Who are young women dating?

[lib123]

They can't handle it because women can't handle it. They know the headache/disrespect that'll eventually rear its head.

A FWB situation being limited to that because of a man's insufficient income is a woman's choice

That’s not always true. Money is many men’s biggest insecurity.

 

[Shadow King]

That’s not always true. Money is many men’s biggest insecurity.

And where do you think that insecurity stems from?

Again, because they know the disrespect that comes with making less money. Both genders are conditioned to believe the man should always be the breadwinner.

 

[lib123]

And where do you think that insecurity stems from?

Again, because they know the disrespect that comes with making less money. Both genders are conditioned to believe the man should always be the breadwinner.

Uh, other men and people in general earning more. There are tons single men insecure about their current financial circumstances. What you’re saying is true, women who earn more can make their men feel insecure. But men can still be insecure even if they’re with the most understanding woman. Most men making $40K per year would feel inadequate being with a woman earning $200K.

 

[Apollo Creed]

They are not dating, they are doing casual sex with the same men and calling that their man/dating, meanwhile the men are calling it casual sex . They answered delusionally while males answered honestly.

The stats show that women’s binge drinking is higher than grown ass men, so is the number on anti depressants (although the male suicide rate is higher) . The stats also show most who are 30+ or near it have never been in a relationship, some never even on a date, only casual sex.

Both genders are struggling but it seems like men are ok with at least just sex for the most part

Women's pride will cause them to lie and say everything is ok while their world burns down lol

Men are prideful but at least will admit they doing what they want even if it's stupid and call IT YOLO

 

[Shadow King]

Uh, other men and people in general earning more. There are tons single men insecure about their current financial circumstances. What you’re saying is true, women who earn more can make their men feel insecure. But men can still be insecure even if they’re with the most understanding woman. Most men making $40K per year would feel inadequate being with a woman earning $200K.

Again, both genders are conditioned to accept the man as the breadwinner. Everything you're describing is a symptom instead of a cause.

The specific gap you presented is far too extreme and would rightfully be an issue. No woman is entertaining that for a relationship.

 

[Wild self]

whoever they want too wtf

whoever making that p*ssy jump

what kinda nikka sitting around asking himself "who are these women out here fukking?"

that is some new nikka shyt

you can't hit them all just get in the game already damn

But it relates to superficial traits. Hence Why there are more single parent households and broke family structures than ever in recorded History.

 

[lib123]

This is VERY true. But those are the women THEY actually PICKED, which is my ultimate point (I said “dimes”/women who are picked).

You have the women being strung along and not properly courted vs the women who are actually dating and marrying the successful men. The delusional women don’t know the difference between the experiences. And/or will willingly deal with the cute broke guys instead of paying attention to the less attractive good dudes who ARE in their lane.

Also it’s wild that so many women still end up getting pregnant by these types despite all the horror stories.

 

[Gloxina]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Would you rather be with an okay looking person who is sane and gets along well with your friends and family

Or a person who has nothing to offer other than looks?

The person who has had experience being with good looking people and the person who's struggled to get their attention and generally failed will both think the answer is easy.

But they won't agree with one another.

OBVIOUSLY I’d take the OK looking guy who checks all the other boxes. But are we talking about an ok dude who is super overweight? That’s the stuff I’m talking about. There are people who don’t improve the things that are in their control. I don’t get to be a size 18 and say a man should over look that because I can cook and ppl say I have a nice personality lol

 

[Gloxina]

Also it’s wild that so many women still end up getting pregnant by these types despite all the horror stories.

Completely agree with you there

 

[jilla82]

And where do you think that insecurity stems from?

Again, because they know the disrespect that comes with making less money. Both genders are conditioned to believe the man should always be the breadwinner.

is it really conditioning though?

its been that way since the beginning of time...
only until recently have we seen women be the breadwinners...
and those breadwinners often grow tired of that role and lose interest in their man

in a relationship women behave much different when youre able to handle the bulk of the finances.

its like an innate response they have...
they cant help it

 

[Shadow King]

is it really conditioning though?

its been that way since the beginning of time...
only until recently have we seen women be the breadwinners...
and those breadwinners often grow tired of that role and lose interest in their man

in a relationship women behave much different when youre able to handle the bulk of the finances.

its like an innate response they have...
they cant help it

Then women have to accept (their) nature. But based on the responsibilities that are assigned to them in compliment to our responsibilities, they won't do that. So they need to make concessions about their modern standards.

 

[lib123]

Completely agree with you there

For the women that hook up with the broke or dumb dudes with ‘swag’ but are smart enough to avoid pregnancy, why do many still end up bitter or holding resentment (emotional baggage) as if they were used when sex is all those dudes can offer?

 

[re'up]

There's a concept called assortive mating. It's pretty insightful.

You can always aim up, but you have to BE in those places and circles. You probably not going to meet a multi millionaire whatever when you aren't in those circles. And you have to know that you will probably be WAY out of your depth in them.

I know women who scheme to get a husband like this, but it's not that easy. Even the ones I know who date all ballers, by the time that passes, they are like 40 plus and washed up.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

My current girl is 11 yrs younger than me

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

OBVIOUSLY I’d take the OK looking guy who checks all the other boxes. But are we talking about an ok dude who is super overweight? That’s the stuff I’m talking about. There are people who don’t improve the things that are in their control. I don’t get to be a size 18 and say a man should over look that because I can cook and ppl say I have a nice personality lol

You'd be surprised.

What is attractive to men tends to be wider. Fat women, thin women, fit women, tall women, short women, regardless of the body type its hundreds if not thousands of men who find that woman attractive.

I've heard about men saying they like BBWs and will look at a woman with a gut like hell brothazay stands ten toes down on his love for trannies. You got nikkas here thirsting over women old enough to be their grandmother's like Angela Bassett and Martha stewart.

Whilst I've never heard(in my personal experience) of a woman interested in a fat man and if hes the same height of the average woman and has a weak hairline and jaw? It's over. Non starter for 99% of women.

Nobody should be shamed into dating someone they have zero attraction to, but men tend to be more forgiving with what they find attractive and you see it every day on this board. MF could post a poll asking if they would look at nudes of Luenell, at least 5 posters out of 100 will say yes. Try the same thing on lipstick alley except with Lavell crawford and the thread will probably get deleted in 5 min