When talking to a girl, how soon do you ask if she has a BF?

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picture you chillin with a bytch and she just all of sudden says some shyt like "you remember what i told you right?" "i have a boyfriend" that shyt happened to me before. if i wouldve known i wouldve left that shyt alone. a girl being in a relationship is a huge turnoff for me.

my breh...

You could have been the outside dikk that kept that hoe sick like uuuuhhhhhhhhh
 

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Bingo.

If she really cared about that dude, she'd tell me.

...and if she's lying, then cut her ass off.

The point is not to be too invested in these chicks. If she lies about that, then what can you really trust her about?

by the time i found out feelings had been caught already:snoop: i felt sick when i found out. even called like 3 times with no answer on my bday because i kicked her out when she told about her bf. i dont ever want to go through that again.
 

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my breh...

You could have been the outside dikk that kept that hoe sick like uuuuhhhhhhhhh
ya i met this chick once

her-sorry i got a bf
me-its all good we will remain friends then
her:patrice:
me- here save my phone number under "jessica" and text or call when YOUR free..no rush
her: okay :leon:


3 weeks later im in her guts..i delete her number cause i dont wanna get shot by some angry jealous bf :whoa:
 

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my breh...

You could have been the outside dikk that kept that hoe sick like uuuuhhhhhhhhh

my feelings were hurt at that point. i was sad and angry when she told me. i think honesty i real important to me, because if she would've been straight up with me it wouldn't have gotten to that point. the way she told me was so awkward i remember she came over late as fukk so i was real tired when she told me which i think made it worse.
 

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if you ask her if she got a bf...you lost already

ALWAYS ASSUME THE SALE breh

go in like you gonna smash her

and if she says no

she saved u time and headach

:yes:

YES.

I've asked women this in convo and they ALWAYS tell tell me that you're better off just ASSUMING she's seeing someone.
 

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This is terrible advice. A man should NEVER be the one bringing up a potential relationship, asking a chick if she has a boyfriend could lead her to thinking you want to be her man. All a woman you're pursuing should ever know is that you are sexually attracted to her, don't even imply you want a relationship till she explicitly says SHE does.
Asking if she's single is not necessarily the same thing as wanting to be her man. She might know that you're interested and that you're attracted, and won't mention a boyfriend just because she enjoys the attention she's getting and she's getting a self-esteem boost knowing she could have you any time she wants. You also risk having her tell you she's interested, getting together with her and then having her man walk in on you two. :whoa:
 

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If you express any kind of interest in being with her she really should bring it up
 

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by the time i found out feelings had been caught already:snoop: i felt sick when i found out. even called like 3 times with no answer on my bday because i kicked her out when she told about her bf. i dont ever want to go through that again.

i don't blame you for feeling hurt. It happens.

...but...now you know. :salute: :smugdraper:

But...she called you.

You can still smash...but you can't catch feelings since she bears some level of distrust to you. She clearly wants you in her life. Its up to you how you play it.

Do you want a friend, or a girlfriend at this point?
 

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the girl that im thinking about talking to now i don't find her sexually attractive. she's cute, but she's skinny doesn't have a body but she's nice and has a timid shy quiet personality. im think im a sucker for those type of girls.
 

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And I think its also important to note that there are very casual ways of asking if she has a man without seeming too forward.
 

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YES.

I've asked women this in convo and they ALWAYS tell tell me that you're better off just ASSUMING she's seeing someone.
ya cause shyt makes u more confident

some dudes here..ohh i got a bf

and are quick to :whoa: abort abort mission

long as she smiling..a nikka gotta stay persistent :manny:
 

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Asking if she's single is not necessarily the same thing as wanting to be her man. She might know that you're interested and that you're attracted, and won't mention a boyfriend just because she enjoys the attention she's getting and she's getting a self-esteem boost knowing she could have you any time she wants. You also risk having her tell you she's interested, getting together with her and then having her man walk in on you two. :whoa:

i asked my therapist was she single:heh:
 

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ya cause shyt makes u more confident

some dudes here..ohh i got a bf

and are quick to :whoa: abort abort mission

long as she smiling..a nikka gotta stay persistent :manny:

that shyt aint nothing to play with breh... the penitentiary and cemetery full of nikkas who got fukked over in love triangles. i got a cousin dead right now cause him and a nikka were into it over a bytch:wow:
 

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that shyt aint nothing to play with breh... the penitentiary and cemetery full of nikkas who got fukked over in love triangles. i got a cousin dead right now cause him and a nikka were into it over a bytch:wow:
depends where u met her

if its at the club
smash same night

and delete her number
give fake name






just dont have no relationship
 
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