When veering into the conspiracy theories, I often ask questions like, who does this benefit and who does it negatively impact.
R. Kelly and Bill Cosby going to jail isn't an indictment on Black men in my estimation even if many people here beg to differ, I just don't see it.
While I agree with you about sometimes as black men we sound eerily similar to the white men we vilify, and in some of the instances we do it are trivial at best. When we do that we actually take away the legitimacy of real issues.
I hate playing the racial pissing contest that many internet platforms devolve down to, but you have to understand that while Bill Cosby and R. Kelly individually don't represent black men, the fact that their cases amongst others are at the forefront of these issues speaks volumes to the historical depictions white people have made towards black people. Media images compounded over time change social perception.
It's not so much a conspiracy but rather a refusal by the powers in charge who more often than not coincidentally happen to be white to self-indict themselves as potential threats to society. There's not a vast conspiracy to individually take black people down, but rather a conscious conspiracy to maintain hegemony socially.
White people don't have the same eyes as black people. It's why in a court of justice black men are seen as more adult and more vile when committing the same crimes. It's why black people aren't seen as sick when we go to the hospital. It's why black men are seen as aggressive in social interactions.
We have to acknowledge the way that black men are portrayed in the media is one of the biggest contributors to this type of treatment socially. And it's not going to change unless we call it out, and more importantly have a seat at the table with these powers that be.
I haven't watched SNL in like 20 years. 
