Who are young women dating?

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Age gap dating is only “weird” in America. Logically and biologically it makes sense that young women go for older men and that young men who aren’t top level simply get left out.
Yeah...

Ive gotten to the age where its hard to imagine dating anyone outside of 30 and thats pushing it
 

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^^^ That’s the correct answer.

If all the older men were seriously scooping up younger women we’d see a serious uptick in weddings.

A lot of chicks are actually shooting for the same guys. But they also probably aren’t encountering guys they want to commit to. It’s all a mess.

So basically they chasing broke and/or hood dudes with "swag".
 

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Not necessarily.

Attractive, successful guys who have their pick of women. 🤷🏾‍♀️
True but if that was the case why wouldn’t the women want to commit to the guys? In another thread a brehette mentioned a lot of women said they didn’t want anything serious with their FWBs because they were attractive but broke and/or dumb.
 

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True but if that was the case why wouldn’t the women want to commit to the guys? In another thread a brehette mentioned a lot of women said they didn’t want anything serious with their FWBs because they were attractive but broke and/or dumb.


They do, if a guy is handsome and successful, he can choose when he wants to commit. Guys that are broke and handsome are never taken seriously, or they can only settle down with a broke woman. And as he ages, his options become more limited
 

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They do, if a guy is handsome and successful, he can choose when he wants to commit. Guys that are broke and handsome are never taken seriously, or they can only settle down with a broke woman. And as he ages, his options become more limited

I’m speaking to women saying why they didn’t try committing to their FWBs.
 

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True but if that was the case why wouldn’t the women want to commit to the guys? In another thread a brehette mentioned a lot of women said they didn’t want anything serious with their FWBs because they were attractive but broke and/or dumb.
No- women do want to commit to those guys, but those guys are like 10% of the population.


A lot of the problem is ppl not understanding who is/isn’t on their “level” for actual relationships.

The FWBs are the cute broke/dumb guys because the cute successful/smart men are picking who they want- and it isn’t majority of women. Lol

Just like “dimes” play games with certain men but will change their behavior for the men they really want and can get- the successful attractive men.

A lot of ppl are chasing stereotypical female and male “baddies” without understanding that those two groups usually end up together. Everyone else is on the outside looking in trying to fit with ppl who won’t choose them. UNLESS you’re bringing the money or you’re beautiful with some deficits that level the playing field.




TLDR: everyone’s delusional. Women AND men.
 

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No- women do want to commit to those guys, but those guys are like 10% of the population.


A lot of the problem is ppl not understanding who is/isn’t on their “level” for actual relationships.

The FWBs are the cute broke/dumb guys because the cute successful/smart men are picking who they want- and it isn’t majority of women. Lol

Just like “dimes” play games with certain men but will change their behavior for the men they really want and can get- the successful attractive men.

A lot of ppl are chasing stereotypical female and male “baddies” without understanding that those two groups usually end up together. Everyone else is on the outside looking in trying to fit with ppl who won’t choose them. UNLESS you’re bringing the money or you’re beautiful with some deficits that level the playing field.




TLDR: everyone’s delusional. Women AND men.

What do you mean by end up together? When it comes to long term commitment, most women don’t end up with the stereotypical male “baddies” because like you said they outnumber the top men.
 

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What do you mean by end up together? When it comes to long term commitment, most women don’t end up with the stereotypical male “baddies” because like you said they outnumber the top men.
Correct. MOST women don’t. That’s what I said. The actual male baddies (successful men) end up with the female baddies/women of their choice, while the delusional women are hanging on offering their bodies just to get noticed.

Just like there are men who hate getting strung along by “dimes” but keep throwing their time and money their way, when there are plenty of nice regular girls who would love to make their dinner every night. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I said that, essentially, the prom kings and queens end up finding each other and getting together while all the ppl who really aren’t in the club waste time getting hurt by them.

The women who have their choice of men aren’t complaining. The men who have their choice of women aren’t complaining. 🤷🏾‍♀️

If ppl are complaining, they either need to improve or realize they are in the wrong lane.
 

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Correct. MOST women don’t. That’s what I said. The actual male baddies (successful men) end up with the female baddies/women of their choice, while the delusional women are hanging on offering their bodies just to get noticed.

Just like there are men who hate getting strung along by “dimes” but keep throwing their time and money their way, when there are plenty of nice regular girls who would love to make their dinner every night. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I said that, essentially, the prom kings and queens end up finding each other and getting together while all the ppl who really aren’t in the club waste time getting hurt by them.

The women who have their choice of men aren’t complaining. The men who have their choice of women aren’t complaining. 🤷🏾‍♀️

If ppl are complaining, they either need to improve or realize they are in the wrong lane.

Ehh I don’t really know if that’s true though. Many very successful guys have average looking wives who have great personalities.
 

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Ehh I don’t really know if that’s true though. Many very successful guys have average looking wives who have great personalities.
This is VERY true. But those are the women THEY actually PICKED, which is my ultimate point (I said “dimes”/women who are picked).

You have the women being strung along and not properly courted vs the women who are actually dating and marrying the successful men. The delusional women don’t know the difference between the experiences. And/or will willingly deal with the cute broke guys instead of paying attention to the less attractive good dudes who ARE in their lane.
 
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