when you cut a homie off do you ghost them or confront them?

[maxamusa]

Its immaturity to ghost, you sit down as grown men and hash it out face to face as adults

for some people confrontation is really difficult in general.......but yea I guess a part of being a grown up is doing the tough things sometimes

 

[BaRRyG]

I need to confront or I'll never get over it. I'm too old to be confronting mfkz but sometimes shyt needs to be done.

 

[Menna]

Its immaturity to ghost, you sit down as grown men and hash it out face to face as adults

Hash it out? But to hash it out the other has to have capabilities to not keep doing or to not revert back to old behavior later.

If you aren’t confident a nikka can or will change then what is there to hash?

 

[maxamusa]

Hash it out? But to hash it out the other has to have capabilities to not keep doing or to not revert back to old behavior later.

If you aren’t confident a nikka can or will change then what is there to hash?

hash it out doesn't mean violence breh its just American slang for confronting a situation


but to add another key point if u rdy 2 confront u gotta b ready for what comes with it.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Depends on how much they violate. I barked on my homie I let borrow my car and he returned it with the bumper hanging off. I had another homie who always borrowed small amounts of money and never paid it back, I just stopped talking to dude.

I let a homie hold 2000 to pay for an abortion in a situation where he was cheating on his fiancé and to get through the week. A year later, he still hasn't paid me. I've asked for the money back 3 times and everytime he says, a couple of weeks. I've reached the point where I feel disrespected honestly.

I pretty much know he's lying to me and that he has no intentions of paying me back. He's a childhood friend but I've kinda accepted that I got burned.

 

[RiffRaff]

If I get to the point to consciously cut you off we’ve been had confrontations

 

[360dagod]

I let a homie hold 2000 to pay for an abortion in a situation where he was cheating on his fiancé and to get through the week. A year later, he still hasn't paid me. I've asked for the money back 3 times and everytime he says, a couple of weeks. I've reached the point where I feel disrespected honestly.

I pretty much know he's lying to me and that he has no intentions of paying me back. He's a childhood friend but I've kinda accepted that I got burned.

Yeah at that point you just gotta take that L..

Cuz anything else will require lawyer fees and lives altered

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Yeah at that point you just gotta take that L..

Cuz anything else will require lawyer fees and lives altered

Yeah I've taken the L. It is what it is.

I'll make it back but it's just disappointing that there's been no effort to pay me back.

One of the things I've realized is that when people think you're in a good position, they don't feel like they owe you and you're really better off not letting people know how well you're doing. I making absurd amounts of money last year and this year I've taken some hits so getting that money back would be nice but I know I'm never going to get it. I'm not going to end our friendship over it but I'm definitely not going to be lending out any money over it.

 

[360dagod]

Yeah I've taken the L. It is what it is.

I'll make it back but it's just disappointing that there's been no effort to pay me back.

One of the things I've realized is that when people think you're in a good position, they don't feel like they owe you and you're really better off not letting people know how well you're doing. I making absurd amounts of money last year and this year I've taken some hits so getting that money back would be nice but I know I'm never going to get it. I'm not going to end our friendship over it but I'm definitely not going to be lending out any money over it.

Man fukk that nikka

 

[Vandelay]

I let a homie hold 2000 to pay for an abortion in a situation where he was cheating on his fiancé and to get through the week. A year later, he still hasn't paid me. I've asked for the money back 3 times and everytime he says, a couple of weeks. I've reached the point where I feel disrespected honestly.

I pretty much know he's lying to me and that he has no intentions of paying me back. He's a childhood friend but I've kinda accepted that I got burned.

I invested in a friend's business, $4k. I only partially got that money back. I've got burnt more times than I care to admit.

 

[maxamusa]

2k for an abortion

nah breh he robbed you. you need to go see that fool.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

2k for an abortion

nah breh he robbed you. you need to go see that fool.

It was a late abortion plus he needed money to get through the week and handle bills.

 

[Laidbackman]

Probably all three.

 

[maxamusa]

It was a late abortion plus he needed money to get through the week and handle bills.

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ohh ok my fault makes more sense

 

[SteelCitySoldier]

If they a true homie then hell yea you tell them why you ain’t fukkin wit em nomore.

shyt if one of my homies in my circle pissed me off to the point that I’m cutting they ass off then I’m definitely saying something because it is something that I’m ready to fight for so hopefully me telling them about themselves makes it happen. If it doesn’t then oh well at least I said what the fukk I had to say and it’s a wrap

Also I only have three homies, there’s only three muthafukas I value my friendship with that would even get that type of conversation so yea it’s serious