Women are suffering from “Mankeeping”

[PatCake]

This is the type of journalism that Society gets when internet clicks is the currency.

And why wouldn't they when planet has 9 billion people, through which you can find a decent number of people or tweets in which this mind-numbingly dumb discussion can apply to.

All they need is an 'anonymous source' and a couple of tweets to corroborate their "observation"

 

[ExodusNirvana]

I have made a simple observation about something, but I know I would be called a misogynist if I posted my simple observation. All I'm going to say is 'education' is a key factor behind all this bullshyt we see.

You see it.

 

[LadyJ2]

UNPAID?

Women want to be paid to deal with men sounds like they’re all GAY to me.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

UNPAID?

Women want to be paid to deal with men sounds like they’re all GAY to me.

That is the ideology that is being pushed at the undergraduate level and is now seeping into the 9-12 Grade level as well...

And it's not being perpetuated by "Trump" or "Republicans".

Do with that knowledge what you will.

 

[Braman]

This all circles back to therapy. I’ve been on that soapbox for years on here. The therapy construct is female dominated ideologically. It has made women’s logic and modes of communication the expected and accepted modes of communication. It’s also blended with feminism. And if you don’t speak that exact language, you are problematic.

Mind you, all this while most women are batshyt crazy.

So now their crazy and paranoia has a name or fail safe. No bytch there’s nothing wrong with you, he’s gaslighting. No you’re not a whore, they’re just pushing patriarchy. Don’t work on your own self esteem, ‘decenter men’.

And with this new one, no of course you don’t have an inflated sense of self and God complex, no you’re not nuerotic, it’s their fault bc you’ve had to do all that “mankeeping”

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

It's an issue because woman comlain about having to do stuff that they themselves take for granted or call "the bare minimum" from their partners. You don't see men complaining about "womankeeping".

Negro please. I see you and people in the thread doing it now lol, hence I refer you to my first post again. Everybody complains about everything (especially on this forum) There are no issues that are gender exclusive. The sooner yall realize it the better off you will be

 

[coldcall]

Women are literally known for wanting you to guess what's bothering them and fixing it without them telling you. And most of them are proud of this. Most of these articles and social media posts are simply engagement farming.

 

[Braman]

It's an issue because woman comlain about having to do stuff that they themselves take for granted or call "the bare minimum" from their partners. You don't see men complaining about "womankeeping".

And we’re way too far gone to go back

We’ve been conditioned to look at women’s bad behavior, and things a regular human being would need to work on—-for a woman it’s seen as a personality trait or ‘cute’

Being entitled is soft life. Being self centered is self love. Even small things that subconsciously push that narrative—-women are expected and accepted to be indecisive, contradictory, and if you’re dating a woman with these straits well tee hee oopsy just gotta deal with

Ie, How the fukk did we normalize ‘happy wife happy life’

 

[LadyJ2]

All of it is UNPAID

My goodness this country is fukk

Your woman has to be paid because you going through stress at your job, depression and anxiety because you’re parents are elderly and you going through it about it

And for your girl to feel sorry for you, u must give her 20 dollars a hour

The bigger issue is they think their p*ssy is payment for all the shyt they put men through.

They’d never offer to pay a man for being their therapist, life coach, errand boy, etc. That’s the “bare minimum.”

I’m glad I’m a straight woman and never have to worry about dealing with women on a romantic level ever. I’d probably commit that.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

In a perfect world, yes. But humans are humans. And men can easily get set up, so to speak, by the vulnerability ploy. Where women don’t want a man to self isolate, don’t want men to keep things in, but when he gets comfortable to open up, and spills too much, it all of a sudden becomes too much of an emotional burden for her to bare. Even if he does reciprocate, and listen to all of her traumas, stressors, stories, daily frustrations, etc. As men, naturally we would rather be listeners, than to open up and potentially project a certain image that may put her off. Women don’t really provide a fine line, between men expressing vulnerability vs trauma dumping or manskeeping. So it puts us in a space, where we would much rather shut up and listen to the woman talk all day, rather than express something that may put her off, or make her step back from us and the relationship. And then these same women will interpret your lack of transparency/vulnerability as self isolation. “He’s self isolating and I hate that. Imma take a step back from him”. It’s a total mindfukk for men, when that happens. I’m basing this on a fairly recent breakup that has left me fukked up, distraught, and depressed.

the article didn't say all that, it gave a specific complaint "unreciprocated" so it seems like a clear obvious common sense line to me. If you want to drag it just to have something to say "What about yall", thats on you. But I would just speak for myself and my experience rather than trying to attach demographics

 

[Braman]

Sounds like those women need to stop dating bytches.

Fall for the banana in the tailpipe brehs

They basically sayin ‘damn we gotta listen to these dumb ass mfers think’

And you said ‘Gollee, Not me beautiful! Won’t have that problem with meee!’

 

[TheJet]

Keep deez nuts.

 

[Wargames]

Fall for the banana in the tailpipe brehs

They basically sayin ‘damn we gotta listen to these dumb ass mfers think’

And you said ‘Gollee, Not me beautiful! Won’t have that problem with meee!’

I guess I am just old school that I dont feel like I need to cry to my chick.



Cause nothing helps a relationship like being vulnerable and honest with women



Its not like women judge men’s manhood on arbitrary things like telling them you feel sad….. They love to listen and not talk….



Seriously I express how life is a bytch to my friends who do the same with me. None of us expect women to understand, let alone relate to our struggle as men.

Real talk men need to learn to lie to women better not just for their own benefit but women’s benefit too. They can't relate to us or how we think. It scares/worries them.

 

[Braman]

Seriously I express how life is a bytch to my friends who do the same with me. None of us expect women to understand, let alone relate to our struggle as men.

Real talk men need to learn to lie to women better not just for their own benefit but women’s benefit too. They can't relate to us or how we think. It scares/worries them.

I agree with you 100%.

And at the very same time, that’s in-house advice. Man to man. It’s not meant to serve as cover for women being ain’t-shyt

In other words, if somwbody get robbed for their chain and your first reaction is’ lol well that’s dumb you shouldn’t rock a chain’….you get the point

 

[daemonova]

There’s nothing wrong if they are nor do I care. It’s the fukkin incessant whining and constant need to be outraged about something. And if we wanna play this game, men have to manage a woman’s stress way more than they do ours. A woman will have her entire household walking on eggshells if she’s in the wrong mood. Interpreting his mood? FOH! This is from the gender who will tell you nothing is wrong no matter how many times you ask. Or give you the silent treatment. Or act like a child if they don’t get their way. The narrative they’re trying to push here won’t look so lovely if the mirror is held up

Too times i got to play therapist to my mom, it's draining