Me too. I took out the trash and now the scavengers can have him. But it will always be this little piece of me that will always be sad and disappointed.
Plus i'll always wonder if he is in the same spot... because he has my daughter's ashes.
Me too. I took out the trash and now the scavengers can have him. But it will always be this little piece of me that will always be sad and disappointed.
Plus i'll always wonder if he is in the same spot... because he has my daughter's ashes.
I didnt want to make a seperate thread, but I broke up with my girl, super nasty break up. I got a new girl, younger, almost as good looking as the last girl, and she sweet, but I feel depressed. I miss my old girl she dont want nothing to do with me anymore. she did me wrong, but I did her WRONG WRONG.
Man what I did is so out of line, I cant even tell you. Long story short. We got pretty serious, I think she was nervous, not sure if she wanted to be serious yet. She kind of been giving me the cold shoulder, Im like its all good, I still hit her up every now and then. She told me she just need some space. Im like cool, its all gravy. when we had first started seeing each other, we chilling, and she on my phone (i know, I already hid all the damaging pics ) and she see my troll facebook (pics on it for tinder lol) and my insta, again, nothing incriminating for me on there. She flip through it, i tell her add me to yours. she like I aint got neither. Im looking at her like but I was so sprung I wanted to believe her. She had introduced me to her cousin a while back, so one night, I just get a feeling like she playing me, I jump on Insta then FB and do some stalking (call me what you want, but i gotta do this sometimes for my own security) on Insta I already knew her cousin was on there, I look at the latest pic (she posted after like 3 months) and look a here, its my girl liking her pic. I click her user name and her profile is private. I move along to facebook, find her cousin, then find her, I go to her FB, and she on there, not private. What do I find? Her liking every pic of her ex
she had dudes name tatted on her wrist, i asked her a bunch of times when we got serious if she still love him, etc and she said nah, and i told her get that covered up and she was down to
, and her ex commented on 1 of her pics and she replied with I love you forever and kisses and sh*t. At this point im heated/heart broken. I jump to her mans page, peep dude, he a square, but I got not problem with dude because its not like he know about me. This is where I messed up, Out of emotion I hit him up, tell him im hitting that, send him some pics for proof, etc, say some other bad things about her, he played it all off, he didnt believe me (or did he?). She hit me like an hour after that (mind you she was ignoring me for like 1 week) and she said her family seen /heard what I said, etc. Basically I ruined her rep with her peoples. Which is 1 thing you cant get back. I did her wrong man, theres more details but its just too nasty to get into. Her last words were like she told me to never contact her or her fam again, and forget about her. She hated me more than anyone in this world, and I hurt her more than anyone ever did, and she prays for my misfortune in the future, and she blocked me from everything app,phone,etc.
Man I cant tell the other 1 she a rebound, I gotta keep doors open LOL
That fear was reality for my ex. I stepped outside of myself and did so many things that I'm not proud of and broke someones' heart that was genuine. That was three years ago.
She texted and called me on my birthday this year asking me to fix her heart but i was so ashamed of myself that I acted as if I didn't know who she was.
yea basically just said, somewhere deep down inside you still have feelings for you ex. Meaning if he were come at you right way in the future he could still get in there...
It sucks bro, I was ready to settle down with her, have a family and sh*t. I gave her my everything, and I guess it wasnt enough. I wish I could just be like FDB, but I still got love for her. Got me listening to the weeknd "angel" but sometimes I hope she dont find somebody and come back to me, but at the same time, I feel like an idiot if I even consider getting back with her. IDK, I guess I just need time to get over her.
yea basically just said, somewhere deep down inside you still have feelings for you ex. Meaning if he were come at you right way in the future he could still get in there...
I didn't say I had feelings for him. I said I was sad and disappointed. If he came and talked to me right now. I would be looking like what do you want?
It sucks bro, I was ready to settle down with her, have a family and sh*t. I gave her my everything, and I guess it wasnt enough. I wish I could just be like FDB, but I still got love for her. Got me listening to the weeknd "angel" but sometimes I hope she dont find somebody and come back to me, but at the same time, I feel like an idiot if I even consider getting back with her. IDK, I guess I just need time to get over her.
nah you gotta get over her. She's the one who stepped out you....If she does it once she'll do it again. Especially since that ex has some type of hold on her, that she can't forget about. I know my ex will be back in a couple months, but do I still want her shyt was perfect between us............
