I dunno, man. I just gotta..... get this shyt off my chest, although I know it'll prolly be back.
It's amazing to me how easy it is to crack a lot of broads. Preying on their sense of entitlement and pre-programmed social triggers....
It doesn't take much. Even if she's in a "long-term" relationship. Cause even though she's in it, if dude doesn't meet pre-qualifying conditions, she's never serious. She doesn't have enough to lose by losing him.
She can even know a man is whorish. It doesn't matter.
All a guy has to do (and it's like this in most cases, with any number of females, with any number of guys) is to act like/show her that you're not trying to fukk her. Get yourself friendzoned. Give her your problems. Even problems with other women.
She'll feel soooo overly special. She'll put herself over all those worthless broads you fukking. She'll point and laugh at you when you come to her crying about how you got caught messing around, justifying her feelings towards men in general. Haw Haw, nikka that's what you get. All in the game, though.
She'll also open up and confide in you about her problems. Specifically about her man. Cause she's already comparing you. She's watching your whorish ways so she can try and catch her man cheating. Cause, you know. If THIS nikka is a good dude and cheats, then EVERY MAN cheats. (if you're on the "good guy side of this, god forbid if she's so gullible that she says he's not cheating he's just "hanging out" cause he's nice and didn't try to fukk her. Drop that bytch instantly.)
All you really have to do is pretend to listen. And agree with her. Even if it's stuff you KNOW is flat out stupid. If there's a point where she is close to forming a deviating opinion from her man's (and you can usually hear it in her voice cause it'll emotionally stress her), then jump on it.
OMG a man understands her! Finally!
Of course this is going to cause problems in her relationship. Cause you know she's going back and telling him all the contradicting shyt you're putting in her head. And ain't no man stupid. If a woman has felt a certain way about some shyt for the last year-5 years, then it's not gonna change on the drop of a dime. But who gives a shyt? You're the one that got her mind.
It's the reason why fashion trends like it does. Their opinion of what looks good changes because other women's opinion of what looks good changes. They'll show a few celebrities dressing a certain way. That's all it takes.
It's the reason why all of those Oprah/Dr. Phil shows exist. Why all those magazines and shyt exist. Her opinion is shaped by well known authority figures. Be it Oprah, Phil, Us Weekly, Her doctor, a minister.....
And yes, her opinion will change based on either a man seemingly putting her on a pedestal or a man justifying her feelings. Stuff like that is done every day in mass social media and advertizing. It's a trap. Tell a woman she's never wrong about an obvious wrong and get her to react on the fact that she's "right". She'll be yours forever. Because god forbid she's ever wrong.
About anything.
I made a post a while back in some thread or another. They were asking how do you know when it's over. I said it was when she brings back another nikka's opinion, especially of you.... and casually throws it in your face. Lotta folks asked what I meant. That's what I meant.
Somewhere in all of her whining and complaining, there's going to be one or two material things her main isn't doing. She's gonna harp on that shyt cause she feels entitled to it. And god forbid (again) she doesn't get what she wants. Even when she's wrong for wanting it or not working to get it herself.
Her man will see it in many forms. She may let it slip that other men would do it. She may try new sexual things that you may like with him although she's never wanted to do them before.
When he sees this, he's gonna pitch a fit. He's prolly gonna tell her exactly whats going on. She's gonna feign innocence (because she's never wrong) and come back to you, crying and desperately wanting to be justified. Cause she's "right". And you're the only man alive that understands her. Even though she KNOWS she's wrong.
Their relationship will be all but over. At that point, all you have to do is "surprise" her with that one or two small things that her man wouldn't do. Could be a trip somewhere. Could be getting her hair done or buying her some shoes she wanted or a purse she was craving. You don't have to do anything else.
All of the other stuff that nikka was doing will go right out the window. Helping her pay bills, dealing with her silliness, taking care of her when she's sick, raising her kid even though it's not his, trips, dates, dinners, breakfast, whatever. None of it will matter at that point.
She'll be yours forever to do with what you see fit. Her man will be in the bushes. She'll say you're just a friend for one or two months and will only be doling out handjobs and sucking your dikk (cause that's not committed sex) so she won't be seen as whorish and selfish.
After that "grace period where she wants to see if the relationship is gonna work before she gets serious", you can do whatever you please. Put the bytch on ignore. Let her overcompensate for the guilt by constantly catering to you. Cleaning your house. Putting up with drama. Watching you fukk the bytches like you always have while listening to Mary J. Blige songs. She'll put up with ALL of it. Cause she knows the last dude ain't taking her back, and her esteem of what she's worth will be lower than it was. and "relationships take work." She's not going anywhere. The opposite of before, she has TOO MUCH to lose by leaving.
And above all else.... she can't be perceived as having been "wrong".
And the dude she fukked over?
He'll be trying to find some peace of mind by venting about the shyt on a message board at 6 in the morning.
It ain't gonna work, though.
If you're hanging on to new posts in this thread.... you can use this as a cautionary tale, or use it in your future endeavors.
If you read all of that.
That's my last two relationships. I'm not letting it happen again.
. Life goes on and i'll probably meet someone else but it still hurts sometimes
