When is it a problem being too transparent or honest

[GrindtooFilthy]

Inspired by this thread. Can you handle a chick having FWB when y'all met?

seen a lot of brehs in there say oh shorty telling too much she don't respect you or don't trust her she's being too transparent. Like isn't that what you would want for a person not to hide any information so you dont get blindsided. Like would you or wouldn't you tell a girl your dating other people so she knows whats up

my question is why is this and when would this be a problem, only reason im asking is because im about to confirm a few things with the girl im currently dating. im just tired of head games and not in the mood for it

just gonna ask her a few things like
-is she seeing other people and if no does she plan to
-where do i stand
-what does she really want
-will she plan to keep it a 100 at all times

good idea or do you guys think im wasting my time here.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

@Poitier @The Wave @Hennessypapi @Y2Dre @Booksnrain @Nicole0416 @.number.(n)one.* @THE RETIRED SKJ @BmoreGorilla @BlackPearl The Empress

help me out here

 

[010101]

keep the puzzy clean & act right in my presence

i don't ask to hear anything i don't care to know

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[GrindtooFilthy]

keep the puzzy clean & act right in my presence

i don't ask to hear anything i don't care to know

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I'm hip I just wanna know that we're on the same page so I dont come across bullshyt

 

[Poitier]

What are your intentions? You want exclusivity, I assume?

A lot of women are fantasy-prone and like being sold dreams so being honest can sometimes hurt in that sense.

You can ask her those questions but people lie and manipulate.

Don’t put your eggs in 1 basket until her ACTIONS tell you otherwise.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

In a relationship? Never.

Gives everyone the opportunity to make informed decisions.

There is such a thing as oversharing... aka: "I really like you but I preferred my ex's macaroni and cheese to yours." That's unnecessary obviously but it's also immaterial.

As always, I advocate the golden rule. Treat others as you'd want to be treated.

 

[010101]

I advocate the golden rule. Treat others as you'd want to be treated.

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[010101]

I'm hip I just wanna know that we're on the same page so I dont come across bullshyt

scope it out before you up to your neck in a situation*

 

[Wildhundreds]

The person who is looking for more than a good time needs to let the other know where they stand .

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

What are your intentions? You want exclusivity, I assume?

A lot of women are fantasy-prone and like being sold dreams so being honest can sometimes hurt in that sense.

You can ask her those questions but people lie and manipulate.

Don’t put your eggs in 1 basket until her ACTIONS tell you otherwise.

honestly at this point i'm just gonna tell her im going with the flow if she wanna see other people she can, just dont expect nothing exclusive from me. if she wants a relationship cool imma just keep it steady like that

In a relationship? Never.

Gives everyone the opportunity to make informed decisions.

There is such a thing as oversharing... aka: "I really like you but I preferred my ex's macaroni and cheese to yours." That's unnecessary obviously but it's also immaterial.

As always, I advocate the golden rule. Treat others as you'd want to be treated.

nothing of that sorts. but you rights. i might just go based off her actions. if she says she wants abc but acting like xyz imma just peep and move accordingly not gonna say anything at that point

scope it out before you up to your neck in a situation*

did that but you know people be wishy washy im just gonna force her hand hand and see whats up and move accordingly

 

[Poitier]

Treat others as you'd want to be treated?

Nah, that makes you food in this world.

Reciprocate the energy given to you.

 

[KodeBlue]

In a relationship? Never.

Gives everyone the opportunity to make informed decisions.

There is such a thing as oversharing... aka: "I really like you but I preferred my ex's macaroni and cheese to yours." That's unnecessary obviously but it's also immaterial.

As always, I advocate the golden rule. Treat others as you'd want to be treated.

Treat others as they treat you.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Reciprocate the energy given to you.

funnily enough that was my new years resolution and so far people have kept their distance from me

 

[010101]

Treat others as you'd want to be treated?

Nah, that makes you food in this world.

Reciprocate the energy given to you.

its still applicable

ain't no reason not to keep it cool

that stiff antagonistic energy doesn't vibe well

you don't have to jump outta pocket

what about southern hospitality & all that¿

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[Y2Dre]

Even if she does have FWB, the fact that she’s telling me means she don’t really care if she loses me or not.

I’d probably cut a bytch off if she straight up told me that.

That’s just me tho, i don’t want no woman THAT open.