Henri Christophe
Son Of Afrika
Women are liars.
I have no problem lying to their asses if necessary.
I have no problem lying to their asses if necessary.
When is it a problem being too transparent or honest
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BaldingSoHard
Banned
It does.
Until it doesn't.
It honestly will lead you into some dark corners in your youth but trust me that shyt works out in the end.
Reciprocating energy makes the woman the leader.
Put out what you expect. A worthy woman will reciprocate.
why? you'd just rather not know. on the flip would you tell a girl your seeing other people or nah
BaldingSoHard
Banned
Someone has to be the leader.
Someone has to set the tone.
I prefer it to be me.
If she falls short, she wasn't here for shyt anyway.
If she doesn't... well then we have something.
Let me tell u something man.
Never trust what a woman says, trust her actions. Alotta woman say something & beleive its true in the moment but are lying to themselves.
Just assume every woman u start dating, she’s talking/smashing someone else. U dont need confirmation. If ur her first choice and she really likes you, eventually she’ll cut off all the other dudes and put more investment into you.
U ever been casually talking/smashing a girl for a while then she cuts u off out the blue? Thats cuz she met someone she really likes and wants to be monogamous with.
Just make sure ur her first choice and the other options dry up.
Never trust what a woman says, trust her actions. Alotta woman say something & beleive its true in the moment but are lying to themselves.
Just assume every woman u start dating, she’s talking/smashing someone else. U dont need confirmation. If ur her first choice and she really likes you, eventually she’ll cut off all the other dudes and put more investment into you.
U ever been casually talking/smashing a girl for a while then she cuts u off out the blue? Thats cuz she met someone she really likes and wants to be monogamous with.
Just make sure ur her first choice and the other options dry up.
Good.funnily enough that was my new years resolution and so far people have kept their distance from me
From what you said, I think that she thinks of you more closely as a friend, than an actual boyfriend. Reason why I say that is because when you disclose certain details about yourself or different situations you were involved in, you're less filtered with a person that you consider your friend. Because you're less worried about any judgements or any harsh feedback/criticism like you would get from someone that you're in a relationship with. As a friend, you expect them to be more understanding because that committment factor is less strenuous in that way, than in a relationship. That worry about - "is he gonna break up with me if I let him know".. blah blah... And with a friend, your less affected by how they might reaction or what their reaction will be. I understand what you say about transparency and openness but there is a such thing as being too revealing and too open. Certain things just don't need to be said, because you have more consideration for that person's feelings. Like she doesn't have the same level of respect for you as she would for a boyfriend.
guilty.. i have done this with men in the past. i'm not proud of it. But at the time I just saw it as choosing the better option for me and the person that I would be most comfortable and compatible with. ignored texts, phone calls-- or just straight up ghosted him, depending on what level we were at.
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@BaldingSoHard that power of discernment will make it clear who deserves what treatment
we don't even deal with those that ain't worth a tick off the clock
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we don't even deal with those that ain't worth a tick off the clock
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that's the reason i'm with the woman i met.... she was telling me off the back about her past relationships and how she took the blame for pickin losers who had nothing going on for themselves
telling me her financial situations, goals, etc...
the past women i dated, it was hard just to get their age and birth date
A lyric by Jay z gave me the BEST approach in dealing with Females.....
"Where is her man?
I don't know
I DON'T ASK ..I DONT PROBE"
Women tell on themselves all the time without even doing a Dj Vlad interview
Besides they don't like YOU interrogating them because it makes them feel accountable
Like as.if you were they DAD
the problem with most Good.Guys they wanna be these women's Dad.looking out for their best interest
Nah be that BAD DADDY that let them.be the FREE WILD GIRL they seek to be but knows how to PUT THEM IN THIER PLACE when it's needed
"Where is her man?
I don't know
I DON'T ASK ..I DONT PROBE"
Women tell on themselves all the time without even doing a Dj Vlad interview
Besides they don't like YOU interrogating them because it makes them feel accountable
Like as.if you were they DAD
the problem with most Good.Guys they wanna be these women's Dad.looking out for their best interest
Nah be that BAD DADDY that let them.be the FREE WILD GIRL they seek to be but knows how to PUT THEM IN THIER PLACE when it's needed
BmoreGorilla
Veteran
I’d want her to be honest just like that. Then I know what category to put her in. There is a thing as being too honest. Honest to a fault. Like when I first got married I was a manager for Panera Bread. We used to scope out and flirt with women every single day. Of course when she asked me how my day went I wasn’t gonna tell her that. I never cheated or anytbing but what good would’ve came from saying it?
BaldingSoHard
Banned
It really comes from knowing our value and being self-confident, even though we aren't perfect.
Brehs who aren't about shyt but smashing p*ssyholes won't be able to fake it.
But if you're happy with who you are and where you're at (which, admittedly is a struggle for 95% of people) then you won't need to feel like succumbing to the machinations of whores.
I'm basically talking about being a genuine person.
When you're a genuine person, you have the natural ability to cut through bullshyt and disarm people, because they feel comfortable being who they really are in your presence.
One of the themes you'll notice about me is that I constantly rep #TeamBabydikk, because hey, that's who I am. I've had confidence issues in the past because of it, but at the end of the day it's who I am and I slang what I slang so
.Nobody is perfect, so just be who you are. Just being genuine will put you ahead of 85% of people in the world, and your relationships will reflect that.
xactly.. she doesn't respect you on the boyfriend status level. you shouldn't make a decision about this yet. I would give it time.. I don't think she would really be truthful in her response, if you ask her whether she's seeing other people or what she really wants to do. Just be wary - look at her body language and the signs. Any sign of her being uncomfortable at the questions, it's a no go. I know when I was asked..I would get real fidgety, try to deflect/divert or avoidance (like not really answering the question with a definite response). Now as I'm getting older, I just know more of what I want, so I'm direct about it anyway.