when it comes to first date..non black females always prefer

[Rich Spirit]

lol at trying to score points. stop putting women on a pedestal!!!

it has probably already been said but it doesn't matter where you take her. if she's attracted to you and is really feeling you like that, you could take her to the park for a walk and you're still smashing that night if you're not dumb.

problem is, a lot of guys take chicks that aren't attracted to them or aren't feeling them on dates. it doesn't matter if you take her to a play, fancy dinner, concert with backstage passes, the moon, etc. if she's not feeling you she'll get everything she can out of you and then toss you away for the dude she's really feeling and their first date will be at some random parking lot where she'll give him head in his car.

so much truth

 

[SouthernBelle]

you missed the whole point of my post. my post is not about trying to get chicks to fukk on the first night. it was about the fact that where you take a chick on the first date doesn't really matter that much. if she's into you, you could take her anywhere and it won't make her less attracted to you. just like if she's not attracted to you, taking her on a date is pretty much useless because she's just using you to pass time, be entertained and stroke her ego. so i'm advising people not to go out on dates with girls that aren't feeling them that much. the sex on the first date was just an example to show that if a girl really wants you to fukk her on the first date, she will fukk you on the first date no matter where you take her.

and it's not that incredible or extra-ordinary. i can't say it happens regularly but it has happened to me. it has nothing do do with game. just the chemistry that was right.

Noooo I didn't miss that point. I just didn't address it because I agree with it. My question came from the fact that multiple guys have mention having sex on the first date because of game/gab/attraction, and I didn't realize negros had it like that.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Noooo I didn't miss that point. I just didn't address it because I agree with it. My question came from the fact that multiple guys have mention having sex on the first date because of game/gab/attraction, and I didn't realize negros had it like that.

Trust me, it happens

I would bet most people who actually stay together, dont chill for the first time at a restaurant. That whole setup is just unnatural

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

I took a girl to one of mah favorite spots, da Aquarium, on a first date. We had a great time and was together for almost 3 1/2 years after dat. Eam tho we broke up we still good friends. She was cuban tho.

But not all sistas is on dat "feed me" steez breh.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I took a girl to one of mah favorite spots, da Aquarium, on a first date. We had a great time and was together for almost 3 1/2 years after dat. Eam tho we broke up we still good friends. She was cuban tho.

But not all sistas is on dat "feed me" steez breh.

At least you know. I am quite sure many black women would have enjoyed that aquarium date (I would have). For some reason black men like to assume that black women are so different from every other race of women, and in my experience it just isn't true. Women of all races talk about and like some of the same things

 

[Atlrocafella]

this bish on my roster been begging me to take her to red lobster for the last 2 wks..fukk no

always looking for someone to feed em..smh

"That's how it starts..taking bytches out to eat, meals and what not, next thing you know, you wake up in a rest haven for hoes, a sanctuary for scandelous skeezers and stunts" - Riley Freeman da Gawd

 

[kevm3]

lol at trying to score points. stop putting women on a pedestal!!!

it has probably already been said but it doesn't matter where you take her. if she's attracted to you and is really feeling you like that, you could take her to the park for a walk and you're still smashing that night if you're not dumb.

problem is, a lot of guys take chicks that aren't attracted to them or aren't feeling them on dates. it doesn't matter if you take her to a play, fancy dinner, concert with backstage passes, the moon, etc. if she's not feeling you she'll get everything she can out of you and then toss you away for the dude she's really feeling and their first date will be at some random parking lot where she'll give him head in his car.

yeah exactly. if she's feeling you, doesn't really matter where you go. She's there for you... and really, what are these females bringing to the table to demand some expensive dinner and you don't even know them or demanding you 'think outside the box?' Better be happy with whatever a negro decide to take you if he is paying.

 

[Sierra Mist]

At least you know. I am quite sure many black women would have enjoyed that aquarium date (I would have). For some reason black men like to assume that black women are so different from every other race of women, and in my experience it just isn't true. Women of all races talk about and like some of the same things

Ok. I'm about to keep it SO real right now. Black women are put in a different category than other women because black women place themselves in it. Black women are the ones that say things like rock climbing, biking, motorcycling, going to jazz spots, going for a jog, going to the park, and many other things are what "white people do." It's gotten to the point where seeing a black woman in certain environments is seen as unnatural due to how rarely they go do those activities. Black women also PRIDE themselves on how different they are than other races of women.

It's funny that in one context black women are proud of being different than other women. They talk about how much "stronger and independent" and how they aren't as "weak as other races of women" they are and how they don't do "white people stuff." Now let a nikka say "yeah, you women are different and the things that make you different, I don't like." Then magically black women want to be seen as the same as all other women. Black women really are different than other races of women because the culture is different. Black women don't come from patriarchal, intact communities like every other race of women on the planet. One second you take pride in how different you are and the next second you take offense when someone calls you out on how different you are. Then you justify why you are different, which means you admit how different you are.

Black women are in the "other category" because they placed themselves there.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Ok. I'm about to keep it SO real right now. Black women are put in a different category than other women because black women place themselves in it. Black women are the ones that say things like rock climbing, biking, motorcycling, going to jazz spots, going for a jog, going to the park, and many other things are what "white people do." Black women also PRIDE themselves on how different they are than other races of women.