I've never told this whole story on here. If I could tell all 10 years of the shytty ass things my ex has done to me it would take all day and blow your mind at the same time.
I met my ex in the fall of 2004. Gorgeous man ... 6'4, 240 ish, chococlately brown skin, beautiful eyes and smile. I was smitten from jump. I never felt that way about anyone else.
Fast forward 4 months we decided to be official on valentine's day of 2005. In the beginning he was really sweet. Cards in the mail, coming home to find roses, romantic dinners and the whole bit.
I didn't know this man that was charming the pants off of me was a serial cheater. I didn't find this out until after I got pregnant in 2006.
He got caught and I forgave him because I didn't need that stress while I was pregnant because I was already having complications. Fast forward 8 or 9 years... apparently he was still being a cheater.
I spent the weekend with him and I cleaned up because his house looked like the beginning stages of hoarders...LOL. While cleaning I found some gifts and some letters and cards.
A big pile was from a woman that he dated when we broke up for awhile in 2009-2010 and two cards from this broad name Keesha. Yes, that is her real name.
I read these cards and the letter that was inside one of the cards and my soul began to burn. The letter stated that she loved him... she loved him more than she loved her husband.
That she knew they were perfect for each other and she would do right by him if he gave her a chance. THEN, the second page. JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL!
This broad had been pregnant with his baby and got an abortion. I was like this is it! I'm tired of you treating me like you are not irreplaceable. So I hung out at his house all day like shyt didn't happen.
I went home texted him that I knew about Keesha and that I was finished. We continued this back and forth for a couple of months... but I just wanted him to leave me alone.
He is still trying to figure out what the hell happened. I was so disappointed and felt like a fool.
I cried for it felt like forever. I'm over it now. But I'm out of the dating game until I get myself "together" for the next person.
That takes real courage, to leave a mentally abusive style relationship. I commend you for that. I really relate with this story of having someone stabbing you in the back. Good luck to you!
Another time in high school
I went to the bus loop after school to see if I could take home any hot girls
I asked this one sophomore if she had a boyfriend
She said no
Then I asked her if she want to come to my place, I'll drive
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she dont want nothing to do with me anymore. she did me wrong, but I did her WRONG WRONG.
) and she see my troll facebook (pics on it for tinder lol) and my insta, again, nothing incriminating for me on there. She flip through it, i tell her add me to yours. she like I aint got neither. Im looking at her like
but I was so sprung I wanted to believe her. She had introduced me to her cousin a while back, so one night, I just get a feeling like she playing me, I jump on Insta then FB and do some stalking (call me what you want, but i gotta do this sometimes for my own security) on Insta I already knew her cousin was on there, I look at the latest pic (she posted after like 3 months) and look a here, its my girl liking her pic. I click her user name and her profile is private. I move along to facebook, find her cousin, then find her, I go to her FB, and she on there, not private. What do I find? Her liking every pic of her ex
, and her ex commented on 1 of her pics and she replied with I love you forever and kisses and sh*t. At this point im heated/heart broken. I jump to her mans page, peep dude, he a square, but I got not problem with dude because its not like he know about me. This is where I messed up, Out of emotion I hit him up, tell him im hitting that, send him some pics for proof, etc, say some other bad things about her, he played it all off, he didnt believe me (or did he?). She hit me like an hour after that (mind you she was ignoring me for like 1 week) and she said her family seen /heard what I said, etc. Basically I ruined her rep with her peoples. Which is 1 thing you cant get back. I did her wrong man, theres more details but its just too nasty to get into. Her last words were like she told me to never contact her or her fam again, and forget about her. She hated me more than anyone in this world, and I hurt her more than anyone ever did, and she prays for my misfortune in the future, and she blocked me from everything app,phone,etc.she had dudes name tatted on her wrist, i asked her a bunch of times when we got serious if she still love him, etc and she said nah, and i told her get that covered up and she was down to
shyt was perfect between us............
I really relate with this story of having someone stabbing you in the back. 
