If you from NYC, shooting your shot is a part of coming up for majority of males
We live in a city where you can see 100 females in 3 hours and never see them again in your life
When I was 15 me and my boys would meet up Saturday night, post up in times Square by the big bright mcdonalds, and Holla at every single female in our age group that passed by. We got rejected a lot, but we also was getting more females than your average 15 year old. That shyt upped our game and confidence and for a while there i legit felt like a player, I remember being hyped because I fukked 3 different females in one week. You couldn't tell me nothing
But over time I lost that shyt, I got in a 10+ year relationship and after it was over I found myself not knowing wtf to say to a female. You gotta Stay on top of your game just like anything else
Staying on topic. If a woman thinks you handsome enough, right time and right place she WILL give you attention back