It's funny that in one context black women are proud of being different than other women. They talk about how much "stronger" they are and how they don't do "white people stuff." Now let a nikka say "yeah, you women are different and the things that make you different, I don't like." Then magically black women want to be seen as the same as all other women. Black women really are different than other races of women because the culture is different. Black women don't come from patriarchal, intact communities like every other race of women on the planet.

Black women are in the "other category" because they placed themselves there.

I guess it depends on the environment because I, honestly, can't relate to your post. Personally speaking, the only thing I wouldn't/haven't done on your list above is motorcycling (I won't even ride on my Dad's motorcycle and I wish he wouldn't either). Not all black women are the same and they shouldn't all be put in the same box. My experiences living with, going to school with, and working with women of different races, religions, and cultures have helped me so see that you can't put them in a box either. Interest and hobbies depend a lot on education, SES, and geographic location. Non-black women from low education and SES backgrounds are similar to black women from low education and SES backgrounds.

What I've found is that at the very heart of it all, we (women) think about and feel the same things. I actually remember having a conversation with one of my friends (Indian) and having this epiphany like "damn you ARE a woman too." That might sound silly, but that is when I figured out that we are essentially the same. Our ability to relate to each other is based on education and SES and not necessarily race. Some (not all) Black men can pretend that they can't find black women with varied interests, and that might be true if they are looking in the hood.

I am not completely knocking your post because I do know black women who are closed off to certain things. However, in my life, these women are few and far between (I really only encounter them when I go back to my home town). Then again, like attracts like.

*sorry for the book*

 

[The ADD]

Malcolm you never chill, never

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

"That's how it starts..taking bytches out to eat, meals and what not, next thing you know, you wake up in a rest haven for hoes, a sanctuary for scandelous skeezers and stunts" - Riley Freeman da Gawd

truth

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I guess it depends on the environment because I, honestly, can't relate to your post. Personally speaking, the only thing I wouldn't/haven't done on your list above is motorcycling (I won't even ride on my Dad's motorcycle and I wish he wouldn't either). Not all black women are the same and they shouldn't all be put in the same box. My experiences living with, going to school with, and working with women of different races, religions, and cultures have helped me so see that you can't put them in a box either. Interest and hobbies depend a lot on education, SES, and geographic location. Non-black women from low education and SES backgrounds are similar to black women from low education and SES backgrounds.

What I've found is that at the very heart of it all, we (women) think about and feel the same things. I actually remember having a conversation with one of my friends (Indian) and having this epiphany like "damn you ARE a woman too." That might sound silly, but that is when I figured out that we are essentially the same. Our ability to relate to each other is based on education and SES and not necessarily race. Some (not all) Black men can pretend that they can't find black women with varied interests, and that might be true if they are looking in the hood.

I am not completely knocking your post because I do know black women who are closed off to certain things. However, in my life, these women are few and far between (I really only encounter them when I go back to my home town). Then again, like attracts like.

*sorry for the book*

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Ok. I'm about to keep it SO real right now. Black women are put in a different category than other women because black women place themselves in it. Black women are the ones that say things like rock climbing, biking, motorcycling, going to jazz spots, going for a jog, going to the park, and many other things are what "white people do." It's gotten to the point where seeing a black woman in certain environments is seen as unnatural due to how rarely they go do those activities. Black women also PRIDE themselves on how different they are than other races of women.

It's funny that in one context black women are proud of being different than other women. They talk about how much "stronger and independent" and how they aren't as "weak as other races of women" they are and how they don't do "white people stuff." Now let a nikka say "yeah, you women are different and the things that make you different, I don't like." Then magically black women want to be seen as the same as all other women. Black women really are different than other races of women because the culture is different. Black women don't come from patriarchal, intact communities like every other race of women on the planet. One second you take pride in how different you are and the next second you take offense when someone calls you out on how different you are. Then you justify why you are different, which means you admit how different you are.

Black women are in the "other category" because they placed themselves there.

 

[Sierra Mist]

Say I'm wrong. It's a cultural thing.

I guess it depends on the environment because I, honestly, can't relate to your post. Personally speaking, the only thing I wouldn't/haven't done on your list above is motorcycling (I won't even ride on my Dad's motorcycle and I wish he wouldn't either). Not all black women are the same and they shouldn't all be put in the same box. My experiences living with, going to school with, and working with women of different races, religions, and cultures have helped me so see that you can't put them in a box either. Interest and hobbies depend a lot on education, SES, and geographic location. Non-black women from low education and SES backgrounds are similar to black women from low education and SES backgrounds.

What I've found is that at the very heart of it all, we (women) think about and feel the same things. I actually remember having a conversation with one of my friends (Indian) and having this epiphany like "damn you ARE a woman too." That might sound silly, but that is when I figured out that we are essentially the same. Our ability to relate to each other is based on education and SES and not necessarily race. Some (not all) Black men can pretend that they can't find black women with varied interests, and that might be true if they are looking in the hood.

I am not completely knocking your post because I do know black women who are closed off to certain things. However, in my life, these women are few and far between (I really only encounter them when I go back to my home town). Then again, like attracts like.

*sorry for the book*

If I'm a millionaire and all my friends are millionaires does that mean that the majority of people in the general population are millionaires? No.

 

[BillBanneker]

coffee
walk downtown
patio
concert
sporting events


with black girls..its always gotta be a dinner date