Basically it's about seeing past emotions and moving with logic. If you're in the right and that person is in the wrong, you can live with a clear conscience as its not on you whether they break up with you or whatever. You did your best and it ain't work. Sucks but what can you do? Cry, get mad all day, and all these emotions. If you're in the wrong, its about basically learning from your mistakes. Thinking with emotions lead to bitterness and passion crime. It leads to folks hurting themselves thinking that life can't go on where they just stop doing shyt. Logic just makes you move on, correct your errors and deal with someone who is worth your time. If the same person come back, you know that you have the option of whether to or to not give them a chance or how you choose to deal with them. Some people can remain friends, others simply you gotta basically leave alone.
However, no matter how bad it is. You can't let that shyt turn to hate even towards the person that dumped you or you dumped. Forgive them, wish them well and move on. Just be glad that shyt happened. Don't be all mad or sad because it ended. There's other people. Take a break if you have to.
Personally, Im used to being depressed, being disappointed from dealing with failures and disappointments, angry, rejections through different aspects of life and learning that shyt ain't what it's cracked up to be so I feel that I have a bit of an advantage when it comes to dealing with grief and shyt. Of course, some pain is worse than others but if it can't kill you then you can manage. I hate it but no bad feeling last forever even if it comes back or sticks around.
However, no matter how bad it is. You can't let that shyt turn to hate even towards the person that dumped you or you dumped. Forgive them, wish them well and move on. Just be glad that shyt happened. Don't be all mad or sad because it ended. There's other people. Take a break if you have to.
Personally, Im used to being depressed, being disappointed from dealing with failures and disappointments, angry, rejections through different aspects of life and learning that shyt ain't what it's cracked up to be so I feel that I have a bit of an advantage when it comes to dealing with grief and shyt. Of course, some pain is worse than others but if it can't kill you then you can manage. I hate it but no bad feeling last forever even if it comes back or sticks around.
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She gave me some ultimatum that if I call her baby then we can't be friends. That shyt confused the fukk outta me, but I knew she was basically charging me to the game, especially since we barely communicated the past two weeks. She also said something about moving too fast, but I told her "Nah, I'm not about that friend zone, there are too many fine women out here for me to be in the friend zone. Might as well lose my number 
" I put that kanye shrug emoji in there too 
. Didn't communicate for two weeks, ran into her and we were cordial and friendly. All my feelings came rushing back, I texted her a bit later that night "Is that you?" while I was waiting at the bus stop and saw her walking around, looked like she couldn't get in the building for her class. My phone died so I didn't know what she said until I got home. She replied with "Who's this?" 
Damn, I wasn't expecting that shyt and being charged to the game really hit me then. I sent her a text message talm bout "Damn, you wasn't playing. I ain't gon lie, I miss you". Got no reply 
. Couple weeks pass
I woke up horny af that day. 
The fukk you talkin about, I broke up with you two days ago
"yeah ok, whatever makes you feel better boo"
x 2
". Really thought she was one of those good girls that really wanted to wait but at the same time I'm like "
gurl you know me well enough, stop playing and come get some of this". She would always tell me how she was cold when we were outside, but I ain't about that PDA shyt, so I'd say "I'm cold too" and keep it moving 
It's a conspiracy theory 
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look and say "Hey ******, what do you think about us sitting next to each other in class?" 
