I honestly think these dudes try too hard. I'm broke and rude and my number is around 80.

The sluttery

 

[EndDomination]

Speak for yourself fam. My one night stands are in double digits. Regular smashes I'm well past 100. I lost count a loooong time ago. And I'm not a baller, not well known, don't even have a huge social circle. I'm just a little bit better than average looking normal nikka. And on top of it I started having sex late. Didn't get my first piece until a hair before my 18th bday. Y'all nikkas is insecure lames, don't project that shyt onto the rest of us bro. Would you believe me if I told you I smashed a chick off of here in less than a few hours? I was in them DM's at 11 pm and by 2 am I was dragging that broad at the crib. No pic on here and you've never seen me simp a chick on here neither. 95% of y'all cats posts on here ooze frapness and overall pie ass nikka syndrome. Thee females don't even have to see you. They can feel it in how y'all cats talk on here and it's the same in real life

And this is coming from someone who knows just how easy it is to get p*ssy.

 

[EndDomination]

Right. When I realized that sex was a lot more to men than just the feeling and act of it alone, it helped my understanding of men a lot. Socialization for boys and men centers so much on sex. Their masculinity, self esteem, and self view of success depends on it. Its not a good thing at all, but its true. Its a lot like how much women are socialized and pushed to be validated through marriage. I think theres a bit of a movement with women to get away from that harmful mindset, whereas men seem to just have dug in even more and made sex an even bigger priority in their lives.

The "harmful mindset" that women are beginning to deviate from is simply being reapplied to casual sex.
Which means men are being bombarded with social acceptance of casual sex, alongside their natural biological imperative, alongside women's push for "Sexual liberation" mostly through media.
I daresay the "pro-hoe" messages are just as misogynistic, if not more so, than the societal obsession with marriage, and equally as harmful.

 

[BigMan]

Honestly I've never heard of women making fun of virgin men. I think that's great! And if I met a good looking man that was one I'd talk to him. <3 I don't know why that surprises men. I prefer a man that has a very low body count honestly.

I don't believe you

 

[#SOG_soldier]

That thread on who was getting buns this year.

nikkas would rather go desert dikk then smash a cute chubby girl. It ain't even that serious it's just p*ssy.

This. Nikkas sleep on them fat hoes.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

The majority of men are having sex.

You can't use the Coli (or any forum) as a reliable sample, because guys that don't get P are more likely to frequent internet forums.

Now the strong majority of men are dealing with women that we'd consider 6's and below. Only 15-20% of women would be considered generally attractive so most men are dealing with women that don't make the cut.

Yup the only attractive woman I've been with was my first gf that took my v card. She a lesbian in Denver now

 

[Larry Lambo]

This. Now I'm around a lot of pretty, younger women, and even they aren't getting hit up day in and day out, maybe a total of 15 or 20 guys a year shoot their shot, and we're talking about pretty, slim but thick girls.
Its kind of a relief, I thought I was just doing incredibly below average
Especially the guys who brag about getting a constant stream of p*ssy, are exaggerating something serious.

15-20 guys a year is plenty. Actually, one or two qualified candidates within her social circle is really enough to satisfy most chicks, and increase the difficulty of a new guy coming in her life and pulling.

What I'm trying to say is just because a chick doesn't get approached a lot, doesn't mean she doesn't have options and is willing to settle.

 

[Serious]

The average guy is not getting girls too easy, average guy is lucking up on some ass here and there. Most women want a winner type of guy, top 15 % type of guy.

Women will over look the average guy until they come to terms that they are not good enough for a top 15% guy. Thats when women will settle for the average guy


This woman is below average but becuz she has an ass, she gets attention, her pics average 7k likes & hundreds of thirsty comments from dudes. I wonder how her DMs look like

@ChiefQueen you sure are sexy as fukk